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What the fuck just happened.
#18749768 - 08/24/13 12:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sorry to post anon. I don't want this to be associated with me.
The girl I've been with for five years has cheated on me every chance she got. Which was once a year for four years, with a different person each time.
She lied to me even when confronted with evidence. For the last three years. We broke up once even, only to get back together after a "confession" which turned out to be a half-truth at best.
I've never been unfaithful to her despite the many chances I have had.
She dropped this all on me at once. She threw a letter at my bed and said "I'm sorry," then confessed everything and left.
I'm so humiliated and disgusted.
She is bipolar. She just learned this. This makes a lot of sense now.
I can't believe I didn't see the signs.
I just wanted to share.
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18749792 - 08/24/13 12:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fuck a different girl on the rag. Call her. Tell her you forgive her. Let her blow you, then fuck her in the ass. Seriously, I am sorry for you. I couldn't imagine being hurt like that. That is why I ride solo. Best of luck bro.
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18749794 - 08/24/13 12:33 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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That blows man... At least she confessed and she should be out of your life.. Some girls people are just broken like that.. I'm not saying that you have to me monogamist, but when you're lying about it and being a bitch...
Time to be single, go out and fuck lots of girls. Party, but don't take out your emotions on drug use. Now you know you deserve someone better, and are now free to meet someone and be fulfilled  Stay away from girls with bipolar issues as a general rule, I've met a couple that will just fuck you up. Peace and love buddy, keep it together and be happy that you have a new opportunity in life.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: MrHill]
#18749843 - 08/24/13 12:57 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks guys.
It's just...I'm 28 years old now.
Partying and meeting new girls...I've not played that game for years. Partying is completely out...me and drugs, we don't get along so well anymore.
I spent 4 years trying to make this work...this is a girl I have poured my heart and soul into, one I love deeply.
But I need to get away from her to process this...so that's what I did.
The crazy thing is, I've been realizing that our relationship is fucking up both our lives.
My friend told me today that his girlfriend was at the bar with her coworkers and their friends. I could tell he trusted her. And I realized I've always wanted to trust my ex like that but I've always felt something was wrong.
I forgot that is how relationships are supposed to be.
Old friends shy away from us because they don't like her...they don't like how she acts when we're hanging out and how she treats me and how I act in turn.
I've been learning all this in the last week.
If nothing else I will trust my gut instinct from now on. Fuck.
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18749917 - 08/24/13 01:37 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Once a year is every chance she gets?
Are there other problems besides this new revelation? If not, maybe you can figure out a way to deal with it. Monogamy is a tough concept for almost everyone.
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: azur]
#18750595 - 08/24/13 08:55 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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azur said: Tell her you forgive her. Let her blow you, then fuck her in the ass.
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: koods]
#18750709 - 08/24/13 09:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
koods said: Once a year is every chance she gets?
Are there other problems besides this new revelation? If not, maybe you can figure out a way to deal with it. Monogamy is a tough concept for almost everyone.
She has been confronted about this many times in the past.
I could get over the cheating if it weren't for the dishonesty.
I can't live with myself if I stay with her. I need some self-respect.
I don't expect monogamy 100% but damn if I can't handle her going and fucking an ex once a year (they were "fuck-an-ex" opportunities she took at every chance she got).
But moreover honesty is a big deal to me.
Edited by Anonymous (08/24/13 10:43 AM)
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18750892 - 08/24/13 10:23 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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LIke so and so said tell her you forgive, have her blow you and then fuck her in the ass HARD. This is what I would do. May as well. It's better than no blow job and no assfuck
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consider it a life lession and move the fuck on with your life. your 28 now and when you hit 30 you'll look bad and laugh. it's tough, but its life. grow a dick and keep your head up.
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Re: What the fuck just happened. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18752439 - 08/24/13 05:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Be glad you are away from that shit. You dont need a unloyal person to fake love.
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Quote:
azur said: Tell her you forgive her. Let her blow you, then fuck her in the ass.
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CounterCulturest said: LIke so and so said tell her you forgive, have her blow you and then fuck her in the ass HARD. This is what I would do. May as well. It's better than no blow job and no assfuck
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