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Invisiblechooken
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I've hit a wall
    #18764433 - 08/27/13 03:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How could someone progress towards happiness and peace when something they are born with is immoral? I don't really want to go into detail because it will cause me to be viewed negatively but if you're quick you might pick it up.

I can't just change it, it's built in on the same level as sexual orientation. I can ignore it further but that will only pull me further from where I want to be - affecting my sense of self worth, confidence and social skills. Is it possible for someone to transcend something built in on such a level if they view it as bad?

Sure, I am not ever going to act on it - but if everyone on the planet were like me, the ones with little self control would cause a lot of pain. I feel cursed which sucks. I was going so good until it clicked that this was the main thing keeping me back in everything I wanted to progress in :frown:

I suddenly feel stuck.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken] * 1
    #18764595 - 08/27/13 03:51 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Orientation may be hard-wired, but object-orientation is probably learned, even at a very young age. I know where my blond fetish began. Doesn't matter. I married a Black female who clearly is not, nor will she ever be, blonde. One takes control over the irrational because a life led by irrationality is madness, and it pays a huge price. I also  remember the scent of patent leather from my mother's closet in the 1950s. That has little control over my behaviors. I have attempted to treat people with certain obsessions as a therapist, but some people are infantile in their development, and want what they want when they want it. That attitude is behind addictions of every kind, and unfortunately, it can be found among the most heinous of Dissocial (formerly Antisocial) Personality Disordered people.

If you do not know the source of your fetishistic yearnings, it is time to seek professional help in order to uncover the source, especially if it is in a domain that will harm others and get you thrown in prison. I have seen the harm done to kids, for example, from child sexual abuse. Fetishes, obsessions, compulsions, and impulses that defy moral, ethical, societal, and legal constraints need to be controlled before they cause suffering to others, but one has to leave the fatalistic, "I can't change it" attitude behind, because that attitude simply defies any possibility of change.

In any addiction, the 12 Step model works because it is very much like classic Yoga philosophy which seeks to eliminate the grosser, cruder obstacles to happiness, and only gradually refines that cleansing process. So, it is in your best interest, and the society to which you belong, to take responsibility in eliminating a destructive element in your psyche, and not in justifying a variation of sexual desire which is not grounded in normal biological or social functioning with consenting members of society. I'm thinking of Lon Chaney, Jr. as 'The Wolfman,' who asked to be locked in a cell during the night of the full moon. Now that was a responsible werewolf!


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken]
    #18764634 - 08/27/13 03:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

ultimately you are the one judging yourself and allowing others to water negative seeds within you. Every time a thought arises watch it, understand its origin and dissolve back to where these thoughts originally took form. It was originally a blank canvas, painted by your environment, you didn't have full control at the time of these conditionings, none of us did. But now that you understand that it is all a conditioned part of the world around you then you can continue to work on dissolving these conditioned labels.

I am in a similar boat of something so ingrained in my being that I don't think I will be able to transcend. I'm not worried about the end result of transcending. I am focused on the here and now and not causing myself unnecessary strife.

The seed you sow is what will show, if you keep sowing negative seeds then that is the plant that will grow. If you consciously cultivate your mind then there will be less and less negative seeds being sown. Every single thought counts. Each thought is a seed.

These thoughts will likely rise for a long time, perhaps your whole life but that doesn't mean you can't endure and strongly dwell in what is most positive. It's all we can really do to maintain because the opposite direction is only going to lead you further into darkness but the darkness and the light are inseparable. Some people don't find their strength until they fall very deep into the shadows, then realization occurs.


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"Life may seem to flee in a moment, but when the mind is freed of the veil of ignorance, and illusion that comes between the mind and the truth, life and death are only opposite sides of the same coin - "water welling from the fire."


"Within us, we carry the world of no-birth and no-death. But we never touch it, because we live only with our notions."
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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken]
    #18765274 - 08/27/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Most people will tell you to sacrifice who you are for the sake of society and other people.  But if doing so only leads to unhappiness, self-denial, and the impossibility of ever realizing the full expression of your Being, what's the point?  Of course, this is a selfish perspective, but in the end we all have to live our lives as individuals and you alone will feel the pleasures and pains your decisions produce as consequences.  :mushroom2:


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: Sse]
    #18766960 - 08/28/13 01:42 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I thank the 3 of you :smile: These points of view helped a lot

This hit me so hard as the majority of my life I've always been a very peaceful person but it felt like all this time there has been something just not right under the surface. Although I've been aware of this part of me since I was young, I never really looked directly at it until a day or 2 ago which caused me to research a little. After reading that people with this same condition have lower IQ, poor memory, increased likelyhood of being left handed, physically shorter, poor social skills and low self esteem it was kind of like a big kick to the balls because that represents me exactly. It seems like this is the cause of the biggest problems I've faced my life.

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ultimately you are the one judging yourself and allowing others to water negative seeds within you. Every time a thought arises watch it, understand its origin and dissolve back to where these thoughts originally took form. It was originally a blank canvas, painted by your environment, you didn't have full control at the time of these conditionings, none of us did. But now that you understand that it is all a conditioned part of the world around you then you can continue to work on dissolving these conditioned labels.




I have a feeling that this may also be genetic - which explains why my dad likes to be either alone or with only a few people, even though he's quite skilled socially (just speculation - but we share a fair few traits). Although I am definitely progressing socially myself! If something like this were to be genetic - is that possible to overcome? People say a gay can't change the way they are (which I agree (and I see nothing immoral about gays)), so does this transfer across to my situation if it's genetic and not conditioned? I don't want to be working towards getting rid of something I should be embracing/accepting (some how?). Well, I have accepted that is how I am, I just can't really find any way to be happy about it.

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The seed you sow is what will show, if you keep sowing negative seeds then that is the plant that will grow. If you consciously cultivate your mind then there will be less and less negative seeds being sown. Every single thought counts. Each thought is a seed.




This is what I have been working at for a while now but I feel I need to deal with the parts of me I don't feel good about before I can develop a solid understanding of who I am and in the process eliminate my self worth issue, which is what kills any confidence and real connection with people.

It helps immensely to have some place I can talk about this as it's not something I'd really bring up with anyone ever.


Edited by chooken (08/28/13 04:57 AM)


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken]
    #18767268 - 08/28/13 05:40 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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chooken said:
How could someone progress towards happiness and peace when something they are born with is immoral? I don't really want to go into detail because it will cause me to be viewed negatively but if you're quick you might pick it up.


I suddenly feel stuck.




Progress is sort of overrated But consider that (they say now) 14 billion years it took for the Earth to sprout you. That's also an immortal process with you as the star, and yet you still progress.

Also there's no telling the limits to human stupidity, here  are 14 billion years later and the only good sport we've developed is Football. Football is precolumbian.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken]
    #18767320 - 08/28/13 06:12 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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How could someone progress towards happiness and peace when something they are born with is immoral? I don't really want to go into detail because it will cause me to be viewed negatively but if you're quick you might pick it up.

I can't just change it, it's built in on the same level as sexual orientation. I can ignore it further but that will only pull me further from where I want to be - affecting my sense of self worth, confidence and social skills. Is it possible for someone to transcend something built in on such a level if they view it as bad?

Sure, I am not ever going to act on it - but if everyone on the planet were like me, the ones with little self control would cause a lot of pain. I feel cursed which sucks. I was going so good until it clicked that this was the main thing keeping me back in everything I wanted to progress in :frown:

I suddenly feel stuck.




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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: lolwut]
    #18767326 - 08/28/13 06:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Stop living as thoughts/desires/emotions

Nature helps

Realize that is not who you are...
the 'voice' in your head is not who you are, it can guide you, or it can destroy you if you follow it

Only do what makes sense.. you are in control of your own mind

Do what brings happiness to you and others

Desires create more desires, frustration, attachment, suffering ... they trap you, just like thoughts do if you overthink everything, just be

Nature, simple lifestyle, meditation helps remove thoughts/desires
desires rarely create happiness when they're everyday

Stop doing what makes you unhappy, keep doing what makes you happy
That is how to learn from mistakes, which can make you happy if you follow it
If something makes you unhappy you know it is wrong.... because inner self is never wrong

Give it a try, but if it doesn't work you might have to see someone about those thoughts perhaps if you cannot control them
Avoid stress in your life at all costs, it can make you live as your thoughts/desires/emotions


Edited by lessismore (08/28/13 06:27 AM)


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken]
    #18767415 - 08/28/13 07:28 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I will link you to one of the most moving films I have seen. I was deeply sobbing in parts. A reason why it was so moving, because I also emphasized with the homophobic mum. To be caught up in SUCH a false worldview and pay the ultimate sacrifice, losing your child, which you then blame yourself for---I cannot imagine anything more heartbreaking. But I also sobbed for the young dude who was going through all this abuse and pain, and the whole thing of it. I think this film--unless you have already seen it--could be really cathartic for you and allow you to express the complex emotions you must be feeling

Please understand that you have nothing to be ashamed of, and that you must embrace who you are and live...be glad you not living in these places (from a long list of homophobic places where being gay is not much fun because of insane people) Russia, Iran, or Uganda...I am gay by the way :smile:I was told that 'GAY' means 'Good As You'

Prayers For Bobby (2009) Gay, Full Movie




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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: chooken]
    #18767970 - 08/28/13 10:50 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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so does this transfer across to my situation if it's genetic and not conditioned? I don't want to be working towards getting rid of something I should be embracing/accepting (some how?).




I think part of the path to dissolving and accepting is realizing that although parts of you may be so ingrained, even as deep as part of your genetic make up; you still have control of what patterns of your mind you continue to perpetuate. You have to dissect your consciousness bit by bit, become aware of that moment when you begin to be trapped in duality. You don't have to keep identifying these aspects of yourself as negative, or these mental formations as negative.

These struggles are what make you stronger, if you can dissolve your mind bit by bit with naked awareness/mindfulness, then you can get rid of the conflicted pattern within your mind. You can begin to look at these negatives with a new light, a light that encourages growth/acceptance and dissolves what you have related throughout your whole life as negative. You will still experience things you may think as unpleasant but in reality that is a label conditioned by your environment. Truly these thoughts are empty, you give them substance.

"As we think, so we become. We can loosen up and dissolve the dualism between light and dark, good and bad, positive and negative, wanted and unwanted circumstances."

"develop a mind that clings to nothing"

You are beyond thought and mere concepts.

Pain is inevitable but suffering is not. Problems will arise throughout your life. Physical, emotional, attitudinal. Confront the less pleasant aspects of existence with patience and try to see yourself in an unbiased way, complete with all sorrows and inadequacies.

Rather than trying to hide it or disguise it, examine it to death. Don't implant feelings that you don't really have or avoid feelings that you do have.

"If you are miserable; that is reality, that is what is happening, so confront that. Look it square in the eye without flinching. When you are having a bad time, examine that experience, observe it mindfully, study the phenomenon and learn its mechanics. The way out of a trap is to study the trap itself, learn how it is built. You do this by taking the thing apart piece by piece. The trap can't trap you if it has been taken to pieces."

"You can suffer through things or can you face them openly- the choice is yours."

"You watch one thought leading to another, you see destruction giving rise to emotional reaction and feelings giving rise to more thoughts. Actions, thoughts, feelings, desires- you see all of them intimately linked together in a delicate fabric of cause and effect. You watch pleasurable experiences arise and fall, and you see that they never last; you watch pain come uninvited and you watch yourself anxiously struggling to throw it off; you see yourself fail. It all happens over and over while you stand back quietly and just watch it all work."

"Out of this living laboratory itself comes an inner and unassailable conclusion. You see that your life is marked by disappointment and frustration, and you clearly see the source. These reactions arise out of your own inability to get what you want, your fear of losing what you have already gained, and your habit of never being satisfied with what you have."

"You watch yourself anxiously groping about, fearfully grasping after solid, trustworthy ground. You see yourself endlessly grasping for something, anything, to hold onto in the midst of all these shifting sands, and you see that there is nothing to hold onto, nothing that doesn't change."

"You witness tensions and conflicts inherent in the very process of everyday living, and you see how superficial most of your concerns really are."

"You learn to marvel that all these horrible things are not fearful at all. They are simply reality."

"You see where it rises, when it rises, and how it affects you. You watch it operate over and over, manifesting through every sense channel, taking control of the mind and making consciousness its slave."

"You do not block these phenomena, you just watch them; you see them as the very stuff of human thought."

"You search for that thing you call "me," but what you find is a physical body and how you have identified your sense of yourself with that bag of skin and bones."

"You search further, and you find all manner of mental phenomena, such as emotions, thought patterns, and opinions, and see how you identify the sense of yourself with each of them."

"It all keeps whirling round and round as you root through it, peering into every nook and cranny, endlessly hunting for "me."

"You find nothing. In all that collection of mental hardware in this endless stream of ever-shifting experience, all you can find is innumerable impersonal processes that have been caused and conditioned by previous processes. There is no static self to be found; it is all process."

"under the penetrating gaze of mindfulness, the feeling of a self, an "I" or "being" anything, loses its solidity and dissolves."

"you vividly experience the impermanence of life, the suffering nature of human existence, and the truth of no-self. You experience these things so graphically that you suddenly awake to the utter futility of craving, grasping, and resistance."

"In the clarity and purity of this profound moment, our consciousness is transformed. The entity of self evaporates. All that is left is an infinity of interrelated nonpersonal phenomena, which are conditioned and ever changing."



Mindfulness by Bhante Henepola Gunaratana


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"Life may seem to flee in a moment, but when the mind is freed of the veil of ignorance, and illusion that comes between the mind and the truth, life and death are only opposite sides of the same coin - "water welling from the fire."


"Within us, we carry the world of no-birth and no-death. But we never touch it, because we live only with our notions."
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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: Sse]
    #18768415 - 08/28/13 01:15 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

It is my belief that everyone has everything.

These days people think that you're born homosexual -- I think that everyone is born with the ability to be into it - and probably most people have experienced it when they were young.

So, it's a choice to be into it or not when you're older.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18768427 - 08/28/13 01:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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It is my belief that everyone has everything.

These days people think that you're born homosexual -- I think that everyone is born with the ability to be into it - and probably most people have experienced it when they were young.

So, it's a choice to be into it or not when you're older.




Can YOU choose to not be heterosexual...?


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: Sse]
    #18768486 - 08/28/13 01:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)


"you vividly experience the impermanence of life, the suffering nature of human existence, and the truth of no-self. You experience these things so graphically that you suddenly awake to the utter futility of craving, grasping, and resistance."


just to clarify what is meant by the concept no-self

The concept of no-self means that there is no abiding, independently existing permanent self.

Each of us is a process rather than a fixed, independent, concrete entity/self.

Attitudes like "I'm the worst person in the world. Only I do these terrible things." are very "self" promoting.

"It is very important to be able to acknowledge such things, to experience the pain, and then, as Sayadaw advised me, to just let them go- "stop thinking about it." Otherwise, we actually enhance a mistaken sense of self."

Loving-Kindness by Sharon Salzberg


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"Springs of water welling from the fire"

"Life may seem to flee in a moment, but when the mind is freed of the veil of ignorance, and illusion that comes between the mind and the truth, life and death are only opposite sides of the same coin - "water welling from the fire."


"Within us, we carry the world of no-birth and no-death. But we never touch it, because we live only with our notions."
-Thich Nhat Hanh
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"Experience always goes beyond ideas"


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: zzripz]
    #18768529 - 08/28/13 01:45 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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It is my belief that everyone has everything.

These days people think that you're born homosexual -- I think that everyone is born with the ability to be into it - and probably most people have experienced it when they were young.

So, it's a choice to be into it or not when you're older.




Can YOU choose to not be heterosexual...?




Yes.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: zzripz]
    #18768540 - 08/28/13 01:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I don't know if I was born hetero but I know that from a very early age... around 8-10 years old female is what attracted me.

I could choose to be with guys but I don't think I would get any arousal, I don't think that would work out to well. It's not really a choice for me, I'm just not attracted to that.


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"Life may seem to flee in a moment, but when the mind is freed of the veil of ignorance, and illusion that comes between the mind and the truth, life and death are only opposite sides of the same coin - "water welling from the fire."


"Within us, we carry the world of no-birth and no-death. But we never touch it, because we live only with our notions."
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"Experience always goes beyond ideas"


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: Sse]
    #18770346 - 08/28/13 08:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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I don't know if I was born hetero but I know that from a very early age... around 8-10 years old female is what attracted me.

I could choose to be with guys but I don't think I would get any arousal, I don't think that would work out to well. It's not really a choice for me, I'm just not attracted to that.




Well -- why do people who never would have thought to get into it, get into homosexuality in jail?

I'm not trying to advocate homosexuality -- in fact, just the opposite.

Alot of people seem to think that having felt into homosexuality when you were young, or at any time, means that you're really a homosexual.

I'm saying that that is incorrect, and that you're not "born"  hetero, or homo sexual.

It's a choice.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18770692 - 08/28/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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I'm saying that that is incorrect, and that you're not "born"  hetero, or homo sexual.




Maybe not, but it seems pretty likely that we are born with a predisposition towards either heterosexuality or homosexuality.  Kinsey's research shows the majority of us are bisexual in the sense that we don't fall at the extreme ends of the Kinsey scale (i.e. the majority of us would at least consider the possibility of having sex with both genders), but we also tend to show a marked preference towards one gender over the other.  There are very few true bisexuals out there who have NO preference either way.

But to the point: everyone has a "choice" in the sense that we can go out tomorrow and have sex with any gender (or species :tongue2:) we please.  However, we can't choose who we're naturally attracted to, and these preferences do seem to be hard-wired in against most forms of change, short of radical brain surgery.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: deCypher]
    #18771140 - 08/28/13 11:04 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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I'm saying that that is incorrect, and that you're not "born"  hetero, or homo sexual.




Maybe not, but it seems pretty likely that we are born with a predisposition towards either heterosexuality or homosexuality.




It seems to me that the "predisposition" is towards a "butch" or "femme" role, which furthers shows that people aren't born into homosexuality.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18771390 - 08/29/13 12:19 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Hmm... how to craft a response to such a vague post.

I'd suggest, instead of trying to judge something as moral or immoral, it might be helpful to think about whether your actions are going to cause other people pain.

I've found peace doesn't come from acting on my desires, but rather, being mindful of them, so I can determine the REAL root feeling underneath each desire and then dealing with it.  Sometimes I realize I'm driven by my scars.

Is a desire holding you back, or is there a deeper feeling, which fuels the desire, that is holding you back?


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: LifeBoy]
    #18771776 - 08/29/13 03:56 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I seem to have come to the realisation that I can choose to do whatever I want but what I choose to do or not to do determines who I am. If I let sub-conscious tendencies affect me in a bad way, that is just me judging myself - like Sse said. And if I am judging myself I have no hope of progressing. I plan to essentially follow the mind-state described in Mindfulness by Bhante Henepola Gunaratana which Sse also posted. The funny thing is that this is the same text which caused me to start paying attention to myself in more detail and what caused me to confront this part of me after reading it only a couple of days ago. I guess that metaphorical hard kick to the balls made me forget to stay grounded and rational.

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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18771891 - 08/29/13 05:27 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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It is my belief that everyone has everything.

These days people think that you're born homosexual -- I think that everyone is born with the ability to be into it - and probably most people have experienced it when they were young.

So, it's a choice to be into it or not when you're older.




Can YOU choose to not be heterosexual...?




Yes.




So you mean that as well as being able to be sexually interested in a female, you can choose to be sexually interested in a male and have sex?
Has this actually happened in your life?


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: zzripz]
    #18771925 - 08/29/13 05:54 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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It is my belief that everyone has everything.

These days people think that you're born homosexual -- I think that everyone is born with the ability to be into it - and probably most people have experienced it when they were young.

So, it's a choice to be into it or not when you're older.




Can YOU choose to not be heterosexual...?




Regardless of whether there's a genetic element to sexuality, there is always a time when one must choose their identity. As a kid I had adults play with my thing, and I had to finally say, never again my same sex. I made a choice and never looked back. The idea that you're born gay is probably correct in one out of a thousand. I wasn't abused so much as lived near the street as a punkrocker and many of my friends turned tricks. And also, I had to decide to have sex with my own age group. I chose exery aspect of my sexuality. I don't blame the adults. They were just marks themselves.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: zzripz]
    #18772909 - 08/29/13 12:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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So you mean that as well as being able to be sexually interested in a female, you can choose to be sexually interested in a male and have sex?
Has this actually happened in your life?




It had been happening. But I started to realize that there was something wrong and so I stopped being into homosexuality.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18775906 - 08/30/13 02:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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So you mean that as well as being able to be sexually interested in a female, you can choose to be sexually interested in a male and have sex?
Has this actually happened in your life?




It had been happening. But I started to realize that there was something wrong and so I stopped being into homosexuality.





Well if that is so, I think you may be bisexual, but you are suppressing your desire for males because of your judgement of being gay must mean it's wrong.


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    #18776905 - 08/30/13 11:06 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Nothing wrong with sex with a man or female or both. As long as you are happy.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: Sse]
    #18777287 - 08/30/13 01:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Well if that is so, I think you may be bisexual, but you are suppressing your desire for males because of your judgement of being gay must mean it's wrong.




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Nothing wrong with sex with a man or female or both. As long as you are happy.




I believe that homosexuality is wrong. I also believe that ingesting cocaine, alcohol, opiates, etc., is wrong. But I believe that people should be free to do them.


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18780127 - 08/31/13 02:14 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Well if that is so, I think you may be bisexual, but you are suppressing your desire for males because of your judgement of being gay must mean it's wrong.




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Nothing wrong with sex with a man or female or both. As long as you are happy.




I believe that homosexuality is wrong. I also believe that ingesting cocaine, alcohol, opiates, etc., is wrong. But I believe that people should be free to do them.




so in other words you believe that pretending to be heterosexual when you are deep down gay is wrong, right?


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: zzripz]
    #18784667 - 09/01/13 10:16 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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so in other words you believe that pretending to be heterosexual when
you are deep down gay is wrong, right?




I believe that everyone is "deep down" a homosexual -- and heterosexual also.

I also believe that thinking you are homosexual just because you could be homosexual is brainwashing.

Humans have many things that they could be that they aren't because they believe it is wrong. People could be murderers, rapists, thieves, etc. These are all things that are "deep-down" in the mind. Does that mean that humans are "pretending" to be non-violent when they are deep down murderers?


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18785133 - 09/01/13 12:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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so in other words you believe that pretending to be heterosexual when
you are deep down gay is wrong, right?




I believe that everyone is "deep down" a homosexual -- and heterosexual also.

I also believe that thinking you are homosexual just because you could be homosexual is brainwashing.

Humans have many things that they could be that they aren't because they believe it is wrong. People could be murderers, rapists, thieves, etc. These are all things that are "deep-down" in the mind. Does that mean that humans are "pretending" to be non-violent when they are deep down murderers?




hmmmm. strange. I dont know if I understand you or not lol

First stence you SEEM to be saying everyone deep down is bisexual?

For me IF you bisexual you are, and if your not your not. You cannot pretend to be. If you are just into guys and a naked woman jumped in you would freak out, and same for the hetero couple. if you were bi you would love that

Your 2nd sentence~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ don't understand

3rd, yes we can be murderers and rapists, and many of us actually think these things but do not see them through--so if your aware of thinking eg I could kill him, it is conscious and not deep down isn't it?
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Does that mean that humans are "pretending" to be non-violent when they are deep down murderers?


IF you think it does that make you a murderer? Not really. Thinking it is allowing that part of you. I would fear suppressing such thoughts because they may BURST out as action one day.

But you cannot pretend to be gay. IF you fancy dick you fancy dick. etc. If you fancy pussy, the same. if you fancy both that is how it is for you. Your not pretending. I felt I HAD to pretend when I was growing up to fancy girls, so I know what I am talking about. I even pretended in a way to myself. That can fuck you up and this is a big reason I am very against homophobia.


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    #18785543 - 09/01/13 02:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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so in other words you believe that pretending to be heterosexual when
you are deep down gay is wrong, right?




I believe that everyone is "deep down" a homosexual -- and heterosexual also.

I also believe that thinking you are homosexual just because you could be homosexual is brainwashing.

Humans have many things that they could be that they aren't because they believe it is wrong. People could be murderers, rapists, thieves, etc. These are all things that are "deep-down" in the mind. Does that mean that humans are "pretending" to be non-violent when they are deep down murderers?




The psyche is like 'Schrödinger's cat,' all possibilities exist in potentia. It is erroneous to think of these possibilities and posit that such-and-such is what we 'really' are at bottom. This is where the wisdom of Forrest Gump comes in: "Stupid is, as stupid does." Possibilities become actualities in space-time. I am not a murderer until I commit murder. One cannot be a homosexual and a heterosexual in actuality. Schrödinger's cat is either dead OR alive in actuality, the paradox of being both dead AND alive only exists in potentiality.


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    #18787084 - 09/01/13 09:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Actually, good and evil, God and Satan, exist in our bodies at the same time.

The more Conscious a person becomes (the closer they get to God, Entheogens), the more they see that. God is the Tree of Knowledge of good and evil.

St. Paul calls the good side his "true self" since he restrains his "unspiritual self" from acting out its desires. He calls himself "an ambassador in chains".

(Romans 7,14):  The Law, of course, as we all know, is spiritual, but part of me is unspiritual.  I have been sold as a slave to sin.  I cannot understand my own behavior.  I fail to carry out the things I want to do, and find myself doing the very things I reject. When I act against my own will, that means I have a self that acknowledges that the Law is good, and so the thing behaving in that way is not my self but sin living in me.
    The fact is, I know of nothing good living in my unspiritual self for though the will to do what is good is in me, the performance is often not, with the result that instead of doing the good things I want to do, I carry out the sinful things I do not want.  When I act against my will, then, it is not my true self doing it, but sin which lives in me.  In fact, this seems to be the law:  that many times when I want to do good it is something evil that comes to hand.  In my inmost self I dearly love God's Law, but I can see that my flesh follows a different law that battles against the Law which my Reason dictates.  This is what makes me a prisoner of the law of sin which lives inside my body. 
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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18787209 - 09/01/13 09:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Always live by what makes you and others happy

that is the true self, true self is happiness everyday, follow what makes you happy

Share the love, because in the moment getting costs, giving is free
(giving is better than receiving)

Good and evil is in all of us all the time, but the evil we can chose not to participate in (observe thoughts/desires/emotions , realize that they are not who you are, see they do no good to you/others often, living as desires creates frustration/worries/attachment)

So I agree with St Paul it seems :-)

Desire is not our friend, it must be moderated/removed, and we all know it :-)

Meditation is key, nature / doing what you love at all times works too
and avoiding stress

Great truths in that quote you just made :-)


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    #18787255 - 09/01/13 09:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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The more Conscious a person becomes (the closer they get to God, Entheogens), the more they see that. God is the Tree of Knowledge of good and evil.






Not sure about god is the tree of knowledge though

God is love to me

and no knowledge, (no thoughts)  to experience the love

knowing nothing , experiencing
only knowing when needed

knowledge often gets us further from god I think


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: endogenous]
    #18788157 - 09/02/13 03:16 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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MarkostheGnostic said:One cannot be a homosexual and a heterosexual in actuality.




Actually, good and evil, God and Satan, exist in our bodies at the same time.

The more Conscious a person becomes (the closer they get to God, Entheogens), the more they see that. God is the Tree of Knowledge of good and evil.

St. Paul calls the good side his "true self" since he restrains his "unspiritual self" from acting out its desires. He calls himself "an ambassador in chains".

(Romans 7,14):  The Law, of course, as we all know, is spiritual, but part of me is unspiritual.  I have been sold as a slave to sin.  I cannot understand my own behavior.  I fail to carry out the things I want to do, and find myself doing the very things I reject. When I act against my own will, that means I have a self that acknowledges that the Law is good, and so the thing behaving in that way is not my self but sin living in me.
    The fact is, I know of nothing good living in my unspiritual self for though the will to do what is good is in me, the performance is often not, with the result that instead of doing the good things I want to do, I carry out the sinful things I do not want.  When I act against my will, then, it is not my true self doing it, but sin which lives in me.  In fact, this seems to be the law:  that many times when I want to do good it is something evil that comes to hand.  In my inmost self I dearly love God's Law, but I can see that my flesh follows a different law that battles against the Law which my Reason dictates.  This is what makes me a prisoner of the law of sin which lives inside my body. 
    Who will rescue me from the body of this death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord. 
    In short, it is I who with my Reason serve the Law of God, and no less I who serve in my unspiritual self the law of sin










'St Paul' and his inner battle between the 'Flesh' and the 'Law' is grim to me, and makes me shudder. I sense there evil. I see there the countless kids who have been brought up in utterly joyless households by parents who believe such a divide-and-control dogma as comes from the likes of St Paul and Christianity. Because that is exactly what it is--DIVIDE and CONTROL at a very deep personal level.


Look, when you begin looking deeply at how elites, the 'masters' try and control their 'slaves', you keep seeing their major strategy of divide and control. And what they have done with these patriarchal stories or myths is bring this strategy internally so that the victim feels literally divided from their own body and nature, and thus they are unsteady (juddering/anxious/fearful) and in constant turmoil---distrusting themselves, AND fixing their allegiance to......? To 'God' and what does this 'God' represent, the 'Law', and what is this 'Law' in allegiance with? The State! BECAUSE OF FEAR, and that is the point of their strategy! See how it works? If the 'God/author-ity/State can divide you from your self, this means you are a shuddering wreck who is easily manipulated, because you are not whole, and are dependent on their authority. You fear and are divided from your body and nature, and also the natural world, because remember that myth blames the natural world for sin, calling it 'fallen'. So they psychologically cut you off from your own nature, and the natural world, and the other species.

And the trouble continues, because when the culture supposedly casts all this religious dogma off, because it has not really been resolved (examined, and deeply seen through) it goes unconscious and acts out from their social-controlling institutions like Psychiatry, where masturbation became a "mental illness", as did "homosexuality" etc etc. So again we see the divide and control strategy continuing, right?


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Re: I've hit a wall [Re: zzripz]
    #18788195 - 09/02/13 03:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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And the trouble continues, because when the culture supposedly casts all this religious dogma off, because it has not really been resolved (examined, and deeply seen through) it goes unconscious and acts out from their social-controlling institutions like Psychiatry, where masturbation became a "mental illness", as did "homosexuality" etc etc. So again we see the divide and control strategy continuing, right?




That makes me consider the boss/worker relationship, and how it's taken as read that the boss has the power to instill fear, try to force respect, are allowed to be absolute smart-asses, can literally reduce people to almost tears and get away with it, while the worker feels shaken and feels the need to just do more and more and more work to try to get the boss to stop it while the boss sees that they now "own" the worker so force them to try even harder ad infinitum. I'd like to hear your take on this


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    #18788725 - 09/02/13 08:50 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Life is full of ups and downs dude. They are not negative, they are just learning experiences allowing you to evolve and get a more clear picture of your life. It's how you grow and evolve dude, embrace it.


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    #18788884 - 09/02/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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And the trouble continues, because when the culture supposedly casts all this religious dogma off, because it has not really been resolved (examined, and deeply seen through) it goes unconscious and acts out from their social-controlling institutions like Psychiatry, where masturbation became a "mental illness", as did "homosexuality" etc etc. So again we see the divide and control strategy continuing, right?




That makes me consider the boss/worker relationship, and how it's taken as read that the boss has the power to instill fear, try to force respect, are allowed to be absolute smart-asses, can literally reduce people to almost tears and get away with it, while the worker feels shaken and feels the need to just do more and more and more work to try to get the boss to stop it while the boss sees that they now "own" the worker so force them to try even harder ad infinitum. I'd like to hear your take on this




Yes that is like a micro scenario of the macro scenario--the big myths that control millions through the generations. it is the same design--the master/slave hierarchy

The bos has the power to take away you money. If he does you lose your home, you may starve, you may have kids you need to support and od and on, and he then can fuck with you cause he feels he has the power.
With the 'God' it is even 'after death' the threat continues, because you are guilted that if you don't obey then this means EVER-LASTING punishment in "Hell"! So if the 'police' don't get you in this life they well when yer dead.

So you can see a similar theme between the small scene and the larger manipulations.

Also with this comes the victim-perpetrator syndrome. This is exampled in the battered wife scenario where the husband batters her, and takes away all her confidence and has her like a shuddering wreck, especially when he comes into her space, BUT often she will defend him to others, and believe she loves him and can change him and/or that she must deserve the abuse she's getting. This pattern is also part of the Christian religious abuse where peoples who have been taken over by that belief system end up defending it, and pushing it on their kids----so the abuse goes down the line.

In sexuality often people who have suffered abuse psychologically transfer this into their sexual identity and you get the S&M trip where people will 'choose' to be submissive to a 'master/sadist' for sexual gratification, and so go to extremes in this!


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    #18797044 - 09/03/13 10:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

It seems that you are thinking that the "Law" that St. Paul is talking about is the same "law" that the "Jews" of his time considered to be the law.

But that wasn't the case then, and it's still not the case.

The "Law" that St. Paul is talking about is the Law of Reason. That is very different from the worldly law -- which was actually the law of sin.

St. Paul wrote: We would have been justified by the Law if the Law we were given had been capable of giving life, but it is not: scripture makes no exceptions when it says that sin is master everywhere. -- Galatians 3, 21


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