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Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup?
    #18764568 - 08/27/13 03:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Does anyone know of a good book or preferably something free yet in depth on the internet that I can read that will give me some tips to help me cope with a breakup/get over a girl?  Not just random websites with only a few paragraphs that say just give it time, let yourself feel your emotions etc..  though.

Thanks.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18764572 - 08/27/13 03:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

:popcorn:
I could use the same thing. My first and only love broke up with me like 3-4 years ago and I still think about her every day like a retard.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18764574 - 08/27/13 03:48 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Oh god don't tell me that.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18764593 - 08/27/13 03:51 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

uh sorry? similar boat?


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18764774 - 08/27/13 04:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

No it's really recent but I don't want to still be pining over her 3 years from now..  That sounds horrible.  I hope you can figure things out for yourself soon bud.  All the best.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18764791 - 08/27/13 04:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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No it's really recent but I don't want to still be pining over her 3 years from now..  That sounds horrible.  I hope you can figure things out for yourself soon bud.  All the best.



I think I will, and would have years ago, if I could just get another fucking girlfriend. I swear thats all I need.

It doesn't help that shes one of the only people I talk to, and she veryy rarely comes over and has sex with me. Those super rare occasions are literally the highlight of my entire year sometimes

uh, sorry for venting in your thread. let me think of some actual advice :lol:


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #18764818 - 08/27/13 04:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Nah man vent away it's all good.  Let it out.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18764826 - 08/27/13 04:40 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

hahaha, forgot to click anonymous that time. Not that it mattered, I just wanted to be consistent.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18764828 - 08/27/13 04:40 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

It's nice to know other people have felt the same way(not that I wish this on anyone.)  Have things gotten easier though?  How long did it take you until you weren't a fuckin mess?


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18764855 - 08/27/13 04:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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It's nice to know other people have felt the same way(not that I wish this on anyone.)  Have things gotten easier though?  How long did it take you until you weren't a fuckin mess?



hmmm. It's kinda hard to remember. for a while it was on again off again. Lots of after breakup sex the first few months. Almost the whole time I've held tight to hope that she'll take me back someday.

It was a two year relationship, and we were both totally in love with each other, and I think it started to hurt less after one full year of us being for real broken apart.

Bear in mind, I have manyy mental issues and problems. All of which were much much worse during this relationship. Probably what ended it actually..


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18765417 - 08/27/13 07:15 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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:popcorn:
I could use the same thing. My first and only love broke up with me like 3-4 years ago and I still think about her every day like a retard.




Same here. Except it was 2 and a half years ago. The last time I saw her in person was dropping her off at the airport, she kissed me goodbye and said she couldn't wait to get back. I think she probably fucked some guy on her trip and was too embarrassed to see me. She was always out of control when she got drunk so I know that's what happened...

Never saw her again. It fucks with my head still but not like it used to...I was a borderline alcoholic the entire summer after she did that

It gets better with time but I still think about her...mostly the sex cuz she was a freak in the sack, but she was a really cool girl too.


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18765738 - 08/27/13 08:31 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
:popcorn:
I could use the same thing. My first and only love broke up with me like 3-4 years ago and I still think about her every day like a retard.




Same here. Except it was 2 and a half years ago. The last time I saw her in person was dropping her off at the airport, she kissed me goodbye and said she couldn't wait to get back. I think she probably fucked some guy on her trip and was too embarrassed to see me. She was always out of control when she got drunk so I know that's what happened...

Never saw her again. It fucks with my head still but not like it used to...I was a borderline alcoholic the entire summer after she did that

It gets better with time but I still think about her...mostly the sex cuz she was a freak in the sack, but she was a really cool girl too.



Damn, thats a rough way to lose someone. Just never getting to say goodbye. You should try to get closure, if you haven't already tried everything. Didn't you know her parents?

It's funny, I mostly think about the sex too. Even though there was so much more to it than that. She was just so god damn beautiful


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #18769449 - 08/28/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

For some people they go through heartache cope and come out stronger. For me it's been nearly two years and it hadn't got any easier. The sad thing is that shitty relationship where I was lied and cheated on was my last connection to humanity.


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    #18769483 - 08/28/13 05:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I feel bad for you dudes. It does take years to get over a first love but move on. Get another girl and begin the process over. I seriously never think about my first girl anymore. Seems so pointless and trivial now :shrug:


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Re: Good Reading on How to Cope With a Breakup? [Re: Almond Flour]
    #18773090 - 08/29/13 01:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

OP, for the sake of getting accurate advice, please share what happened there. What kind of relationship (months, years, decades) and how things broke apart and ended. If you're ok with sharing, that is.

How to get over it: IMO there's only one tried and proven way to do so, and if anybody else can contradict me on that, I welcome the debate.

That way is this: 2-3 girls later, you'll forget all about this one. Whether you take 1 month or 10 years to get to some new girls, that's up to you. Boggles my mind when I see dudes still fretting over some relationship 3-4 years ago. That's IMO only possible if you haven't found other new women to stress about in the meantime. Then you have time to go home and worry and reminisce and all that bullshit. If you have a new female around, even a stressful one, you'll be busy stressing about her, not your ex. And herein lies the magic.

I'm not talking one night stands and random bimbos you fuck for a few days, I'm talking actual interactions that last longer, and get you more fully involved.

Even if you completely fuck up 2-3 short relationships, I guarantee that the 4th one (your current ex you're now posting about) will be all water under the bridge. Just think to 3-4 relationships ago, how much sleep you lost over those girls in the past month. If you're like most humans, then none. Nobody gives a fuck. Ancient history. It's not the actual time duration that matters, it's the psychological distance. If in 5 years you haven't had a few new relationships, or at least a good one that works, then you won't have enough psychological distance to this girl, to successfully forget her. Find new girls, you'll get over this one.

So IMO you should be hitting the PUA Material, which will put you in the best, healthiest mindset to actually get some new action in your life, and become functional again. Right now I'm into RSD Julien. Give it a shot, or find some other RSD videos or PUA vids in general, whoever you vibe with best.

I think videos are superior to reading text on this topic, because you get the correct voice tones that you should have, the chill body language etc, whereas text you can color with your bad vibes and it's less demonstrative, easier to misunderstand.


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