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SalviaGod
Bad Person, Good Guy



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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#18740754 - 08/22/13 02:49 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shroomopotamus said: Let this video do all the talking for you
Thanks for this, it is actually very interesting and could be of some use.
Im just trying to give her a different point of view on things, she just doesnt know anything about psychedelics so she is afraid.
Shes an open minded person so im sure with the right amount of knowledge and convincing she can come to peace with it. And i know she would never kick me out because of it.
The only reason she flipped about the weed so much is because she is very big on trust. She had questioned me about it several times because she had suspicions and i always lied to her. Thats why i think being straight up with her is the best rout.
If i bring it up in a calm way she will likely stay calm as well an i will actually have a chance to explain myself. Shes very big on "following your own path to god" and i use psychedelics for religious purposes 80% of the time. She wouldnt dare try to force me to change that.
This is more to clear the air and get the lies out of the way of me being close to her. We deep talk about everything so its annoying that i have to keep that part a secret.
Also i wouldnt worry about her telling the wrong person, shes very good at keeping things between us and would know the consequences of her telling people.
So yeah, i really think this is a good idea. I wanted advice on good points to bring up when explaining it to her, not "dont do it, ITS A TRAP" kind of advice.
Thank you for all the responses though, sorry if i rambled, its late and iv had alot of coffee tonight.
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Rewindicus
Silly Goose



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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: SalviaGod]
#18740887 - 08/22/13 04:27 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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many who advised against it have had experiences of their own or friends that tried to do the same and it didnt end up like they expected. I mean i like to have sex outdoors but your not gonna see me callin my mom up tellin her i like banging in the backyard because its something i keep from her. some people dont need to know some things. 
but as said before please let us know how it goes!
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Psychotria
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Rewindicus]
#18741035 - 08/22/13 06:34 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Very very true somethings are best put not knowing... Although it did work fine for me but my mother is a chilled out person.
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