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"Gay" best friend...wtf?
#18723697 - 08/18/13 04:49 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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So I've had this gay best friend for a while now and he's great. When we first met, he claimed to be bisexual but as time has passed, he has found himself much more attracted to men than women. Though I know he is not into me currently, I am almost positive he was at some point. (I realize this sounds ridiculous as I am a woman, but hear me out). As a matter of fact, he actually told me liked me at one point but I was in a relationship at the time.
There was one time, while sober I should add, we were laying in his bed and he pulled me on top of him, starting grinding on me and then gave me a hickey. Seriously, WHAT GAY MAN DOES THIS?
There was another time he was sleeping over and in the middle of the night he was stroking my face/lips, which he later completely denied (any ideas as to why??).
Then of course there was tons of cuddling, footsie, hair stroking, late night talks, etc etc. A number of drunken encounters occurred as well but in reality that doesn't constitute too much.
Anyways, point is, this kid was totally into me and now we're just friends, as he claims he is gay. I can understand that discovering your sexuality can be a confusing thing but this shit just seems ridiculous. Does anyone have ANY ideas on this situation?
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Anonymous #2
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Try to fuck him and gauge his reaction.
You seem angry because he is not into you anymore.
Maybe he was just acting gay so your walls wouldn't be up I mean he did grind you and leave you a hickey.
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Anonymous #1
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Lol it is too late for that. I know he is attracted to men, without a doubt. It's the female part that is questionable due to his actions over the past few months. I don't think he is sexually attracted to me anymore, it's just confusing.
Also just a bit disappointed he doesn't like me anymore as I still like him unfortunately haha.
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Anonymous #2
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Try to make a move regardless. Or at least talk to him, if he really is your best friend express your confusion to him and ask him to clarify things for you.
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Anonymous #3
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he's not into you anymore because he knows he can't fuck you.
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koods
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He sounds gay to me, girlfriend. (Seriously, he's not doing anything chicks don't do to each other when nobody's looking)
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Re: "Gay" best friend...wtf? [Re: koods]
#18726265 - 08/19/13 07:17 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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koods said: He sounds gay to me, girlfriend. (Seriously, he's not doing anything chicks don't do to each other when nobody's looking)
Yup.
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Re: "Gay" best friend...wtf? [Re: koods]
#18726304 - 08/19/13 07:39 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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koods said: He sounds gay to me, girlfriend. (Seriously, he's not doing anything chicks don't do to each other when nobody's looking)
thanks for confirming my longtime belief.
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Re: "Gay" best friend...wtf? [Re: Ill-bird]
#18726400 - 08/19/13 08:10 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ill-bird said:
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koods said: He sounds gay to me, girlfriend. (Seriously, he's not doing anything chicks don't do to each other when nobody's looking)
thanks for confirming my longtime belief.
Everything I know about what chicks do in private, I learned from Sex in the City. I have no inside information.
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Edited by koods (08/19/13 08:10 AM)
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Re: "Gay" best friend...wtf? [Re: koods]
#18726649 - 08/19/13 09:14 AM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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koods said:
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Ill-bird said:
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koods said: He sounds gay to me, girlfriend. (Seriously, he's not doing anything chicks don't do to each other when nobody's looking)
thanks for confirming my longtime belief.
Everything I know about what chicks do in private, I learned from Sex in the City. I have no inside information.
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Re: "Gay" best friend...wtf? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18728715 - 08/19/13 05:21 PM (10 years, 6 months ago) |
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OP sorry to break it to you but it's a VERY crazy world we live in. There may be a situation where a gay guy becomes attracted to his female friend. Not everyone on earth is the same and sometimes people are unique and different. Nothing to call in sherlock holmes for.
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There was this mom who got really pissed a couple years ago cause she found out her son only told her he was gay so he could fuck girls in his room. Bauss
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