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Re: Am I misinterpretting what I"m seeing? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#18761505 - 08/26/13 09:22 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Wait what?
I admitted it sounds like bullshit, I don't think I"m blinded by my feelings for her. I realize what this situation looks like, which is that she's a cheating cunt.
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Re: Am I misinterpretting what I"m seeing? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18761548 - 08/26/13 09:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Wait what?
I admitted it sounds like bullshit, I don't think I"m blinded by my feelings for her. I realize what this situation looks like, which is that she's a cheating cunt.
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Anonymous said: I want to believe what she has to say, from her responses to my texts she seems very genuine. And we've had this conversation before, once about this same person and another person, each time she was like "I'm sorry for how it looks."
I've trusted her every time, but I think this is the last time. If she was really sorry for how it looked, it wouldn't happen again.
She just replied with "I dunno what to tell you love, i know it doesnt look good. if you want to see me ill come over, if not ill just go home."
To me that sounds like she's so eager to not come over. Normally she wants to do anything to spend time with me. I feel like I Should call her out, but to be honest, I'm pretty much done trying.
I think I'm just going to kick it at my crib tonight by myself, and contemplate what to do. Me thinks I'll be going to my cabin by my self.
It sounds to me like you're blinding yourself on purpose because of the hurt it may cause, while your rationality understands what's happening and is asking for time to accept it.
Let us know what results of your contemplation!
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Re: Am I misinterpretting what I"m seeing? [Re: balanced]
#18761560 - 08/26/13 09:36 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well I won't disagree that at first I was blind sided, but I don't think I am anymore.
She's suggesting she comes over to my house, but I'm not sure if I even want her here.
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Re: Am I misinterpretting what I"m seeing? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18761574 - 08/26/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think you're making a wise decision. You need to figure some things out for yourself. If you still want to talk to her tomorrow, you can. A night off won't hurt anything that doesn't deserve being hurt.
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Re: Am I misinterpretting what I"m seeing? [Re: deadwk]
#18762204 - 08/27/13 12:46 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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thedeadwalkk said: Well I'm talking to her through texting right now, not sure if I should bring it up.
Question:
Why go anonymous to start the thread, then here in the middle, you reveal....only to go anonymous again?
My advice....you have to decide if shes lying or not. No one can decide that for you. If you decide she has, then decide if you want to be with a woman who cheats, or at the very least, sexts, with other men. Easy as that.
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