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Anonymous #1
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Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation
#18751003 - 08/24/13 10:56 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I choked my GF during sex a couple weeks ago. She loved it.
Said that she had some of the strongest orgasms ever. I thought it was kind of cool in a dark/weird way.
Now when we have sex she kind of expects me to choke her. Feels a little weird now, because choking is usually to hurt others.
This is new territory for me. Does anybody have experience with choking, and is there a technique involved? I simply want to get her off without hurting her. Obviously, I would stop if she coughs, says stop, or turns blue.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18751048 - 08/24/13 11:09 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just do what you were doing before. If she's not trying to pull away or something I'd say you're not doing it too hard.
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#18751082 - 08/24/13 11:18 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I give girls a little choke when I'm doin em hard. Most of em love it. Don't kill her, and you should be fine I think it's a primal domination thing, kinda like the way a lion will bite the back of the lioness' neck.
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
#18751476 - 08/24/13 01:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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i choke my girl almost everytime we fuck. She loves it. Though i try and be careful not to hurt her she still puts her hand over mind trying to get me to choke her harder haha she says she likes to be choked to the point right before she passes out. Fuck she even told me to keep fucking her if she passes out! My girls kind of a freak though, i love it
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: psyconaught]
#18753764 - 08/25/13 01:10 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks for the responses. Just wanted to be aware of the dangers. Lack of 02 must cause her adrenaline to spike causing her organism to be more intense. Wouldn't mind hearing some woman's perspective too.
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18753833 - 08/25/13 01:56 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Obviously, I would stop if she coughs, says stop, or turns blue.
Of course, if you choke her, she might not be capable of coughing or saying stop, so you'll have to look out for other cues. In any case, don't choke her for more than 30 seconds at a time and read everything you can about erotic asphyxiation. Oh, and please don't ever EVER try erotic autoasphyxiation (and tell your girl not to, either), because that's a recipe for disaster.
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18754124 - 08/25/13 05:43 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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In my experience, you can get a girl where she wants to be with this without getting anywhere close to causing serious harm, but maybe I was dealing with cowards.
I think a lot of it is psychological, so if you get a grip that feels aggressively firm but control how far you actually squeeze, you'll have no problems.
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18763961 - 08/27/13 01:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I do this often, just use one hand and put pressure on the arteries but not the trachea. I've blacked out the old lady before doing this. (from the strength of the orgasm, requires little pressure) That Jiu Jitsu experience payed off in an unusual way
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Yogi1]
#18767749 - 08/28/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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an easy sign to give is to do the peace sign with their hand or to make an arm gesture. If however, they're tied up at that moment another gesture will have to do. But, always have some way to clearly show that the other person wants out of it. As for choking in itself, the other members are right; it's domination/submission play at the core for most willing subjects. There is also the fact of the body going into heightened response when being choked. This as most know results in a different feeling orgasm.
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Anonymous #3
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i think its more of a grip on their neck, rather than actually squeezing
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Re: Choking: Erotic Asphyxiation [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18768189 - 08/28/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: i think its more of a grip on their neck, rather than actually squeezing
my girl actually likes being choked, not just a grip. She'll put her hand over mine pushing as hard as she can trying to get me to choke harder haha
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