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What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over?
    #18769367 - 08/28/13 05:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

What is the worst way you have ever been fucked over by the opposite sex (or same sex if youz rollz that way)? For me it was a few months ago. I had been talking to this chick for a while. I had been on a couple dates with her, but after the third date, she texted me and said she thinks we would be better off as friends, and never talked to me again. I was shocked, as things had been going great and we had gotten very physical that particular night (not sex, but some intense making out and other shit we hadn't done before). I kept hoping for a text from her telling me that she was just kidding and had had an awesome time, but I never got it. This is nothing compared to some of the stories I've read hear before. So, what's the worst way you've been fucked over?


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #18769438 - 08/28/13 05:25 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How is her politely telling you she isn't interested "fucking you over"? 

I'm sorry, but I find that people, especially men it seems, are SO quick to pass the buck and blame another human, usually female, for THEIR own emotions.

No one controls your emotions or how you perceive a situation.  You and only you choose to react as "being fucked over".  Therefor, once we establish this is true, it's really only you that's fucking you over...



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That being said, I once moved to high level, alberta...a buttfuck nowhere, scummy rig pig town, for work.  I met a wonderfully gorgeous and outgoing redhead from newfoundland(believe it or not, lots of newfies in northern alberta).  We started out as friends while I had a gf and she had a boyfriend.  Over the course of 8 months we grew really close.  We both ended up single and both ended up dating.  She told me she loved me.  She told me the way I made her feel was so powerful, she had never felt like that before.

We talked about moving in together.  We put a rush on it because her living arrangements were sort of falling part(financially, roommate problems, etc).  In northern alberta, rent is RETARDED.  I forked out 500 dollars just to get on the waiting list, non refundable.  Once I got it, my references cleared, I had to pay the first and last months rent in a one year lease which equaled $3600 dollars.  Then I had to pay a damage deposit which was half of the monthly rent which was $600.  She only contributed $450.  So I payed a total of $4250.

One week before we were about to move in, we were having the usual drunk night downtown and she had a bipolar episode or something.  To this day, I don't know what happened.  But she started being a total bitch to me all night.  It ended up in us in an all out arguement where she was losing her shit screaming at me.  I kept asking her what's going on here and she said she's just sick of me.  She "loved me" only 6 hours earlier :rolleyes:

She phoned the next morning and felt really bad.  She sort of apologized, but was fishing for an apology in return.  When I didn't give her one, she snapped and lost her temper again.  She backed out of the whole rental agreement and I moved back to bc, losing out on 4 grand.

:shrug:  shmeh, at that time I wasn't torn up about the money or her.  Life goes on.  I choose to not dwell on it.

I was really good at living in the "now" back then.

Now I seem to let everything stress me out.  Signs of aging I guess :frown:


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked]
    #18769444 - 08/28/13 05:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Did you end up moving into the apartment? Or did she fuck you for four grand?


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: ChinChiller]
    #18769450 - 08/28/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Masked said:

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she snapped and lost her temper again.  She backed out of the whole rental agreement and I moved back to bc, losing out on 4 grand.




I couldn't afford the monthly rent on my own, didn't have any other options for a roomate and was sick of that shit hole, so moved back to B.C.

The landlords were seedys as shit, as are most of them up there, and I may have been able to get some of it back, but knew it was a going to be hassle.  Money wasn't important back to me then.  I just cut my losses and left back to B.C.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked]
    #18769455 - 08/28/13 05:32 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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How is her politely telling you she isn't interested "fucking you over"?




Well she did lead me on for several months. Telling me on a daily basis that she was so into me, and about how she had never felt this way about a guy before. Then she never has the decency to ever explain why the sudden change of heart. I politely texted her and told her I understood, but was just curious as to why. She never had the decency to let me know what had happened. Just an hour earlier we had been on her couch making out, and when she dropped me off, she told me that she had never felt this way before. 10 minutes later I get a text saying we're just friends. That seems like a bit of a fuck over to me.

As to your story, wow man, that is terribly, I'm sorry. You think anything triggered it possibly, or it was just totally random and off the wall??


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18769599 - 08/28/13 05:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

We had only been dating a few months before graduating college, and then she moved to another state. We ended on good terms. But a few months later, she got in touch with me again. She convinced me to quit my job (that I had been planning on making a career of) and move to this state on the other side of the country to be with her. When I finally got here, she told me she's seeing someone else now, and we never spoke again.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Anonymous #2] * 2
    #18769631 - 08/28/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

See this is what I'm talking about.

I think people need to take responsibility for their actions.

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She convinced me to quit my job




The decision was yours and yours alone.  YOU quit your job.

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She convinced me to move to this state on the other side of the country to be with her




No, you convinced yourself because you had feelings for her.  The decision was yours and yours alone.

I'm not trying to be an ass.  Just trying to give a different perspective.  She didn't fuck you over anymore then the woman I choose to move in with "fucked" me over.  We fucked ourselves over.  We choose to feel the victim or not the victim.  We choose to feel "fucked over".

So in essence, many of us...fuck ourselves over.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked] * 1
    #18769668 - 08/28/13 06:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah, I know. Trust me, I blame myself for this every day lol. I just wish she would have been honest with me about seeing someone else. I asked her how long it had been going on and she said a few months.

I meant that she was "convincing" me in the sense that I initially said no and she continued to press it for a while. I realize that ultimately the decision was mine. I don't think that makes her actions any less confusing or heartless, but I know that nobody forced my hand.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #18769685 - 08/28/13 06:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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I realize that ultimately the decision was mine. I don't think that makes her actions any less confusing or heartless, but I know that nobody forced my hand.




Agreed and understandable.

All these things make us who we are.  They build character.  :cheers:


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked] * 1
    #18769815 - 08/28/13 06:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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All these things make us who we are.  They build character.  :cheers:



yeah, I think so too. what's crazy is this occurred just after I tried psychedelics for the first time. the big revelation I had is that I have spent my entire life in fear and never took any risks. as a result I've been unhappy. then this situation pops up a few days later and I told myself "this is your chance. take a risk and stop being a pussy!"

oops! guess you can't just blindly throw yourself into every situation either


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18769830 - 08/28/13 06:39 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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guess you can't just blindly throw yourself into every situation either




sometimes, sure you can.  Keeps life interesting.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked]
    #18770565 - 08/28/13 09:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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How is her politely telling you she isn't interested "fucking you over"? 

I'm sorry, but I find that people, especially men it seems, are SO quick to pass the buck and blame another human, usually female, for THEIR own emotions.

No one controls your emotions or how you perceive a situation.  You and only you choose to react as "being fucked over".  Therefor, once we establish this is true, it's really only you that's fucking you over...





:thumbup:

Masked has some really good advice in this thread.


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All these things make us who we are.  They build character.  :cheers:




Very much so.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Cyclohexylamine] * 2
    #18771157 - 08/28/13 11:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Masked said:
How is her politely telling you she isn't interested "fucking you over"? 

I'm sorry, but I find that people, especially men it seems, are SO quick to pass the buck and blame another human, usually female, for THEIR own emotions.

No one controls your emotions or how you perceive a situation.  You and only you choose to react as "being fucked over".  Therefor, once we establish this is true, it's really only you that's fucking you over...





:thumbup:

Masked has some really good advice in this thread.


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All these things make us who we are.  They build character.  :cheers:




Very much so.




Masked is an awesome dude. Very thoughtful and open minded, with a sweet ass too.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: koods]
    #18771264 - 08/28/13 11:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Masked is an awesome dude. Very thoughtful and open minded




aw thanks.  I'm no saint though.  I have my moments where I could have been more thoughtful.  Especially lately, unfortunately, I am getting more irritated with some of our members than I normally would :thumbdown:

Glad to know not everyone hates me though :thumbup:

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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked]
    #18771447 - 08/29/13 12:37 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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See this is what I'm talking about.

I think people need to take responsibility for their actions.

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She convinced me to quit my job




The decision was yours and yours alone.  YOU quit your job.

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She convinced me to move to this state on the other side of the country to be with her




No, you convinced yourself because you had feelings for her.  The decision was yours and yours alone.

I'm not trying to be an ass.  Just trying to give a different perspective.  She didn't fuck you over anymore then the woman I choose to move in with "fucked" me over.  We fucked ourselves over.  We choose to feel the victim or not the victim.  We choose to feel "fucked over".

So in essence, many of us...fuck ourselves over.



Women can fuck people over too. I mean, I know that's not what you're saying but

An ex fucked me over when she came at me with a bat or when she broke my apt window because I wouldn't let her borrow $. Essentially, I fuck myself over for even messing with her at the time...but her level of fucking over was wayyy higher than mine.

Aside all that, we're homies now. We actually gotta class together this semester. I'd cut for her.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: itsthedank]
    #18774623 - 08/29/13 07:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

hid my sons existence from me till he was 14 months old.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Masked]
    #18776416 - 08/30/13 08:14 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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See this is what I'm talking about.

I think people need to take responsibility for their actions.

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She convinced me to quit my job




The decision was yours and yours alone.  YOU quit your job.

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She convinced me to move to this state on the other side of the country to be with her




No, you convinced yourself because you had feelings for her.  The decision was yours and yours alone.

I'm not trying to be an ass.  Just trying to give a different perspective.  She didn't fuck you over anymore then the woman I choose to move in with "fucked" me over.  We fucked ourselves over.  We choose to feel the victim or not the victim.  We choose to feel "fucked over".

So in essence, many of us...fuck ourselves over.




I doubt that we choose anything of the sort. I know better, but that does not change how I feel. I never chose to go down lonesome town and I never wanted to stay there as long as I did. My mind perceives these feelings as irrationality and utter stupidity, this does not change the emotions of heartbreak and disappointment. As a younger man my thoughts were congruent with my emotions but this does not imply choice.

People blindly fuck each other over. Is a woman who entices a man to quit his job and move across states for a relationship without mentioning that she is already seeing someone, presumably to create an option completely blameless? No deception to detect here?

We definitely fuck ourselves over, and other people, as they do us. I do believe in choice, only many need to do allot of process to get to a place where there are more choices. Blame is irrelevant, sometimes there are consequences other times we walk away scot free.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: usulpsychonaut]
    #18785507 - 09/01/13 02:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

This girl I was madly in love with teased the fuck out of me on a MDMA binge (stripping, dancing, showing, kissing) only to back out later claiming that she was asexual. All these things only happened because she was on MDMA, causing her to magically lose her asexuality.

My bullshit sensor was going off big time but she kept elaborating on it, even hanging out with me face to face to talk about it. To basically get sympathy for how it has fucked with her puberty and adolescence.

I had no choice to believe her.

As of now, she has a boyfriend and keeps posting nudes of him and her on her tumblr.

Pretty bad way to get rejected, just be fucking honest.

Maybe she was so anxious about everything that she truly believed she was an asexual? Not sure.


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: GoldenEye]
    #18788134 - 09/02/13 03:05 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

women are weird


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Re: What is the worst way the opposite sex (or same sex) has ever fucked you over? [Re: Dr. Crapsghetti]
    #18788193 - 09/02/13 03:29 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I remember 2, but theese are nothing compared to some previous stories on this topic

- I had a relationship with a girl for 3months, I was younger and I was looking for some fun (only). She asked me something more, I told her some bulshit: "we live far from each other" "it's complicated". Well the same day I told her this things she started to flirt with my friend on the rebound (in spite )....Their relationship last for years (2-3).
She showed evil and opportunist during thoose year,  a very dangerous woman!

- The other was a summer relationship with a 18years old. It was fun, but I had another in the meantime. One day I wrote her a text message like "How are you? I need to talk with you"...she never answerd me  (i tried to call her again) and I've never seen her


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