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deCypher



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Re: My brother passed away this morning [Re: qman]
#18743117 - 08/22/13 04:04 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Hope you are able to accept his death with as much grace and as little suffering as possible.  
Clara, by "bad shit" do you mean it was cut with something excessively poisonous, or just that it was extremely pure? How long ago was his most recent relapse, do you think?
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claraclairvoyant
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Re: My brother passed away this morning [Re: deCypher]
#18743236 - 08/22/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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i'm thinking it was cut with something poisonous but i don't really have all the details yet. over the past month i kind of suspected he was using again.
he was 26. 2 years older than me.
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claraclairvoyant said: thanks guys. advice is always welcome. i've never dealt with death before (besides my grandpa when i was too young to understand) and it just shouldn't be this way. it's supposed to be me and my brothers through it all. i'm sure someday i'll be able to find strength but for now all i can do is cry and want my brother.

I'm so sorry clara.
I can't even imagine. The best advice is to hold onto what family you do have and spend time with them. Spending lots of time with close friends and family is very helpful through the grief stage. Don't lock yourself away and become isolated from people. Reach out, talk, laugh, cry, repeat as much as necessary.
It just takes times. The thought of him will always be with you, but years from now you won't be crippled by such thoughts. Right now it's normally to be hurting so much. There's not much more advice then that unfortunately. I'm so sorry this happened.
I need to spend some time with my only sister. We aren't very close
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I'm sorry for your loss, we may not really talk on these boards but I wish you and your family the best.
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Re: My brother passed away this morning [Re: Sham87]
#18744434 - 08/22/13 09:04 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm incredibly sorry for your loss.
Like others have said, letting the grief flow is a good thing. The more you accept how you feel about it, the easier it will be to make peace with the reality of the situation. It will help you appreciate his memory in a positive way.
I'm sure it doesn't need to be said, but it's going to be tough. There will be days where it consumes your thoughts. There will be many, many times where you'll come across something small that reminds you of him, and it will be like a slap to the face.
It's cliché, but time heals all wounds. However this will leave one badass mother fucking scar. Let his memory inspire you to be the person you want to be. You never know when your life may end.
You have my condolences, and my messages are always open if you need to let emotions out or just want someone to talk to.
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I'm so sorry for your loss clara. Hang in there, and lean on anyone/everyone you can.
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