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245willow19

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Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic?
#18718654 - 08/17/13 12:06 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Let us say you met a guy/girl and found they were a user/and or alcoholic, maybe a functional addict/alcoholic but would you date them if you knew?
Maybe you've met someone who you had deep feelings for but was a junkie, so what did you do?
I'm not just talking about people who are junkies dating other junkies but if you were clean and 'well' maybe you've never even touched illicit narcotics would you go out with a user if you fancied them? Also we can talk about marriage would you marry someone who was a junkie? 

I think I would probably date a junkie to some extent if I had deep feeling for them, even though I know it would be a lot of trouble and cause a ruckus but we human beings get such a short time on this damn rock of a planet so I think if I loved someone I would probably just swallow that bitter pill and listen to my heart. Anyone here date a junkie or alcoholic? How was your relationship with them?
If you would not date a Junkie/alcoholic then please tell us why...give legit a reason.
Edited by 245willow19 (08/17/13 12:12 PM)
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718659 - 08/17/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Nope. Not at all.
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Quote:
VivaLaMushie said: Nope. Not at all.
Why? Give us an answer 
Actually, I have second thoughts. No child deserves to have a junkie as a parent - even if they're functional. I wouldn't even consider having kids unless she had been clean and happy and functional for years and years. Just the chance of putting an innocent through that nightmare... it's not for me.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718672 - 08/17/13 12:10 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Honestly if were talking opiates no. I cant deal with that shit. actually I couldnt date a hardcore cokehead either
but I'm totally cool with alcoholics
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718678 - 08/17/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Because I wouldn't want to deal with their bullshit. I had a friend who was hooked on heroin and the mind games she would play and the lies & stealing just isn't something I want to be around.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718704 - 08/17/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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At this point I would have severe misgivings about dating even a cigarette addict. I value self control quite a bit. I'm not about to put up with junkie drama -lying, thieving, and the roller coaster of highs and lows. There are just so many downsides, and the only upside is they're a really great person- as long as they have their fix. Yea, No. At the end of the day, if they're a serious addict, you're dating them and the drug.
An Ex junkie? Sure. I could respect and find a lot of common ground with someone who had some fun but has their shit under control now.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Lynnch] 1
#18718706 - 08/17/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Junkies usually crash, fuck that.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718718 - 08/17/13 12:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not just no but HELL NO.
I've known many addicts of all types and they all have one thing in common: Their fix comes first. That's above their children, spouse, family, etc. Fuck that.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? *DELETED* [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#18718750 - 08/17/13 12:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Big Worm]
#18718754 - 08/17/13 12:39 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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never. my maid carefully screens all applicants for me.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Big Worm]
#18718758 - 08/17/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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There's no such thing as an ex-addict.
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abltsandwich said: There's no such thing as an ex-addict.
dead ones, but the maid screens for corpses also. so, its a wash........
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718776 - 08/17/13 12:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I personally don't hold any wrath around junkies. I don't think there reputation is justified. Consider the other drugs such as LSD beer Weed etc. Those ones are just as bad, but because they have a tag that says they're legal and or safe but regardless, you are still using. Really I am speaking frankly on the subject and it kind of makes me want to hesitate to speak on the topic, but because I am speaking so freely about the topic now I may as well persist in my endeavors to express my opinion for you. I did H a few times and I enjoyed the experience, and the damage afterward wasn't as bad as it was hyped, probably because my existence is already torture anyways. Can't get much worse now, and I'm lower than worms really. I would say that H isn't as dangerous as its thought to be, its a nice high, but not for me anymore.
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I would never date a junkie or an alcoholic...
Then again I do have a small problem with alcohol myself, maybe that's why I don't feel like I should have a girlfriend
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic? [Re: drkkenny]
#18718803 - 08/17/13 12:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I agree the views on someone who is addicted to opiates is unfounded and generally bias, but the people who use them don't seem to give a shit about anything.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Patlal]
#18718806 - 08/17/13 12:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'll take anyone at this point.
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Quote:
VivaLaMushie said: Nope. Not at all.
As a former junkie, I promise we don't make great boyfriends.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Patlal] 1
#18718816 - 08/17/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't date drug addicts, its a sign that bigger things is going on in their mind that I couldn't possibly fix.
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my girlfriend is an alcoholic. its a fucking joke in my opinion to say alcohol, its the thing that got me!! no. its that you have some kind of inner control/addiction issue that you have used to latch on to alcohol. it couldve been anything though. couldve been religion.
I think some people have an incredible ability to focus their energies on one thing. it can be positive in some cases, but when you have like low self-esteem or depression people tend to self medicate, and when they self-medicate with incredible focus, you get these addicts. I dont know if their reward-centers in their brains are permanently fucked as a result. But if they are, then trying to date a junkie/alcoholic is just an exercise in futility.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Magicman69]
#18718829 - 08/17/13 01:07 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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My boyfriend met me in college two years ago. We met in the hallway when I was walking to class, I saw him with a group of people dribbling balls, and then I requested that he come meet me later for I had to show him how much I loved him. Later that day we met in my backyard and I saw my ex waiting behind the fence, he wanted to cast his vengeance on the fact that I left him for my new bf, and because of this he always stood at my fence prepared to climb my fence and try to win back my love. I then jumped into my bfs arms and he carried me to the bed. We expected a night of sex, but instead we didn't get to that and we just watched tv. There was a tv show about life being documented in Ireland. They were going to document all the peoples lives as they were happening, so they could get personal confessions from the document hunters whom were in the habit of interrogating for information.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: drkkenny]
#18718845 - 08/17/13 01:15 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I dumped a girl cause she got on the meth. She started stealing but the big problem was our addictions feed off each other. I never did it before her and never did it again after I dumped her.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic? [Re: 245willow19]
#18718851 - 08/17/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Esekon Kelly said: Let us say you met a guy/girl and found they were a user/and or alcoholic, maybe a functional addict/alcoholic but would you date them if you knew?
Maybe you've met someone who you had deep feelings for but was a junkie, so what did you do?
I'm not just talking about people who are junkies dating other junkies but if you were clean and 'well' maybe you've never even touched illicit narcotics would you go out with a user if you fancied them? Also we can talk about marriage would you marry someone who was a junkie? 

I think I would probably date a junkie to some extent if I had deep feeling for them, even though I know it would be a lot of trouble and cause a ruckus but we human beings get such a short time on this damn rock of a planet so I think if I loved someone I would probably just swallow that bitter pill and listen to my heart. Anyone here date a junkie or alcoholic? How was your relationship with them?
If you would not date a Junkie/alcoholic then please tell us why...give legit a reason.
I would certainly date an alcoholic. I drink heavily and often myself, so it would bring us together as alkies in love. 
I would hesitate much more to date a junkie. I do not want to initiate a junk habit of my own and I know from experience that junkies mostly keep to themselves, so I doubt I'd even get the opportunity to date a junkie. It just doesn't seem worth the frustration.
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junkies bankrupt the op, they also frequently cohort with informants. disease is likely. and ,they rarely contribute to anything tangible.
many are manipulators and sociopaths.
they are banned from my realm entirely.
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Neither, drunk women are pretty annoying and junkies will steal your shit. Pot heads, casual drinkers and drug users would be alright.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic? [Re: 245willow19]
#18719155 - 08/17/13 02:32 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fuck no.
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I've had experiencs dating both. They are fun for awhile but that shit gets old. Fun for a few months or few years but don't make a wife out of them.
Now as junkie alcoholic that's a different story.
BTW this girl you speak of is clearly a junkie cop next time scream out prisoner.#1 during sex and he will take of his mask and it will be your turn to feel the ban hammer.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: trekie]
#18719244 - 08/17/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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weed/cigarette addicts count as junkies too, right? just makin sure
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Envix]
#18719250 - 08/17/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Envix said: weed/cigarette addicts count as junkies too, right? just makin sure
No.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Murph]
#18719280 - 08/17/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Those are both entirely different ball games.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie? [Re: Envix]
#18719284 - 08/17/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Envix said: weed/cigarette addicts count as junkies too, right? just makin sure
Why would you think this? Are you trolling?
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I've never seen someone smoking a cigarette and thought "junkie". Smelly sure but never junkie.
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Re: Would You Date a Junkie or Alcoholic? [Re: 245willow19]
#18719311 - 08/17/13 03:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Esekon Kelly said:
If you would not date a Junkie/alcoholic then please tell us why...give legit a reason.
I've got a hard-on for women who are big users, there's a line that gets drawn somewhere but when I'm dating I tend to party everyday and like someone who can keep up. Also not into long term relationships

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