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I think I am in love with my bestfriend
    #18752810 - 08/24/13 07:31 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

My best friend (who has been my best friend since I was in 8th grade) is about to get married. Her boyfriend and her fight pretty often, and almost called it quits last night. She's getting married at the beginning of September, yet they fight constantly. She says it's not over big stuff, just over "him making me feel insecure and not good about myself". Those sound like pretty big problems to deal with for a life time. I told her it wasn't my place, but that she may want to think things over and just stay engaged for a while longer until she was positive he was what she wanted. She told me even though they fight, she loves him, and "Who knows, we may get divorced down the road. Fuck, I may be blind and the guy I could spend my life with may be right in front of me and I haven't even realized it." And then she proceeded to tell me of how she went out to a club a week ago and how this guy was hitting on her and how great it made her feel. She said he looked a bit like me. I concluded several month ago that I love her, but don't know what to say. I want to feel like she was talking about me when she said "The guy I could spend the rest of my life with could be right in front of me." but I know she was probably just making a statement and didn't mean it like that. Sighhhh, life.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18752829 - 08/24/13 07:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Shoot


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18752860 - 08/24/13 07:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

She sounds awful. Stay away. Right before marriage she's talking about divorce, and how good it made her feel to get hit on from guys at a club, and then fishes for you to hit on her. All trouble, stay away.

On the other hand, I bet she'll let you DSHSB, NSA :thumbup:

But don't get into a relationship with her!


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: nooneman] * 1
    #18753026 - 08/24/13 08:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Past sex relationships are just a drag IME


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: nooneman]
    #18754154 - 08/25/13 06:03 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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She sounds awful. Stay away. Right before marriage she's talking about divorce, and how good it made her feel to get hit on from guys at a club, and then fishes for you to hit on her. All trouble, stay away.

On the other hand, I bet she'll let you DSHSB, NSA :thumbup:

But don't get into a relationship with her!




By NSA you better mean she'll only let him do it if the National Security Association are watching and not some stupid shit about no strings attached. Seriously though, this guy has said everything you need to hear. She is trash. Treat it as if what she said to you was, "I'm about to get married but that commitment isn't enough to make me secure because I'm an emotional trainwreck so I'm gonna fuck with other guys too."


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: EllisDSox]
    #18755268 - 08/25/13 01:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I guess I'll just wait. I'd bet my life that the marriage doesn't last more than 2 years. I'm not hoping that it goes like that, I honestly want her happiness, but from a realistic standpoint, I just don't seem them working out for long. It'll end in a year or so, if not earlier, and then I'll take my chance as the hero to the rescue.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18755286 - 08/25/13 02:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

If you really like her I would tell her asap. Otherwise you'll be wondering what if.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: TrentBoyett]
    #18755306 - 08/25/13 02:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Well yesterday she was fishing for me to hit on her, and I texted her this morning telling her that I know things have been rough for her lately, but to remember people love her and that she is extremely beautiful and to never feel otherwise. And she was like "Omg, that made my day. You're a great friend." So that seemed like a pretty obvious friend zone. And last night I was complimenting her and she was like "Awhh man, youre so damn sweet. No lie, I used to like you before I and so and so got together." So idk.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18755331 - 08/25/13 02:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Just tell her how you feel. Otherwise you are going to hate yourself forever. Who knows what will happen in the future, maybe one of you dies.

Man up and get it over with!


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18755581 - 08/25/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Well yesterday she was fishing for me to hit on her, and I texted her this morning telling her that I know things have been rough for her lately, but to remember people love her and that she is extremely beautiful and to never feel otherwise. And she was like "Omg, that made my day. You're a great friend." So that seemed like a pretty obvious friend zone. And last night I was complimenting her and she was like "Awhh man, youre so damn sweet. No lie, I used to like you before I and so and so got together." So idk.




You're digging yourself deeper and deeper into the friendzone, don't even feel sorry for you :shrug:

You want something then go for it, shit or get off the pot.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18755624 - 08/25/13 03:25 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
Well yesterday she was fishing for me to hit on her, and I texted her this morning telling her that I know things have been rough for her lately, but to remember people love her and that she is extremely beautiful and to never feel otherwise. And she was like "Omg, that made my day. You're a great friend." So that seemed like a pretty obvious friend zone. And last night I was complimenting her and she was like "Awhh man, youre so damn sweet. No lie, I used to like you before I and so and so got together." So idk.




You're digging yourself deeper and deeper into the friendzone, don't even feel sorry for you :shrug:

You want something then go for it, shit or get off the pot.




how am i digging deeper into the friend zone?


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18755700 - 08/25/13 03:43 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

By not doing or saying anything, that comment was harsh though I don't know why I was being such a dick.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18755705 - 08/25/13 03:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I want to so badly, but I doubt she'll leave me for a guy she's been in a close, intimate relationship with for years.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18755802 - 08/25/13 04:14 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

You have to tell her, you don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what if.

I've been in similar situations before, and I bitched out and didn't do shit about it, now years later I still occasionally wonder what if.


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Re: I think I am in love with my bestfriend [Re: TrentBoyett]
    #18756949 - 08/25/13 08:40 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Confess


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