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circastes
Big Questions Small Head


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Re: How Do I Get Friends? [Re: LysergicX7]
#18744409 - 08/22/13 08:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm in the same boat man. Going on 7 years now. I have a reason though; schizophrenia.
It's hard fucking work being alone man. It's also a drain on yourself, and will slowly rot you away.
My salvation from total destruction has been enlightenment and higher consciousness. Every moment is new to me. It makes life far more bearable.
Someone said it's as hard as you make it. True. Socialising is not an intense activity, you merely both have to give then go your way later. You're not looking for a soul mate on the first go dude.
Just talk to someone with no strings attached at all. There, you have a friend. It was that easy.
There are some really cool, really nice people out there who have themselves figured. If you get yourself figured they'll approach you and then you'll get the fun and company you're after.
Don't take yourself too seriously my friend.
-------------------- My solitude... My shield... My armour... TESTED WITH FULL FORCE
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un-known-ome
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Re: How Do I Get Friends? [Re: circastes]
#18744547 - 08/22/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well, part of the problem too is relating to people. I worked with a some kids my age this summer, but they were just too...well dumb, frankly. I sound like an ass saying that but I'm not going to pretend that it's not the case. I have difficulty finding people who are on the same page as me, in terms of values. You know, I realize I'm not going to encounter people with whom I click perfectly, but I should be able to get close. My issues would make much more sense if you knew me, lol. That would clear some of this uncertainty up. Not that I'm weird, but I'm not like regular folk, for the most part.
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Did you register what was said above about hobbies that get you out there among the people? I mentioned rollerskating and a few others, someone else mentioned skateboarding.
Whatever your breed, there are others like you. The name of the game is being out there enough that you bump into them, and they into you. Are you doing that yet?
If yes, then congrats and keep doing it. It's strictly a matter of time now. If no, then no amount of talking and explaining on this thread will do anything for you. The people you need are out there, you're in here alone on the internets (again), ensuring you'll never meet
-------------------- Blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear.
For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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