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Anonymous #1
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whats up with this girl?
#18750675 - 08/24/13 09:22 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So I met this girl through a friend and we've only met once, like a year ago, but we've been texting each other and talking on the phone and shit, and we're gonna go on a date next weekend. We've been talking pretty constantly for a few days now, but last night she sent me a message on facebook saying to text her, with the usual smiley face and all that good shit, so I did. Then when I did text her, she never texted back, and this was last night, and we haven't talked since then. I know this probably sounds really petty, but my luck with women lately has been pretty nasty. My girl of a year cheated on me, and then after we broke up I was talking to one girl for a while, and that was going good and we both had feelings for each other, until she randomly texted me one day saying she thinks we'd be better as friends, and then never talked to me again, so I guess I'm just being extra high alert and cautious, idk.
Edited by Anonymous (08/24/13 09:23 AM)
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Anonymous #1
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well it's past 2 here and she's yet to text me, then again, i havent really made any attempt to text her either. idk man
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GoldenArrow
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You say you texted her, but *what* did you text her?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: GoldenArrow]
#18752020 - 08/24/13 03:23 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just general stuff getting to know each other. The last time I really talked to her a lot of Thursday, and one of the last things she texted me was "Lol, where the hell have you been all my life?" So I feel like things were left on a pretty good note?
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llama_police
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So you've been having a long distance text relationship for over a year? I think when she says "where the hell have you been" means that you're just not present in her life and that you should get off your lazy arse and go hang out with her.
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Anonymous #1
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Where did you get a year from? We've been talking for like, maybe a month weeks lol. I met her a year ago, but havent really talked to her since then until the last month or so
Edited by Anonymous (08/24/13 03:49 PM)
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llama_police
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So you didn't communicate at all when you met? How the hell did you get her number?
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Anonymous #1
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i dont see what this has to do with the original topic but ok. she messaged me on facebook and was like, "i havent seen you in forever bruh" and we hit it off from there.
Edited by Anonymous (08/24/13 04:06 PM)
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The Lizard King
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I'd at least message her back on FaceBook once before giving up hope.
Who knows, maybe she broke/lost her phone.
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Well, she hasn't been on facebook all day. I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt as of now. I mean, she wouldn't tell me to text her and allow me to have her number and then 5 minutes later just be, eh, I'm not. So the fact that she hasn't been on facebook tells me that she's may just be off doing something for the weekend. If she hasn't made contact with me by tomorrow evening then I'll begin losing hope.
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Dr. Crapsghetti
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Woman are fucking evil, dude; or rather, woman are most of the time backstabbing tarantulas. Just ask King Solomon, and he had 700 wives. I once met a girl who told me she loved me on the very first date. She wrote me a poem and told me she wanted to give all of herself to me and that she was in love with me and so happy to have finally met me.
The very next day, I call her and she doesn't answer. She texts me and says she doesn't like me. What the hell is wrong with this person? Was she even human? I doubt it.
That's not even the half of it. Women are blood sucking bats. Don't feel upset. Why would you want to be with a reptilian humanoid shapeshifter anyway?
It doesn't matter what you do if someone doesn't care. You could buy them a 500 million dollar yacht and they still wouldn't give a shit.
Women like to play games. There's no telling what this girl is up to.
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Edited by Dr. Crapsghetti (08/24/13 09:35 PM)
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Ballerium
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OP did you only send her one text since she asked you to text her? Maybe by some bad stroke of luck, she didn't get the text.
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: Ballerium]
#18753451 - 08/24/13 10:48 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Good news! She's at a retreat for work and the reception out there is bad! Turns out she hadn't been getting my texts and thought I was ignoring her just like I thought she was doing to me!
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I knew I was right.
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Dr. Crapsghetti said: Woman are fucking evil, dude; or rather, woman are most of the time backstabbing tarantulas.
Interestingly, this says a lot more about you than it does about women. Then again, when I read your posts, I notice they are always sort of desperate. I hope you'll be able to sort out your issues, because you have some serious ones. Good luck man...
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Anonymous said: Good news! She's at a retreat for work and the reception out there is bad! Turns out she hadn't been getting my texts and thought I was ignoring her just like I thought she was doing to me! 
She's lying to you. Shoot her in the face.
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Ballerium
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: EllisDSox]
#18754265 - 08/25/13 07:20 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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-------------------- Beats and waves will take me to my grave and when I go there I know that I won't be alone 'cause I've been spotted, blotted, many many times before.
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: Ballerium]
#18754313 - 08/25/13 07:38 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fuck yeh shes lying, that's my excuse too "I don't get reception at work".
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Ballerium
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: Tittybong]
#18754458 - 08/25/13 08:51 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Dude I'm telling you right now places with shitty reception most definitely exist. BOTH of my jobs have shit reception. Right now I am at work at a park and we are so far out in the middle of nowhere that we don't even get cable. We use satellite for our internet and there is no Wi-Fi. Whenever it rains or storms I'm pretty much guaranteed to lose my reception. At my other job, the office I work in is partially underground. The building is on the side of a steep hill and if someone calls me I have to go outside just to be able to talk or the call will drop.
Give the girl a break, geez lol.
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Dr. Crapsghetti
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: koraks]
#18755189 - 08/25/13 01:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't have serious issues. AIDS is a serious issue. I'll be fine.
O and thanks.
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Edited by Dr. Crapsghetti (08/25/13 01:39 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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This girl is really confusing. Last night we texted and she was like, "I can't wait to hang out Friday with you, it's gonna be awesome!" Then today I text her and I was like "Yea, my weekend was aight, but Friday will rock!" And she was like, what's Friday? So I told her, werent we supposed to kinda go on a date? And she was like, "Ohhh, yesss!(:" Then I told her I was excited and that I was really into her and that I thought she was insanely sweet. Tha twas around 3 PM, and that was our final contact. I don't know why she hasn't responded, but I don't know. I know in relaity it's probably nothing to worry about, because she's out in the sticks and told me she'd be able to talk more when she was home and had better reception, but still, you know you just create all these terrible scenarios in your mind, like what if.
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How to lose at poker - show the other player your cards.
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Repertoire89
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Then I told her I was excited and that I was really into her and that I thought she was insanely sweet.
Kind of a weird thing to say mr.clingy
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Anonymous #1
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oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
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Dr. Crapsghetti
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I've had nothing but terrible experiences. If you were me, your irrational fears would turn out to be true, and probably even worse than how you imagined them; but since you're not me, you've probably met someone who actually likes you and is not just pretending to.
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Anonymous said: oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about
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Anonymous said: oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about 
Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
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pwnasaurus
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Anonymous said: oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about 
Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
That's definitely a weird and clingy thing to say to someone over text whom you're not particularly close with.
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18761188 - 08/26/13 08:01 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: oh come on, some of the things you guys say are insane. being nice to a girl isnt being fucking clingly, it's being nice. damn u guys must have had some bad experieinces
Think the worst thing a girl did to me was not paying for lunch one time. "You're insanely sweet" to a girl you're not banging, kind of weird (kind of). Separate from that statement you're definitely clingy, I thought that's what this thread was about 
Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
That's definitely a weird and clingy thing to say to someone over text whom you're not particularly close with.
But did you do that when it all came to?
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pwnasaurus
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This makes absolutely no sense.
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Repertoire89
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Anonymous said: Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
I'm not paranoid, it doesn't matter to me what women think about me. It seems to matter to you too much, which is why I called you clingy
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I'm not paranoid, it doesn't matter to me what women think about me. It seems to matter to you too much, which is why I called you clingy
Shocking...denial also seems to be a side effect.
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Repertoire89
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Anonymous said: Interesting...it seems as if shrooms cause long term paranoia for some. I'm so sorry.
I'm not paranoid, it doesn't matter to me what women think about me. It seems to matter to you too much, which is why I called you clingy
Shocking...denial also seems to be a side effect.


Wow this is pathetic.
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pwnasaurus
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OP why did you make a thread if you were just going to ignore everybody's advice? You are clingy man. People don't like that. Every single person in the thread is telling you that. Do you not think that means it might be true?
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Repertoire89
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Re: whats up with this girl? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18762689 - 08/27/13 06:45 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I guess I came off kind of rude, wasn't trying to be though 
There was a time when I was really clingy, never got mistreated by a girl like OP is suggesting but eventually got tired of thinking about women that way. Realized its a lot easier not to care and being single is more up my alley. Nothing negative about it
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I apologize. In all seriousness, I am a bit clingy, I know that, and I understand that it is unattractive and I am working on that. While I am clingy at times, a lot of what seems like clinginess is paranoia. The last 3 girls I have dated have cheated on me, which has resulted in my increased paranoia/clingy nature. I used to be extremely independent and didn't have a clingy bone in my body. I guess this has happened because in previous relationships, what seemed like someone just being busy was actually your girlfriend out fucking another guy, so I just get real uneasy these days when a lose contact with a girl I've been talking to. I never show it though. I never go off on texting rampages demanding her whereabouts, I keep it lal internal. Still not healthy though, I suppose.
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Repertoire89
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Trust is a hard thing to get back once its lost, I feel for you OP
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Sounds like you're being too pushy/acting overly excited... should have just asked her out for a coffee and a chat rather than forcing her to commit to a date right off the bat. Chill out. She doesn't need to text you back right away.
Females are like cats, give them too much attention and they go away. Give them just a little bit, enough to make them curious.
Try not giving her so much attention, and see what happens.
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