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happymealplease
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Prole]
#18728923 - 08/19/13 06:07 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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High school, pretty often, but people were much more bold then.
Since adulthood I've only been blatantly hit on by sober women a few times (once a receptionist at the gym said she liked watching me sweat and gave me her number when I was on my out, that was the most obvious I've ever had to deal with).
Aside from that I usually get lingering eye contact or smiles, which are invitations to initiate. Unless you're in a social setting with women you've known for a while that's about as forward as most grown women will go. They want men who chase and most men prefer to chase.
At least in my experience. Maybe there's a 11/10 dude out there that has women slinging their panties at him every day.
Edited by happymealplease (08/19/13 06:08 PM)
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Kalypto]
#18728947 - 08/19/13 06:13 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Couple times a week...that I notice...it probably happens more than that but just too subtle for me to notice. I usually dont pick up on when someone's hitting me til hours, days or even weeks later.
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Repertoire89
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If you're around women everyday its hard to imagine never being hit on, I think some of ya'll are missing the signals
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18729165 - 08/19/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: If you're around women everyday its hard to imagine never being hit on, I think some of ya'll are missing the signals
yeah i'm thinking I must be.
I'm often in a not good mood when I'm in public. Thats probably the prollem
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18729195 - 08/19/13 07:03 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
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Repertoire89 said: If you're around women everyday its hard to imagine never being hit on, I think some of ya'll are missing the signals
yeah i'm thinking I must be.
I'm often in a not good mood when I'm in public. Thats probably the prollem
Do you have a stable social group? For me I'm better off when I have some time to get to know people, so activities are a must. Even something like an open-mic at a cafe, great way to meet people - especially if you play something
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Anonymous #4] 2
#18729973 - 08/19/13 09:46 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Nah. I just assume they're not going to like me, because they usually don't.
Is that you Dr. Crapsghetti ?
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18730542 - 08/20/13 12:22 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said:
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rbalzer said:
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Repertoire89 said: If you're around women everyday its hard to imagine never being hit on, I think some of ya'll are missing the signals
yeah i'm thinking I must be.
I'm often in a not good mood when I'm in public. Thats probably the prollem
Do you have a stable social group? For me I'm better off when I have some time to get to know people, so activities are a must. Even something like an open-mic at a cafe, great way to meet people - especially if you play something
I had a really stable social group for a while. Now I havn't for a long while. Even when I did hang out at this party house alll the time I'd try to hit on girls sometimes and I just freaked them out.
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18730627 - 08/20/13 12:58 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well that's a shame, but its a common issue and sometime around you'll be looking back on the whole thing. Good luck fellar
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18730915 - 08/20/13 04:41 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Went out with some girl friends the other week in the city. After the night out, one of my friends told me i flirt with and get flirted with by girls all the time. I never even realized it.
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Magenta]
#18731238 - 08/20/13 07:58 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Its either happened to me many times before and I didn't notice
OR
Never.
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Patlal]
#18731672 - 08/20/13 10:51 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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more than i notice. i can be oblivious to that stuff at times.
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Patlal]
#18741092 - 08/22/13 07:19 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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only when im taken for some reason
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Magenta]
#18743341 - 08/22/13 04:52 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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knightron said: Went out with some girl friends the other week in the city. After the night out, one of my friends told me i flirt with and get flirted with by girls all the time. I never even realized it.
Lol i know when a girl starts hitting on me, thats when i take a deeper look and decide
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Kalypto]
#18744086 - 08/22/13 07:47 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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I get in all the time if I flirt first.
It's not too often a woman initiates "first flirt" with me, but I'm happy they respond very positively when I flirt with them :shrugs:
There's only one woman I think about lately though(and no it's not my ex). She's been on my mind for some time though. Alas, it's complicated
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Masked]
#18744160 - 08/22/13 08:05 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Is it Patricia Pinkball?
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18744166 - 08/22/13 08:08 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: Is it Patricia Pinkball? 
Haha no, but now that you mention it...she's just climbed to number 2 on my list. Number one is much more enticing
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Masked]
#18744237 - 08/22/13 08:23 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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When she was young
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18744756 - 08/22/13 10:31 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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So whats the trick to get girls to hit on you? I think I Just need to work on my classical guitar skills and they may like that.
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Repertoire89
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: brokentv]
#18744886 - 08/22/13 11:02 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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brokentv said: So whats the trick to get girls to hit on you? I think I Just need to work on my classical guitar skills and they may like that.
IME chicks don't dig guitar all that much, when I played cello they would drool over me within seconds of finding out but tell someone you play guitar and its like you just farted half the time.
Cello = pussy magnet
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Re: How often do girls hit on you? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18746508 - 08/23/13 10:10 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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