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Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice
#18740655 - 08/22/13 01:41 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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No not THAT talk. Im going to have a talk with my mom about psychedelics.
My mom and i are really close, and i would really like to be open about the most spiritual parts of my life. It bothers me to lie to her about it. She knows i used to smoke weed (i still do but she thinks iv stopped) and all that went over terribly. She threw a big fit about it and it caused alot of problems. But mainly because i had been lying to her about it.
I really think she has the capacity to understand where im coming from if i just sit her down and talk to her. My problem is how to actually do this. What do i say ? Any advice ?
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: SalviaGod]
#18740661 - 08/22/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Tell her what comes out of your heart.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Psychotria]
#18740666 - 08/22/13 01:51 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Let this video do all the talking for you
-------------------- * Live by the mushroom, die by the mushroom
    This is a trap! A trap! You are all busted! Busted! You fools!
If a time comes where I fail to appear I've been abducted and I will miss you all Please smile and pet puppies as often as possible Be happy Be nice (<3);}
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Psychotria]
#18740684 - 08/22/13 02:07 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Psychotria said: Tell her what comes out of your heart.
That rarely works.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18740694 - 08/22/13 02:12 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP you're delusional, if you don't seek psychiatric help you will in the future.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Shroomopotamus] 2
#18740695 - 08/22/13 02:12 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think there are bigger questions that need to be addressed.....
are you still living at home with parents?
are you financially dependent on them for anything - education/car payment/rent/insurance/cell phone/food/ ect?
BECAUSE if you are dependent on their money to get by OR you live with them i think your asking for trouble. If she freaked about weed shes gonna lose her mind over psychs.
If your on your own and independent than MAYBE go for it but just know that the more people that know you do drugs the more people there are that can say the wrong thing to the wrong people and get you kicked out of school/drug tested and consequently lose your job/house raided on drug manufacturing or sale charges/thrown into rehab or baker acted. ECT, ECT, ECT, ECT.
In my opinion if it really is something important to you ease your folks into and and speak in past terms as though it was something you experimented with, didnt eat anyones faces off, learned and grew from it and moved on.
THE LESS PEOPLE THAT KNOW YOU DO DRUGS THE BETTER ESPECIALLY FAMILY.
What is them knowing you do drugs going to do? NOTHING. Your not going to convert them or make them think differently ESPECIALLY with all the shit thats in the NEWS EVERY SINGLE DAY.
People knowing you do drugs is kryptonite keep your weakness a secret. And dont waste your time on people who wont care its just ADDED TROUBLE FOR NOTHING.
Just my opinion but if you go through with it let us know how it goes!
-------------------- “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”- Dr. Seuss "Too much of a good thing, can be wonderful!" - Mae West "If you have nothing nice to say about anyone, come sit next to me." - Alice Roosevelt Longworth
Edited by Rewindicus (08/22/13 02:15 AM)
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Rewindicus]
#18740697 - 08/22/13 02:14 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah dude you think your mom wants to here that? You could be bringing home dudes dressed as women and she'd still choose denial over her son coming out and saying I'm a straight up fag, but then again some mothers like that better then pot smoking sons...
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Rewindicus]
#18740700 - 08/22/13 02:15 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rewindicus said:THE LESS PEOPLE THAT KNOW YOU DO DRUGS THE BETTER ESPECIALLY FAMILY.
My family knows I'm into psychedelics. I have no reason to hide it. It's a part of who I am. If people were more open about their use with psychedelics, I don't think they would be viewed as such awful horrible things as they are.
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    This is a trap! A trap! You are all busted! Busted! You fools!
If a time comes where I fail to appear I've been abducted and I will miss you all Please smile and pet puppies as often as possible Be happy Be nice (<3);}
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#18740703 - 08/22/13 02:16 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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If your under 18 you have no business talking about pot and if you live with your rents you have no business talking about psyche's, I doubt OP's parents even use the internet.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Konyap]
#18740705 - 08/22/13 02:17 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Seriously dude just delete your browser history and stop coming here until you move out...
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#18740708 - 08/22/13 02:18 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Shroomopotamus said:
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Rewindicus said:THE LESS PEOPLE THAT KNOW YOU DO DRUGS THE BETTER ESPECIALLY FAMILY.
My family knows I'm into psychedelics. I have no reason to hide it. It's a part of who I am. If people were more open about their use with psychedelics, I don't think they would be viewed as such awful horrible things as they are.
NO if people stopped taking way too much drugs that they dont know enough about without the proper precautions kids wouldnt be getting popped while running naked up to cops, people wouldnt be jumping out 15th story windows, or pulling hearts out of their friends, or getting lost in the woods for 4 days and having whole search teams sent out to find you.
Psychs are a gamble EVERY time. You dance close to the edge every time you dose. One day you may not be able to step back then end up on the news feed. 
-------------------- “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”- Dr. Seuss "Too much of a good thing, can be wonderful!" - Mae West "If you have nothing nice to say about anyone, come sit next to me." - Alice Roosevelt Longworth
Edited by Rewindicus (08/22/13 02:19 AM)
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Rewindicus]
#18740710 - 08/22/13 02:19 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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-------------------- * Live by the mushroom, die by the mushroom
    This is a trap! A trap! You are all busted! Busted! You fools!
If a time comes where I fail to appear I've been abducted and I will miss you all Please smile and pet puppies as often as possible Be happy Be nice (<3);}
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Rewindicus]
#18740712 - 08/22/13 02:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's not even that 9/10 people have no fucking clue what they are talking about so people will beleive anything then go into this EXTREME paranoia that there friends are there to fuck with them... if psyches were legal this wouldn't happen but the very stigma puts people into trouble mindstates when they are already altering their conscious.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Konyap]
#18740713 - 08/22/13 02:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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People who are troubled by its illegality shouldnt be taking them in the first place. Generally wouldnt.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Konyap]
#18740714 - 08/22/13 02:22 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's true you ever here about or have to hold somebody back because they're on drugs, it happens all the time.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18740715 - 08/22/13 02:24 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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A true mother would understand....
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Konyap]
#18740720 - 08/22/13 02:25 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Whatever unless she lets OP do his thing nothing good will come out of this ever, his mom will just use it to fuck with him for all the times he's been a brat in his entire life.
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18740726 - 08/22/13 02:30 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: People who are troubled by its illegality shouldnt be taking them in the first place. Generally wouldnt.
lol if that was the thinking and actions almost NO ONE would do them lol.
there are SOME who are pillars to a good society and on their own do their thing in a safe environment. Those are the psychadelic rock stars the ones who are traveling deep in safe confines with sitters that NO ONE has any clue are frying their balls off and then putting on that suit and tie and doin their thing.
just my opinion though of course.
-------------------- “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.”- Dr. Seuss "Too much of a good thing, can be wonderful!" - Mae West "If you have nothing nice to say about anyone, come sit next to me." - Alice Roosevelt Longworth
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Rewindicus]
#18740732 - 08/22/13 02:33 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Reading comprehension ftw
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Re: Planning on having 'the talk' with my mother. Need some advice [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18740746 - 08/22/13 02:43 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bad idea if she freaked on weed. And you said you are still lying about weed with her, how about tell her the truth on that first and let her accept that.
My parents both know i do psychedelics but my parents smoked weed when they were younger. And they also have tried mdma i believe once. I aslo know that my dad has done meth and a few other things, so I guess everyones parents are different.
By the way i wouldn't have guessed my parents did these things.
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"Yo yo just here to spread my clit and show ya'll what a wonderful and free being we are all inside lets take the acid and turn inside into the outside come on over baby lets smell the roses ohh ohh come on we're about to get lit show my undies to your baby I'll hug it down three times go around frown come on we aint a nice clown kiss me upside down down down come on sorry if you cant handle my wokeness come on lets take her panties off write shroomery on my asshole and taste it lick it make if feel like we was 1978 come on baby lets do the locamotion"-Twig dude
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