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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: iarphairc]
    #18767482 - 08/28/13 08:02 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

ya thats a good way of putting it.

had a dream last night i had a threesome with her and her friend  :oogle:
i know what i want now lol. but shit that'll never happen.


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18767839 - 08/28/13 10:01 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

It's not worth cheating. If she is being disrespectful of you, then two wrongs don't make a right. If the relationship is not healthy, get out of it. Preferably with your ethics still intact.


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: naturesrevolt]
    #18768169 - 08/28/13 12:09 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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naturesrevolt said:
It's not worth cheating. If she is being disrespectful of you, then two wrongs don't make a right. If the relationship is not healthy, get out of it. Preferably with your ethics still intact.



:whathesaid: This....cheating affects the initiator as much or more than the victim that the act was intended for. ....In a negative way.


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #18768231 - 08/28/13 12:27 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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baltimark said:
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naturesrevolt said:
It's not worth cheating. If she is being disrespectful of you, then two wrongs don't make a right. If the relationship is not healthy, get out of it. Preferably with your ethics still intact.



:whathesaid: This....cheating affects the initiator as much or more than the victim that the act was intended for. ....In a negative way.




If they have a (strong?) moral compass...Some people just dont give a fuck unfortunately


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18768295 - 08/28/13 12:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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it went as serious as she lets it get. shes still got some kid in her. shes only 19.



Ow...in that case, I'd say she might already have some grown woman in her, but she's mostly still a kid. Neurologically speaking, she isn't even fully mature yet...

Either way, cheating on her would not be an appropriate response to the trust issues that you have developed with her. It isn't going to solve anything; the contrary is more likely.

You'll have to work out the trust issue and the sexual attraction issue. It's going to take a lot of talking and hard work on both sides of the relationship. It seems that you implicitly place the responsibility for the trust issue with her. The first step is accept your own responsibility in this matter. Quite possibly, she doesn't tell you some things because she fears your response. Could there be some truth in that?

Also, why do you worry about her smoking cigs, your weed and her having had sex in the past with this man? Why does it bother you?


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Anonymous #1

Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: koraks]
    #18768606 - 08/28/13 02:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

none of these things bother me, the fact that she hides them bothers me. especially because she knows she has no reason to hide them from me.

and btw guys the thought of cheating on her would not be to let her know or throw it in her face. but more stress relief on my part.


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18769153 - 08/28/13 04:23 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I'd recommend finding a new way to manage stress. You should talk to her and ask why she hides those things in a calm manner.


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: koraks]
    #18769337 - 08/28/13 05:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Quite possibly, she doesn't tell you some things because she fears your response. Could there be some truth in that?






I know its not directed at me but I've this problem with my girl.She has told me and its not like I get angry just some bad vibes...Guess I gotta work on that :smile: I put her through some shit with being moody and overprotective but she's one hell of a girl :smile:


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: iarphairc]
    #18770413 - 08/28/13 08:36 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Sort of off topic...but do guys think that women care about men watching porn? I mean, there are some women who get all silly about it, but most adults don't care. Shit, I'm not around during the week so I expect my boyfriend to jack off to porn while I'm out.

Anyway...OP, you're thinking about premeditated cheating because you believe that she's doing hurtful things behind your back and hiding it from you, and you want the emotional satisfaction of doing the same to her. People often cheat when they feel trapped. (I cheated on somebody once and I'll never do it again. It makes shit sooo much worse than it has to be. Don't do it, the drama is not worth it.)

It's kinda fucked up that she's helping herself to your weed without asking. But you live together, right? Maybe she didn't know to ask. The chances of her actually fucking this guy are slim to none, though. Just because she's fucked him in the past, prior to your relationship, doesn't mean she wants to fuck him now. In reality, she doesn't need to review her whole sexual history with you. You don't have jurisdiction over her past relationships. Besides...what's she going to say?  "Meet Al. He's my best friend's boyfriend. We used to fuck back in the day."


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Re: girl hides stuff from me, worth cheating on her? [Re: BittrBuffalo]
    #18770472 - 08/28/13 08:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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BittrBuffalo said:
Sort of off topic...but do guys think that women care about men watching porn? I mean, there are some women who get all silly about it, but most adults don't care. Shit, I'm not around during the week so I expect my boyfriend to jack off to porn while I'm out.

Anyway...OP, you're thinking about premeditated cheating because you believe that she's doing hurtful things behind your back and hiding it from you, and you want the emotional satisfaction of doing the same to her. People often cheat when they feel trapped. (I cheated on somebody once and I'll never do it again. It makes shit sooo much worse than it has to be. Don't do it, the drama is not worth it.)

It's kinda fucked up that she's helping herself to your weed without asking. But you live together, right? Maybe she didn't know to ask. The chances of her actually fucking this guy are slim to none, though. Just because she's fucked him in the past, prior to your relationship, doesn't mean she wants to fuck him now. In reality, she doesn't need to review her whole sexual history with you. You don't have jurisdiction over her past relationships. Besides...what's she going to say?  "Meet Al. He's my best friend's boyfriend. We used to fuck back in the day."




Yeah I think most women don't like their men to look at porn. Sure there are probably a lot that don't care at all but I dare say that most women dislike it. It's not something to make a big deal out of but I kinda understand where they are coming from. I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend was constantly dittling herself to video's of other guys and their dicks :lol: but at the same time her choice so whatev. I know she is already thinkin of other other dicks cuz that is how humans are so it doesn't make much difference if it is in the air or not. I don't watch much porn anymore cuz I know my lady doesn't like me jackin off to videos of other tities  (she would make a big deal out of it though) and I usually wind up jack off to thoughts of her fine ass anyways and I know she likes that so it works for both of us !


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