Home | Community | Message Board


This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.


Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Original Sensible Seeds Shop: Feminized Cannabis Seeds

Jump to first unread post Pages: 1
InvisibleThe Lizard King
Student Strawman
Male


Registered: 12/23/12
Posts: 2,429
Loc: Babylon
Need some opinions about a girl
    #18729020 - 08/19/13 06:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Alright, so I'll just be blunt first and explain as I go on.

There's this girl who I've only known for a week (met at a party one week ago, today) and within the first three days of knowing her, she asked me out (while talking on the phone), and told me she wants "what's under my pants."

All in all, we've probably hung out about four times (two sleepovers :derfase: but no sex) in the last week and only half of those times were sober.

She's pretty cute, probably around a 6/10.

She's pretty chill; she's done shrooms once, pills, meth once, and rolled once (which is almost as bad as my record, so I don't really give much thought to her drug use).

Now she just drinks and smokes pot, or so she says.

Sounds pretty awesome, I know, it'd be like guaranteed drunk/high sex anytime either of us wanted it. :awesomenod:

Here are some kickers, though.

She is on medication for anxiety/depression.

On the third day that I knew her, she called me about once every 10 minutes to talk about trivial things (which I normally wouldn't mind, if not for me only knowing her for three days).

She apparently huffs air (I was at her house with her sister and she straight up told me if she is ever caught huffing air again, she's going to get sent by her mom). Also, she was on the phone one time for like 20 minutes in her room, alone, and her sister went in and said that she found an empty can of air duster. She tried to defend herself by saying "No I'm not," but the way she said it was unusually slow and spacey.

I've been an all around partier since high school and have done some stupid stuff when I was her age (she's 18 and I'm 20), so I guess I can level with her a bit, but this would be the first time dating a girl who is this transparent with her problems.

Now, I almost like the idea of getting serious with a girl like this and getting her to stop doing juvenile things like huffing air and I would love to help her get her quality of life up so that she wouldn't need to take medication anymore, but am I getting in over my head?

TL;DR Potentially crazy girl wants to be my girlfriend, are hotness and good times worth the weight of this potential relationship?


--------------------
Dipping Swords in Metaphors


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflinePsilosopherr
A psilly goose
Other User Gallery


Registered: 02/15/12
Posts: 12,278
Last seen: 1 month, 10 days
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: The Lizard King]
    #18729109 - 08/19/13 06:43 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

personally I would deal with almost anything for sex and a companion right now


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleFruitOfLife
Professional Package Handler


Registered: 05/21/12
Posts: 4,832
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #18729218 - 08/19/13 07:10 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

rbalzer said:
personally I would deal with almost anything for sex and a companion right now



:rofl2:


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleThe Lizard King
Student Strawman
Male


Registered: 12/23/12
Posts: 2,429
Loc: Babylon
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #18729256 - 08/19/13 07:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Drewsifer69 said:
Quote:

rbalzer said:
personally I would deal with almost anything for sex and a companion right now



:rofl2:




:lol:

That is probably the most tempting thing about starting a relationship with this girl.


--------------------
Dipping Swords in Metaphors


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinehappymealplease
Stranger
 User Gallery
Registered: 07/14/11
Posts: 535
Last seen: 9 years, 3 months
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #18729270 - 08/19/13 07:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

At 20, "hotness" and "good times" are always worth the risk of eating a heavy dose of crazy.

EDIT: Just don't be stupid and get her pregnant.


Edited by happymealplease (08/19/13 07:50 PM)


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineRedpill


Registered: 01/23/13
Posts: 421
Loc: Lake Wobegon, MN
Last seen: 7 years, 26 days
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: The Lizard King]
    #18729368 - 08/19/13 07:42 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I say do it. Maybe even see if you can be the reason she doesn't do stupid shit like breathing duster any more. (I've sucked the stuff before so I'm calling it stupid shit from experience, not being judgmental)

She deserves a chance at companionship. And you would get something out of it too. The depression, anxiety and substance abuse might make things a little harder but I'd say worth the effort. And definitely at least worth trying because you could end it any time.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflinePsilosopherr
A psilly goose
Other User Gallery


Registered: 02/15/12
Posts: 12,278
Last seen: 1 month, 10 days
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: The Lizard King]
    #18730564 - 08/20/13 12:30 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

The Lizard King said:
Quote:

Drewsifer69 said:
Quote:

rbalzer said:
personally I would deal with almost anything for sex and a companion right now



:rofl2:




:lol:

That is probably the most tempting thing about starting a relationship with this girl.



what is? the sex? the companionship?

I almost think I'd like the companionship more lately.

Every time a human female talks to me lately it gives me such a rush of dopamine or serotonin or whatever.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleLynnch
Strangerer
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/29/09
Posts: 7,855
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #18730589 - 08/20/13 12:43 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Do it if you're into her.
Don't if you plan on playing shrink, trying to fix her, and expect her to get better. You know what you're getting into. But let me tell you right now, those things that are giving you the 'aw fix the sick birdy' feelings right now will be the things driving you up the wall in a month.
All that said, it does feel good to be the one that helps someone through a rough patch of life...


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineNubeEnLaMontana
Woodchuck Hunter
Male

Registered: 10/08/08
Posts: 165
Loc: new england
Last seen: 5 months, 22 days
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: The Lizard King]
    #18733707 - 08/20/13 07:01 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How would you assess your ability to end a relationship with someone who can't live without you?  Guestimate if you aren't sure.

Your answer to that question should be entered into evidence before you reach a verdict.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineNubeEnLaMontana
Woodchuck Hunter
Male

Registered: 10/08/08
Posts: 165
Loc: new england
Last seen: 5 months, 22 days
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: Lynnch]
    #18733732 - 08/20/13 07:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Lynnch said:
Do it if you're into her.
Don't if you plan on playing shrink, trying to fix her, and expect her to get better. You know what you're getting into. But let me tell you right now, those things that are giving you the 'aw fix the sick birdy' feelings right now will be the things driving you up the wall in a month.
All that said, it does feel good to be the one that helps someone through a rough patch of life...




Also a very good answer.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleThe Lizard King
Student Strawman
Male


Registered: 12/23/12
Posts: 2,429
Loc: Babylon
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: NubeEnLaMontana]
    #18734566 - 08/20/13 09:53 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Hmm. :strokebeard:

Thanks everyone so far, I think I'll just (try) to keep her as just a close friend.

However, I don't think I'll even have to do that because her sister found receipts for air duster and empty cans in her room. :sad:

Her mom and sister are probably going to send her somewhere on Thursday.

I feel bad for her and all, but it looks like she probably needs help anyways. :shrug:

It's looking like this one is gonna end as soon as it started.


--------------------
Dipping Swords in Metaphors


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinesonamdrukpa
Wayfarer


Registered: 10/18/11
Posts: 2,777
Last seen: 2 months, 8 days
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: The Lizard King]
    #18735142 - 08/20/13 11:50 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Damn, you have one night to give her a proper send-off then.  Go for it dude!

:asianofapproval:


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleRepertoire89
Cat
Male


Registered: 11/15/12
Posts: 21,773
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: The Lizard King]
    #18735611 - 08/21/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Lynnch said:
Do it if you're into her.
Don't if you plan on playing shrink, trying to fix her, and expect her to get better.




Words of wisdom right there :lol:

Have fun and don't get her pregnant or become emotionally involved


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineCabinet_Sanchez
Stranger
 User Gallery


Registered: 02/14/07
Posts: 371
Last seen: 7 years, 5 months
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18735657 - 08/21/13 03:17 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Don't try to change people, it doesn't work.


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleThe Lizard King
Student Strawman
Male


Registered: 12/23/12
Posts: 2,429
Loc: Babylon
Re: Need some opinions about a girl [Re: sonamdrukpa]
    #18737854 - 08/21/13 02:36 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

sonamdrukpa said:
Damn, you have one night to give her a proper send-off then.  Go for it dude!

:asianofapproval:




I like this idea. :awesomenod:


--------------------
Dipping Swords in Metaphors


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: 1

Original Sensible Seeds Shop: Feminized Cannabis Seeds


Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* I "cheated" on my gf UPDATED WITH PICS *DELETED*
( 1 2 3 all )
Anonymous 4,001 47 03/10/11 12:49 PM
by Humility
* Why are the hottest girls always
( 1 2 3 all )
Lynnch 2,320 41 07/29/11 11:52 AM
by naturesrevolt
* Girlfriend is on the pill, but won't let me rawdog it :[
( 1 2 3 4 5 all )
Anonymous 4,059 80 09/01/11 07:26 PM
by HeadTripVertigo
* Living at my parents for a few months, wtf do I do with chicks? pwnasaurus 559 10 08/08/11 08:54 PM
by Humility
* Forgiveness Anonymous 201 2 08/31/11 06:03 PM
by Humility
* Best friends = lovers? unsui888 470 5 09/01/11 12:36 AM
by koraks
* So I have not had sex in... unsui888 744 13 09/19/11 01:30 PM
by blkjkrabbit
* I've been seriously limiting my porn use for a month and this is what I found: Month two update pg 2
( 1 2 3 4 all )
Anonymous 4,553 61 03/27/18 02:07 PM
by durian_2008

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: Middleman, Shroomism, automan, yogabunny, CookieCrumbs
370 topic views. 0 members, 4 guests and 1 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2024 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.026 seconds spending 0.008 seconds on 15 queries.