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Seriously_trippin
Cosmic Guru Ganesh



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I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? 1
#18735686 - 08/21/13 03:35 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Preface: these are the 2 chillest people I know normally but L is going through a financial, relationship commitment and cant find work. His girl wants to magically move to Santa Barbra when she works at walmart and he doesn't have his license or GED/High school diploma.
On top of that she wants to get pregnant which they are OBVIOUSLY not ready for financially or mentally. ON TOP OF THAT she wants to adopt 2 of her nieces who happen to have suffered severe effects from their meth addicted mother. Neither of them know how to deal with them.
Here's the deal: My "brother" best friend of over 11 years I'll call him L and my other best friend C that both L and I consider a brother. Now L is telling me that he's tired of C's lies.. reason being is recently C said he would do his 3rd week of free work far away for L's dad but he was offered a paid position so he had to take it. He kinda lied about where he was going and that is wrong but if he told him the truth, L and his dad would be mad that he said he would do it and couldn't and lied about it. Now L says "He only comes over to drink, if there's no alcohol he doesn't want to come over and im tired of his lies". I know for a FACT he doesn't drink as much as he should have been paid for 3 weeks renovating a house for 3 weeks. Plus back when L's dad wasn't offering us beers C & I bought HUNDREDS of dollars of 36 packs, it seems as if he thinks C and I are trying to mooch beer off his dad. However whenever me or C have money we give it to them and in the past we have been overly generous.
Not only that but both C and I did countless hours of yard work for his dad while L played on the comp. He does do a lot but to say our best friend doesn't do anything when he does more then him that's fucked up. No other friend would have renovated a house for 3 weeks for free if they were trying to mooch off you and lie to you about intentions
Any thoughts shroomites? Sadly enough I have no one else to turn to those are my only two best friends/brothers. I always find though there are certain people here that care so I would appreciate some thoughts?
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Legend
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#18735692 - 08/21/13 03:41 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So what exactly is the problem?
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teamkiller
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Legend]
#18735781 - 08/21/13 04:29 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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yeah i'm sorry i couldn't understand it with the letters for names and i'm tired.
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: teamkiller]
#18735784 - 08/21/13 04:31 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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^ what he said
Sounds like you are over thinking it OP talk to your friends
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#18735789 - 08/21/13 04:33 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't get it. I give up. One guy pays another guy but that guy also does not get paid by someone else and now someone is mad at someone and it has to do with drinking too. Oh, and someone else again wants to get pregnant and adopt kids and that has to do with it too.
OP, please try to make clear what this is about, 'cause shit don't make sense.
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: koraks]
#18735793 - 08/21/13 04:34 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Glad I wasn't the only one confused
I just don't understand how these people's problems correspond with OP
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Niffla



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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: koraks]
#18735794 - 08/21/13 04:34 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah man I'm totally mind fucked and I'm not even on shit.
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Legend]
#18735799 - 08/21/13 04:35 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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HUNDREDS of dollars of 36 packs.
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: teamkiller]
#18735803 - 08/21/13 04:37 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't think you're supposed to buy hundreds of dollars of stuff and expect a favor in rerun
Thought that was just a cool gesture
OP should trip and lose the ego
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Legend]
#18735826 - 08/21/13 04:47 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Legend said: I don't think you're supposed to buy hundreds of dollars of stuff and expect a favor in rerun
Thought that was just a cool gesture
OP should trip and lose the ego
OP isn't the one with the ego, it's L, who thinks C is mooching off his father when he's bought beer for everyone at least a million times.
I would tell L to stop being a dickwad, that no one is mooching and if he really thinks that then both OP and C could find other work. I'm sure C wasn't even being fully compensated for the amount of work he was contributing.
Was I seriously the only one who understood the OP? :confucked:
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Everlong]
#18735839 - 08/21/13 04:52 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Everlong said:
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Legend said: I don't think you're supposed to buy hundreds of dollars of stuff and expect a favor in rerun
Thought that was just a cool gesture
OP should trip and lose the ego
OP isn't the one with the ego, it's L, who thinks C is mooching off his father when he's bought beer for everyone at least a million times.
I would tell L to stop being a dickwad, that no one is mooching and if he really thinks that then both OP and C could find other work. I'm sure C wasn't even being fully compensated for the amount of work he was contributing.
Was I seriously the only one who understood the OP? :confucked:
Well my excuse is I didn't really try that hard but in reality I'm just this dude
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Niffla]
#18735844 - 08/21/13 04:54 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm drunk enough that I shouldn't of paid attention to the OP enough to understand.
I don't know what everyone else's excuse is.
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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Everlong]
#18735850 - 08/21/13 04:55 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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im just high ok...
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Seriously_trippin
Cosmic Guru Ganesh



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Re: I have a heavy heart i need to talk do you mind? [Re: Legend]
#18735902 - 08/21/13 05:12 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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This might be more comprehensive sorry about the nonsense before initial effects of soma lol
My best friend L doesn't want to hang out with mine and L's bestie C and said he was lazy which is untrue because he did a 3 week free job(full house renovation) for L's dad plus countless hours of yardwork. Then L just told me he was using him for alcohol which is untrue because when we didn't have jobs C would spend a portion of his paycheck to pay for our drinks.
He's unemployed atm and did 600-700$ of work for free. Now we have been offered to drink the Dads beer for a few weeks and then the dad said "hey if there's just 1 36pck you cant drink or you can only drink when I say". C after that did exactly what L's dad said and only had a few beers occasionally.
The other big thing that ticked L off was that C bailed on the last job and said he would be back to chill and do work for them the next day but C needed to go make money babysitting in Lake Hughes.Basically he left him hangin and didn't tell the truth of where he was going. L waited till like 3 in the morning to chill. So L had to do the work himself.
Does that really make C a liar so bad you are mad at them? Even if it does he is going to say sorry but i had to make the money to pay my bills.
Also if he did 700$+ of work he should be compensated in SOME way don't you think?
-------------------- R.I.P Zombi3, Blue Helix Modest Mouse Zappa Slothie That Kid With The face ShLong Le Canard split_by_nine & Big Worm Forever Etched in the sands of time in the shroomery and ever so beloved and deeply missed by many
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