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This girl is really confusing. Last night we texted and she was like, "I can't wait to hang out Friday with you, it's gonna be awesome!" Then today I text her and I was like "Yea, my weekend was aight, but Friday will rock!" And she was like, what's Friday? So I told her, werent we supposed to kinda go on a date? And she was like, "Ohhh, yesss!(:" Then I told her I was excited and that I was really into her and that I thought she was insanely sweet. Tha twas around 3 PM, and that was our final contact. I don't know why she hasn't responded, but I don't know. I know in relaity it's probably nothing to worry about, because she's out in the sticks and told me she'd be able to talk more when she was home and had better reception, but still, you know you just create all these terrible scenarios in your mind, like what if.
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How to lose at poker - show the other player your cards.
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Repertoire89
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Then I told her I was excited and that I was really into her and that I thought she was insanely sweet.
Kind of a weird thing to say mr.clingy
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oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
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Dr. Crapsghetti
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I've had nothing but terrible experiences. If you were me, your irrational fears would turn out to be true, and probably even worse than how you imagined them; but since you're not me, you've probably met someone who actually likes you and is not just pretending to.
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Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about
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Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about 
Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
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pwnasaurus
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Anonymous said: oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about 
Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
That's definitely a weird and clingy thing to say to someone over text whom you're not particularly close with.
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about 
Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
That's definitely a weird and clingy thing to say to someone over text whom you're not particularly close with.
But did you do that when it all came to?
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pwnasaurus
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This makes absolutely no sense.
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I'm not paranoid, it doesn't matter to me what women think about me. It seems to matter to you too much, which is why I called you clingy
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I'm not paranoid, it doesn't matter to me what women think about me. It seems to matter to you too much, which is why I called you clingy
Shocking...denial also seems to be a side effect.
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I'm not paranoid, it doesn't matter to me what women think about me. It seems to matter to you too much, which is why I called you clingy
Shocking...denial also seems to be a side effect.


Wow this is pathetic.
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OP why did you make a thread if you were just going to ignore everybody's advice? You are clingy man. People don't like that. Every single person in the thread is telling you that. Do you not think that means it might be true?
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: pwnasaurus]
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I guess I came off kind of rude, wasn't trying to be though 
There was a time when I was really clingy, never got mistreated by a girl like OP is suggesting but eventually got tired of thinking about women that way. Realized its a lot easier not to care and being single is more up my alley. Nothing negative about it
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I apologize. In all seriousness, I am a bit clingy, I know that, and I understand that it is unattractive and I am working on that. While I am clingy at times, a lot of what seems like clinginess is paranoia. The last 3 girls I have dated have cheated on me, which has resulted in my increased paranoia/clingy nature. I used to be extremely independent and didn't have a clingy bone in my body. I guess this has happened because in previous relationships, what seemed like someone just being busy was actually your girlfriend out fucking another guy, so I just get real uneasy these days when a lose contact with a girl I've been talking to. I never show it though. I never go off on texting rampages demanding her whereabouts, I keep it lal internal. Still not healthy though, I suppose.
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Trust is a hard thing to get back once its lost, I feel for you OP
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Sounds like you're being too pushy/acting overly excited... should have just asked her out for a coffee and a chat rather than forcing her to commit to a date right off the bat. Chill out. She doesn't need to text you back right away.
Females are like cats, give them too much attention and they go away. Give them just a little bit, enough to make them curious.
Try not giving her so much attention, and see what happens.
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