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lil_demented
Loner will lone

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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Demonic_Chronic]
#18731411 - 08/20/13 09:13 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Most of my friends can go fuck themselves. I got one buddy whose friendship I worry about and he is a business partner also. Even then I don't stress it. Wanna know why?
Because we are men. Not little girls. If there is BS going down, we will discuss it. Doesn't matter whose fault it is, just resolve it and move on. Unless you stole my shit, that's pretty unforgivable.
My 2cents.
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millzy


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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: lil_demented]
#18731418 - 08/20/13 09:16 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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lil_demented said: Most of my friends can go fuck themselves. I got one buddy whose friendship I worry about and he is a business partner also. Even then I don't stress it. Wanna know why?
Because we are men. Not little girls. If there is BS going down, we will discuss it. Doesn't matter whose fault it is, just resolve it and move on. Unless you stole my shit, that's pretty unforgivable.
My 2cents.
i tend to value my friendships, even the not so significant ones. i don't have any drama ever with any of them though.
-------------------- I'm up to my ears in unwritten words. - J.D. Salinger
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shLong



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: druqs]
#18731455 - 08/20/13 09:30 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'll be your unconditional friend, DC...
 You won't have to worry about upsetting me Just don't be fucking my lady and we good, bro, we good
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koods
Ribbit



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: shLong]
#18731828 - 08/20/13 11:33 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've been shedding my friends the last two weeks. Fortunately, this is a self limiting thing. Eventually you just run out.
OP, People are cunts, get used to it. We can't help but pick upon the weakness in others. The quickest way to lose your friends is to demonstrate that you need them. You should read some Ayn Rand.. That sociopathic bitch was probably right.
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NotSheekle said “if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”
Edited by koods (08/20/13 01:32 PM)
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: shLong]
#18731838 - 08/20/13 11:36 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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shLong said: Just don't be fucking my lady and we good, bro, we good
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shLong



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#18732317 - 08/20/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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JGR, my nigga
I was JKing.... We'd still be friends, DC.... Just don't be expecting many favors after that.
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Cj-B
All the same...I saw it first.



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: shLong]
#18732347 - 08/20/13 01:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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shLong said:
JGR, my nigga
I was JKing.... We'd still be friends, DC.... Just don't be expecting many favors after that. 
Damn. 11,000 posts and a massive E-penis later and Jesus still steals his girl...
-------------------- "I have no way of knowing whether you, who eventually will read this record, like stories or not. If you do not, no doubt you have turned these pages without attention. I confess that I love them. Indeed, it often seems to me that of all the good things in the world, the only ones humanity can claim for itself are stories and music; the rest, mercy, beauty, sleep, clean water and hot food (as the Ascian would have said) are all the work of the Increate. Thus, stories are small things indeed in the scheme of the universe, but it is hard not to love best what is our own—hard for me, at least."
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shLong



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Cj-B]
#18732361 - 08/20/13 01:36 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not so sure how to take the e-penis comment. It's only confusing to me because of my screen name.
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Patlal
You ask too many questions



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Demonic_Chronic]
#18732376 - 08/20/13 01:39 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Demonic_Chronic said: I dont have many friends but the ones I have I consider family, no matter how long ive known them, all it takes is a certain event or something and I just feel like ive known them for years. Then I constantly worry about what I say because I feel like I say the wrong things, then i start apologizing and worrying that i pissed people off. Ive been doing this with a lot of my friends recently.. i think im just gunna go hermit mode for a week or so because I cant stop worrying and I fear that I get annoying which I know I prolly do and then I get all apologetic and shit and I sound like a fucking weird-o..
I dont mean to do this, I just had no friends through like my whole life and was always picked on and made fun of so I dont take relationships with a grain of salt.
and Im the kinda guy who will give you the shirt off my back and Ive always had a social akwardness and social problems..
Im just gunna stop talking to my friends for a week or so, that way I cant get on their nerves and seem like a fucking tweak ass stalking creep or something.
Ive been fucking weird lately and I cant help it. I feel like Im going crazy to be honest...
IDK, maybe need to just shut the fuck up.
May not see me for a while.
DC
I have only one true friend in this life and I doubt there is nothing I can do or say that will change that. I see him in person once a year (maybe) but we talk on skype almost everyday.
Stop worrying, if they are truly real friends, they'll always take what you say with a grain of salt and forgive you.
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Cj-B
All the same...I saw it first.



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: shLong]
#18732449 - 08/20/13 01:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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shLong said: Not so sure how to take the e-penis comment. It's only confusing to me because of my screen name.
Large post count = massive e-penis.
Don't worry Josh. I know exactly how big it is.
-------------------- "I have no way of knowing whether you, who eventually will read this record, like stories or not. If you do not, no doubt you have turned these pages without attention. I confess that I love them. Indeed, it often seems to me that of all the good things in the world, the only ones humanity can claim for itself are stories and music; the rest, mercy, beauty, sleep, clean water and hot food (as the Ascian would have said) are all the work of the Increate. Thus, stories are small things indeed in the scheme of the universe, but it is hard not to love best what is our own—hard for me, at least."
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Demonic_Chronic
The Plague Doctress



Registered: 08/10/08
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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Cj-B]
#18732468 - 08/20/13 01:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Im doing a lot better today guys, got sleep and one of my best friends reminded me that I'll never get on his nerves no matter how many times I text or call.
CCR and the Dead for the day, feeling awesome actually.
DC
-------------------- The Real violence, the violence that I realized was unforgiveable Is the violence that we do to ourselves When we are too afraid to be, who we really are.
 
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shLong



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Cj-B]
#18732547 - 08/20/13 02:16 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was curious how you knew my name... But I suspect I know...
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shLong



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Loc: 'sconsin
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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Demonic_Chronic]
#18732556 - 08/20/13 02:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Demonic_Chronic said: Im doing a lot better today guys, got sleep and one of my best friends reminded me that I'll never get on his nerves no matter how many times I text or call.
CCR and the Dead for the day, feeling awesome actually.
DC

Good to hear, brother
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Demonic_Chronic
The Plague Doctress



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: shLong]
#18732858 - 08/20/13 03:22 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lol
DC
-------------------- The Real violence, the violence that I realized was unforgiveable Is the violence that we do to ourselves When we are too afraid to be, who we really are.
 
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Cj-B
All the same...I saw it first.



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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: shLong]
#18740045 - 08/21/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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shLong said: I was curious how you knew my name... But I suspect I know... 
What gave it away? Was it the picture of the private eye doing his stalking tingz? also you told me a long time ago and I remembered.
-------------------- "I have no way of knowing whether you, who eventually will read this record, like stories or not. If you do not, no doubt you have turned these pages without attention. I confess that I love them. Indeed, it often seems to me that of all the good things in the world, the only ones humanity can claim for itself are stories and music; the rest, mercy, beauty, sleep, clean water and hot food (as the Ascian would have said) are all the work of the Increate. Thus, stories are small things indeed in the scheme of the universe, but it is hard not to love best what is our own—hard for me, at least."
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ComputerTekGuy
Teh Awesome



Registered: 01/15/07
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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: Cj-B]
#18740115 - 08/21/13 10:15 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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You seem very afraid of loss. You need to learn how to deal with conflict and be happy with yourself. I really suggest you take up some sort of sport. Martial arts of any kind would be good for you. It will teach you to work with people, interact, and also win/loose. People overlook the fact that we must interact with others and not be afraid of conflict. Not saying we have to fight with eachother. But you need to learn that not everything is agreement and icecream.
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TwinEclipse
Psychedelic Alchemist


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Re: I constantly worry about losing my friends..Its kind of a problem [Re: ComputerTekGuy]
#18740172 - 08/21/13 10:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Dat ass on the sig... 
OP what troubles you about losing all your friends? Just being alone? It's not all bad. As long as you can network, you can select friends by the flock. Best experience IMO is college.
Friends don't just forget your existence lol, unless they are fake. If its been a while, just hit up your friend be like yo lets go do some stuffz. I don't think it's reasonable to burden your emotions with worry over losing your friends. It's a waste of time...you are an interesting person with a voice. Use it.
-------------------- My purpose: to love, to share, and to experience....all while conforming to my psychedelic experiences.
Edited by TwinEclipse (08/21/13 10:38 PM)
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