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Should I stay or Should I go?
#18719909 - 08/17/13 06:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Edited by 999 (12/13/13 06:16 PM)
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: 999]
#18719989 - 08/17/13 06:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Go jerk off, lol. No really it sounds like you really love this girl but are thinking with your penis.
By the way what if she wanted to have a threesome with another guy, its only fair. I'm glad my wife doesn't go for any of that shit, cause neither do I.
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: 999]
#18720058 - 08/17/13 06:52 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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You're 18 and have only seen her for a total of 2 weeks in the last 3 years
Wasting your time /thread
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999
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18720155 - 08/17/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Aight, so, how could I be spending my time better? I get that feeling sometimes, too.
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: 999]
#18720173 - 08/17/13 07:20 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ehh, I don't think I'm thinking with my penis, but you could be right. I'm not really interested in it for the sex, rather, getting to know other people and forming closer than plutonic bonds with other women. I mean, for me, if a chick is like a sister to me, I don't ever really get in their space. I want to be able to hug and get close and lounge about for hours talking, developing new relationships with people I don't already know everything about. But I appreciate your post, and, you know what? It's quite likely my penis is coming into play here. It's pretty exciting working your way around the bases with someone new. I just don't really think about that part, when I'm considering breaking up with my woman.
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: 999]
#18720217 - 08/17/13 07:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I am a Navy corpsman and I can tell you that I have seen a lot of young people go through hell and back with their girls during their military experience. There is no clear answer it seems.
If you love her then maybe you should stay with her, but you have to accept the fact that it might not work out, and if that time comes you must be prepared to handle it like a man. It's expected of us in the military. And that is why we have chaplains.
On the other hand a read a journal of a Vietnam LRRP man who volunteered for service and consequently had to withstand a long distance relationship with his wife (without Skype. Only letters), and he claims that she helped save his life at times.
I work with a lady who is married to an army soldier and he deploys a lot. She stands by him and supports him 150%. It's amazing how gung-ho she is for him.
Good luck
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: 999]
#18720230 - 08/17/13 07:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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999 said: Aight, so, how could I be spending my time better? I get that feeling sometimes, too.
Eh I should've worded that post more cautiously, its not my place to say what someone 'should' do. But what I personally would do is move on, 2 weeks in 3 years is pretty over the top for an 18yr old.
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: XUL]
#18720284 - 08/17/13 07:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Damn, what a good reply. Oorah. All I can say to that. Also, I have questions out the ass for you, but I won't bother.. haha. Oh, and +5 Shrooms.
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18720289 - 08/17/13 07:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks for the response, that's sortof where I'm at..
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: 999] 1
#18720410 - 08/17/13 08:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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You are too young to be so emotionally invested in a woman who is not even there physically, this is a fantasy relationship, and it's not really healthy for either party.
How could you even consider marrying a woman that you haven't spent much time with? You don't really even know this girl.
You should just focus on yourself, and your future career goals and education, don't waste your energy into something that has no foundation.
Maybe one day you will meet a girl and you will get to know her from spending quality time with her, and having great experiences together, that is what a healthy relationships involves, real life interaction, not phone calls and skyping.
Edited by qman (08/17/13 08:39 PM)
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: qman] 1
#18722296 - 08/18/13 10:35 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Marry her for the extra money live off base . She's already messing around with jodie .
I was in the service and fuck it is hard. Had my ring mailed to me during my tour over at the sandbox. Had my best friend marry a girl and yeah he got to live off base and got extra money but now he can't find this girl for a devorce . And his current girl is pretty pissed about it..
I dated a girl who was married to a dude in the navy. He was gay they were just doing it for the cash. It was weird meeting him first thing I said was I'm plowing your wife.
There is no easy answer but if you do tie the knot be prepared to get burned.
And lastly thank you for your service. Sorry on a phone.
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Re: Should I stay or Should I go? [Re: trekie]
#18736758 - 08/21/13 10:23 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think you should talk to her about your doubts. There is a good chance she feels the same way.
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