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Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3?
#18740701 - 08/22/13 02:15 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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i get her check every month, shes about to die in hospice. One nurse said she has a while to go but from the looks of her, she could be gone before her money deposits (disability)
will they put a stop on it?
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Le_Canard
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18740891 - 08/22/13 04:33 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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It should deposit, I would think. If she does go, be sure to inform SS of her demise ASAP as you don't want a beef with them.
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Yippie
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Le_Canard]
#18748121 - 08/23/13 05:03 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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ToiletDuk said: It should deposit, I would think. If she does go, be sure to inform SS of her demise ASAP as you don't want a beef with them.
Certainly be careful - as even if the check is cut and she dies - the SSA could/will request a partial repayment for that month. If you are not an official designated payee for your grandma, they may simply wipeout the overpayment if you plead her circumstance (a local office can do that). If you are an official designated payee, they have a living person from which to collect, they may not be so inclined to write off the partial overpayment.
I have $4900 experience points on this subject...
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Yippie]
#18750091 - 08/24/13 03:11 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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ill explain more: she just lets me pay bills and other stuff with her card.. she is on a lease but she is in hospice so like.. she wasted her money paying rent this month..it automatically comes out of her check a few days after she gets it.. if i spend all the money they wont be able to get the rent money..she thinks shell live through all this and go back home..not gonna happen.. i dont want her to pay rent for no reason..
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Deathcore]
#18750095 - 08/24/13 03:14 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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dont know why i anond that in the first place.. i guess cuz i felt guilty for it..but im also sad shes dying but im in a rough spot.. i work..but.. her money helps me survive on top of the money i get from this crappy job.. anyway..
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Deathcore]
#18753314 - 08/24/13 10:04 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Deathcore said: dont know why i anond that in the first place.. i guess cuz i felt guilty for it..but im also sad shes dying but im in a rough spot.. i work..but.. her money helps me survive on top of the money i get from this crappy job.. anyway..
Do what you believe right and act in her best interest given the circumstances, worry about the SSA at a later date should that become an issue.
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Yippie]
#18753874 - 08/25/13 02:16 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah, i gotcha.. i wish i knew what to do. she got lung, stomach, and brain cancer.. i told her for years stop with diet pop, cigs, and exercise..nope didnt wanna listen.. now shes zombie like..
my entire life sucked and ofcourse this has to happen. no..im not talking about the money either..even though it help(s)(ed).. i mean just losing another one.. then sooner or later ill be dead to... im in my early 20's but eighter way, life is short. its fucked up.. suffering is part of life..
lifes like one big trip. your mood effects your actions and your actions effect your mood..
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Re: Dying grandma, will her direct deposit happen if she dies before Sep. 3? [Re: Deathcore]
#18754749 - 08/25/13 10:47 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thank you for being a real man and taking care of this woman who obviously loves you dearly. There are a lot of people who wouldn't have the wherewithall to stand by a dying woman's side.
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