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Oeric McKenna
LIFE CAPS


Registered: 06/15/12
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Yeah, but he's disrespecting you in my humble opinion. If it were YOU hanging out with a guy (who said he loved you*) in a place he couldn't go, he would flip. trust is not the issue. Not right. Not right is the issue
I've been saying this for years and although I'm a brewer I can honestly say that bars are a crappy place to be anyway. Full of lonely losers and people trying to get laid.
I 'trust' my friends but that doesn't mean I have to be naive enough to leave hundred dollar bills laying around. He's being an ass too in this situation.
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Brooke6925
Thatgirl



Registered: 06/12/13
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Oeric McKenna said: Yeah, but he's disrespecting you in my humble opinion. If it were YOU hanging out with a guy (who said he loved you*) in a place he couldn't go, he would flip. trust is not the issue. Not right. Not right is the issue
I've been saying this for years and although I'm a brewer I can honestly say that bars are a crappy place to be anyway. Full of lonely losers and people trying to get laid.
I 'trust' my friends but that doesn't mean I have to be naive enough to leave hundred dollar bills laying around. He's being an ass too in this situation.
yeah i get what your saying! He is just reaaaally stubborn and i am waaay to passive lol i just hate fighting about it, when i really shouldn't give a shit..but if they do try and hangout i will try and talk to him again..bleeeh
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greenspectral
Gutter Monk


Registered: 10/27/09
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if he wanted to spend his life with you, he wouldn't go out to bars with other females.
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withoutawire
hi


Registered: 08/16/09
Posts: 11,384
Loc: Honolulu, Hawaii
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Sheekle said: What seems to be the problem?
well, first of all im on an adderal so the situation doesn't help. my boyfriend gets a text from this girl (just a friend) and she is in LOVE with him, and he always tells me that if he wanted something to happen it would of already happened...and that makes me feel better, BUT i am 5 years younger than my boyfriend and that girl, so they go to bars together and I can't even go, and thats why she invites him to the bar...because i can't get in!!!!! Girls have there ways of seducing guys and im terrified she will get my man to do something with her...and i want to trust him but i've been cheating on multiple times and its KILLING me everytime i see them text, and he makes sure i can't see what there saying...this may not make a lot of sense im just angry and scared and it may seem like its not a big deal, but to me it is...we have been together for 2 years and i live with him..my whole life is with him and if she fucks it up i don't know where i will end up..and i know that's exactly what she wants...
I would tell him all these things, CALMLY. I would explain how my feelings are hurt because xyz but also remember you are not giving him much trust here. At some point you have to realize he's either going to respect you and your feelings or he won't.
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Brooke6925
Thatgirl



Registered: 06/12/13
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withoutawire said:
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Brooke6925 said:
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Sheekle said: What seems to be the problem?
well, first of all im on an adderal so the situation doesn't help. my boyfriend gets a text from this girl (just a friend) and she is in LOVE with him, and he always tells me that if he wanted something to happen it would of already happened...and that makes me feel better, BUT i am 5 years younger than my boyfriend and that girl, so they go to bars together and I can't even go, and thats why she invites him to the bar...because i can't get in!!!!! Girls have there ways of seducing guys and im terrified she will get my man to do something with her...and i want to trust him but i've been cheating on multiple times and its KILLING me everytime i see them text, and he makes sure i can't see what there saying...this may not make a lot of sense im just angry and scared and it may seem like its not a big deal, but to me it is...we have been together for 2 years and i live with him..my whole life is with him and if she fucks it up i don't know where i will end up..and i know that's exactly what she wants...
I would tell him all these things, CALMLY. I would explain how my feelings are hurt because xyz but also remember you are not giving him much trust here. At some point you have to realize he's either going to respect you and your feelings or he won't.
yeah! And i want him to know i trust him. I just don't trust girls, but yeah i know i need to talk to him, i just wanted to make sure i have a good reason too..and from what everyone has said it seems like i have a good reason to tell him!
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


Registered: 08/28/09
Posts: 82,455
Loc: Onypeirophóros
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you shouldn't really trust guys either, and trust me... it's not necessary in a relationship. not one that's just about sex anyways.
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Chowder963
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Registered: 01/31/10
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^^ I wouldnt really trust anything this guy has to say, in another thread he said there was NO SIMILARITIES in brain activity from masturbation and sex.. He switched his words a little bit after in editing but trust me thats what he said.
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


Registered: 08/28/09
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i wouldn't care, because not a pizza-faced peeping tom arguing about the facts of ejaculation with people on the internet.
OMG, i thought this was the damn masturbation thread... oh wow, i edited nothing in any of my posts, and i never even made that claim you worthless troll. you get topics and posters confused all the time, and logic, don't you? you pantywaste. i never said there was no similarities, i agreed with you in your rambling, and yet in the same breath told you that you're were completely misunderstanding in that you thought that is what withoutawire, implied, and now you're impling i "said that" by simply agreeing with him; when i never even did. i never responded to HIM. i responded to you, with a comments stating, YES, you have the same chemical release regardless if you're with someone or just jacking off, but that the overall FEELING OF BEING IN LOVE (which is what withoutwire was talking about NOT ME) is different, which should be obvious because without someone there can't be any of that, which is what he was arguing, but your DUMBASS ignored all of that. don't listen to yourself, troll, your really good at being that oblivious.
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withoutawire
hi


Registered: 08/16/09
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Loc: Honolulu, Hawaii
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yeah! And i want him to know i trust him. I just don't trust girls, but yeah i know i need to talk to him, i just wanted to make sure i have a good reason too..and from what everyone has said it seems like i have a good reason to tell him!
That's bullshit. If you don't trust her being with him then you don't trust him. It takes two to cheat.
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Chowder963
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Lol I saw your posts after the ambion, it looks like they are all hanging pieeces of paper moving NAnd i can read it wtf..
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


Registered: 08/28/09
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Chowder963 said: Lol I saw your posts after the ambion, it looks like they are all hanging pieeces of paper moving NAnd i can read it wtf..
yeah, ok. good. we can trust you for sure.
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withoutawire
hi


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akira_akuma
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Registered: 08/28/09
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i swear the off topic sharts of the board is leaking into the pub at an exponential rate.
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