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Ballerium
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: dontknow]
#18739605 - 08/21/13 08:31 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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So she's a file clerk for a law firm and works at night?
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739606 - 08/21/13 08:31 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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OyBroop said: known her for about 10 years and have been married for 7. we have been through a lot. i honestly cant believe it. its this new job. i know it. its weird she how she got the job too. out of no where she says shes going to apply for this law firm. she has no exp. at all. she gets the job right away. shes a file clerk. its not a hard job, but with no resume and no exp. right off the street...
i'm sorry man. cheating sucks, i know firsthand.. but i can't imagine it being your wife, not just a gf
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739608 - 08/21/13 08:32 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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I wouldn't really do anything until I confronted her.. She might have a legitimate reason/excuse. If you go, say getting drunk and decide "two can play at that game" and then you later find out it isn't what it looks like, that would be pretty bad.
I'd definitely be confronting her ASAP if it were me.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Ballerium]
#18739611 - 08/21/13 08:33 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ballerium said: So she's a file clerk for a law firm and works at night? 
well, not night nights. she goes in at 3 and gets out at 9.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739619 - 08/21/13 08:34 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Now is not the time for confrontation. This could still backfire on you. Like another poster said, get your personal shit in order. Then observe until you are 100% sure beyond a doubt she is unfaithful. Then find a way to have evidence of this. Then you are good for confrontation and any fallout that may result.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739624 - 08/21/13 08:35 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am sorry for your situation yoBrooP, I hope that you are just paranoid and she isn't cheating, good vibes.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: drawde]
#18739629 - 08/21/13 08:35 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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fuck this. im going to the office she works at. its a 10 minute drive from here. ive only had a bit to drink so i should be alright.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739635 - 08/21/13 08:36 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Dude chill, the last thing you need right now is legal troubles. I know it fucking hurts but don't go out and get into trouble man.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: dontknow]
#18739634 - 08/21/13 08:36 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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dontknow said:
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Tmethyl said:This could be nothing, she could of stole a dose for a lesbian friend? 
your best bet? 

seems alright to me.
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Ballerium
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739637 - 08/21/13 08:37 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ahh that makes more sense. Kinda weird about how she had no resume and no experience though. I guess it varies by where you live but around here, any kind of receptionist or office position that is entry level is very difficult to get without some sort of experience. I was only able to get one office job without much experience and the job turned out to be the shittiest place I've ever worked in my life.
But sorry to hear about your situation OP. I would call the sister for sure to give congratulations. Then maybe mention that you were trying to get ahold of your wife and ask if she minds letting you speak to her since your wife wasn't answering her phone? Then you'll know for sure whether or not she was lying to you at least.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739646 - 08/21/13 08:38 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ya man, do what you got to do! just try not to do something you are going to regret. It's just not worth it.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Ballerium]
#18739651 - 08/21/13 08:39 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Getting an office job is a cinch if you're female, that's bullshit...
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Tmethyl]
#18739658 - 08/21/13 08:41 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Tmethyl said: Yeah she is cheating. All sources point that way anyways.
Now is the important time. You handle it, correctly. Do not freak out, go nuts, hurt someone, etc. Just tell her you know she is cheating, and see how she responds. By her response, you'll know for sure if she is or not.
This could be nothing, she could of stole a dose for a lesbian friend? 
My experience. If someone acts defensive. They are not defending the truth. Im sorry op =(
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Ballerium]
#18739660 - 08/21/13 08:41 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Contact a good divorce attorney tommorrow, don't let this cheater get a cent.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739673 - 08/21/13 08:43 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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<_< I didn't mean confront her tonight/right now.. Just I wouldn't wait around too long to to do it. Don't drive drunk and pissed off.. You're sure to get pulled over and fucked over.
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Ballerium
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Konyap]
#18739678 - 08/21/13 08:44 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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aiyobro said: Getting an office job is a cinch if you're female, that's bullshit...
Really, so just straight bullshit huh. I guess my experience then is just a fluke or a lie?
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Shroomslip]
#18739685 - 08/21/13 08:45 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: <_< I didn't mean confront her tonight/right now.. Just I wouldn't wait around too long to to do it. Don't drive drunk and pissed off.. You're sure to get pulled over and fucked over.
This guy speaks the truth. Protect yourself no one else. Besides youre love but this doesnt sound like youres!
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Enjoywho]
#18739695 - 08/21/13 08:47 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: If someone acts defensive. They are not defending the truth.
This should be on a T-shirt or something.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: Tmethyl]
#18739704 - 08/21/13 08:48 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Tmethyl said:
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Enjoywho said: If someone acts defensive. They are not defending the truth.
This should be on a T-shirt or something.
Trademarked.
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Re: well... im like 99% sure my wife is cheating on me [Re: OyBroop]
#18739724 - 08/21/13 08:51 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well I'm sorry to hear this dude. Your situation will improve, I hope
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