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millzy


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so...i saw a pro domme today.
#18730216 - 08/19/13 10:35 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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i won't go into the details as far as what we did, but i will say that the decision to see a professional to explore my kinks ranks right up there with my other best decisions. this lady - super cool, really hot (early 40's knock out milf) and easy to open up to - had her own studio with a few different themed rooms for different types of sessions. i have preferences that most of her clients aren't into that she is, so she was really into it. it was intense. i don't think i've ever came buckets like i did today. my legs were shaking for a couple of hours afterwards and i was high as fuck off endorphins well into this evening. i paid a lot for the session but i got more than my money's worth. plus she's super cool. we talked for almost an hour before and about half an hour afterwards (and no i didn't have to pay for that). i kinda see us being friends on top of our occasional session, and not in that "i think that stripper really liked me kind of way".
the thing that really impressed me was that it wasn't like paying a prostitute. not that i expected it to be, but it wasn't cheap, or fake, and this person really knows (and loves) what she's doing and is on the same page with me sexually even though there wasn't any sex. the closest thing i can equate it to is therapy.
anyone else have any experience with sex workers on the fetish side? today was a 10/10. i can't wait to go back.
-------------------- I'm up to my ears in unwritten words. - J.D. Salinger
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huffinglue
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy] 1
#18730411 - 08/19/13 11:26 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Need more info
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mushroom_sandwich
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: huffinglue] 3
#18732185 - 08/20/13 12:56 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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huffinglue said: Need more info
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Uzziel
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So you paid a woman to torture you, is that what im getting out of this?
She must love her job.
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memes
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: Uzziel] 3
#18732845 - 08/20/13 03:19 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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looking forward to hearing CG's input
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millzy


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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: Uzziel]
#18733824 - 08/20/13 07:23 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Uzziel said: So you paid a woman to torture you, is that what im getting out of this?
She must love her job.
bdsm is more than just rough stuff, which doesn't interest me. it was a great experience.
-------------------- I'm up to my ears in unwritten words. - J.D. Salinger
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy]
#18734526 - 08/20/13 09:43 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Repertoire89
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy] 1
#18735567 - 08/21/13 02:38 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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koraks
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy] 1
#18735797 - 08/21/13 04:35 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sounds cool, does she have a website?
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millzy


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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: koraks]
#18736989 - 08/21/13 11:19 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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unfortunately not. but if you're into that sort of thing and have considered hiring a pro to help out, i highly recommend it.
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy]
#18737000 - 08/21/13 11:24 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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What'd yal do?
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pwnasaurus
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18737046 - 08/21/13 11:38 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah! You're being very scant on the details. What went down in your session?
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millzy


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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18737096 - 08/21/13 11:51 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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honestly, i'm shy about my kinks and i'd rather not go into it. i wish i wasn't but that's just how it is. sorry. she was the first person who i could have a completely blunt discussion about them with and not feel self conscious about it. but if you're into this sort of thing, i do highly recommend seeking the experience. just shop around and make sure you get the session that you want. some people are inexperienced and/or just want to charge you money for simply being in the room with them.
-------------------- I'm up to my ears in unwritten words. - J.D. Salinger
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy]
#18737402 - 08/21/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Like whipping? I don't get this whole thing...
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mushroom_sandwich
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18738403 - 08/21/13 04:16 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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we love you millzy, we would never judge. 
plus chances are I'm probably into it to, I'll try almost anything once.
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broken
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy]
#18739276 - 08/21/13 07:29 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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yes yes, details my friend. i'm a switch and had some good times with GF's. i'll swap stories via PM if need be. i know koraks has some crazy tales to tell.
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millzy


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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: broken]
#18739974 - 08/21/13 09:43 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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i'm a switch too, but i was a sub for this session. i really don't want to get into the nitty gritty but i'll share one thing we did. i was curious about sounding. it was okay. it wasn't uncomfortable and it certainly didn't feel bad, but it just didn't go deep enough to hit the prostate. but like i said, she did a bang up job and i left walking on sunshine.
-------------------- I'm up to my ears in unwritten words. - J.D. Salinger
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unknown1123
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: millzy]
#18740067 - 08/21/13 10:03 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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So you got ass fucked by some chick?
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pwnasaurus
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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: unknown1123]
#18740248 - 08/21/13 11:00 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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What is a 'switch' and what is 'sounding'? Your 'details' are confusing me more
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millzy


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Re: so...i saw a pro domme today. [Re: unknown1123]
#18740267 - 08/21/13 11:09 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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a "switch" is someone who can play both the roles - dominant and submissive - in a scene.
sounding.
it didn't hurt or anything, but as i mentioned, it wasn't really that great.
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unknown1123 said: So you got ass fucked by some chick?
no, but comments like this are precisely why i'd rather not go into the details.
-------------------- I'm up to my ears in unwritten words. - J.D. Salinger
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