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tko
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gf probs
#18475659 - 06/26/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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k i normaly dont ask advice on shit like this but this has got me all confused. so i ben on n off with this girl for about 3 years. weve always had fights over stupid shit but totaly in love. but it seems like a pattern we'll be fine for 3 4 mnths then shel lie about some STUPID shit,we fight then a week later fine. well now we havent been togethr for a month n she called n said she wana talk n that she know she has probs etc..thing is shes said this multiple times and always does something to provoke a fight. also her mom is a habitual liar and i know the apple dnt fall far from the tree..i just dont know wether to get over her,or try getting here to change...i really do think i love her,not a day goes by i dont think bout her. shes fucking HOT too so that dont help :/
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Re: gf probs [Re: tko]
#18476019 - 06/26/13 06:46 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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I used to be with a woman exactly like that. We broke up and started dating the exact opposite, a girl that was truthful almost to a fault. It took some adjusting but now we are engaged, getting with someone i could trust ended up being the best decision ever, i could never go back to a liar. Never.
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Seriously. What are the odds, OP?
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Re: gf probs [Re: mpd] 1
#18481829 - 06/27/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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Op I've been down that road, lies a lot and you're on and off for a reason. So she doesn't have to be committed and wants to fuck around, how do I know? Happened to me. We were on and off for 2 years and were in love (I think) but she just couldn't be happy with what I gave her. Found out at Christmas she told me she was going to her dads and later found out that she went away with her ex boyfriend the whole time and was also fucking her OTHER ex boyfriend. Just leave man, don't do it to yourself, you know you don't wanna be in a relationship with someone when you fight all the time so just don't do it. I've been with my current girlfriend for over a year now, like someone said above me total opposite, I trust her with my life and we haven't even fought once this whole time. If I don't Marry this girl it'll be someone like her. You deserve better, find a REAL relationship and be in love, it's great.
Oh, what happened to my ex? She got chlamydia, is now drug fucked, crashed her car and lost her job. She's only 20 (I'm 21). Best of luck OP but please leave, it's so much better without the shit
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tko
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Re: gf probs [Re: Nunny]
#18483549 - 06/28/13 11:14 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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nunny, funny you say that. it sounds almost IDENTICAL stories...and i realy jus dnt get it she'll stay at my house for weeks and wouldn't leave when i TOLD HER to go by her friends or w.e cuz know it not healthy to be together 24 7. then shed snap and take off saying i treat her bad etc....idk.... my ex before this left my after 2 yrs for my friend and she knows that fucked me up in the head. this is the reason good guys change. because one can only take so much.
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Re: gf probs [Re: tko] 1
#18485798 - 06/28/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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Why date someone who lies to you?
If they lie about one thing, they lie about many other things.
I don't date manipulative/lying women. Its just a bad sign.
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Re: gf probs [Re: Uzziel]
#18487342 - 06/29/13 09:24 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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Stuff her OP. Don't split up with her yet. You sound pussy whipped to me. Use her for sex for the time being. Meanwhile, go flirt with some other girls, if you can sleep with them too. Have no guilt. If you don't do as i say, you're going to end up with a broken hard, and worst of all, likely no closure on a situation that will eat at you for a long time.
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Re: gf probs [Re: Magenta]
#18487595 - 06/29/13 10:59 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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im not pussy whipped bruh lol. i mean ive slept around on her wit a couple girls,one was older, and she went crazy. like i know she loves me no question. just very unpredictable i believe she has bipolar also. and yeah thats what i intended to do,sleep around with NO consequence,but im just an honest person. i dont like to sneak around and lie,its just not who i am. idk we'll see what happens. lol this other girls a "squirter" not sure if i like that too much hahaha it was kinda rediculously fascinating. it was cool, just not the SOAKED bed part.
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Re: gf probs [Re: tko]
#18490021 - 06/29/13 08:58 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ok then, if that's the case, it sounds to me like you're a drama queen. Not much else we can add to the situation. You love her lying, but hate it at the same time. Have fun with that.
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Re: gf probs [Re: Magenta]
#18490043 - 06/29/13 09:04 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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STOP FUCKING BANANA CREAM PIES GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!
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WOAH WOAH you slept around with other girls while with her? Nvm youre fucked up too.
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tko
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yeah, she cheated on me then we were actualy taking a break so i didnt really cheat but yeah... not a fukn drama queen n never said i fucking love her lying lol.
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Re: gf probs [Re: tko]
#18490413 - 06/29/13 11:02 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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To be honest it doesn't sound like you are building something to last here.. But love works in mysterious ways so what do i know.
You seriously need to get a bed liner for the squirter though. Trust me on this one.
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Re: gf probs [Re: grayrey]
#18490448 - 06/29/13 11:10 PM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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^^ haha thats the best advice i heard so far. i mean its cool,but that shit was rediculous.
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Re: gf probs [Re: tko]
#18490829 - 06/30/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dating a liar will always lead to heartbreak, regardless of how hot she is or how much u want to make it work. Like someone else here wrote, when u find an honest person, it is awesome not having to second guess anything. I would end that nonsense, or scale back your expectations of having a healthy relationship.
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Re: gf probs [Re: tko]
#18491099 - 06/30/13 04:57 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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tko said: yeah, she cheated on me then we were actualy taking a break so i didnt really cheat but yeah... not a fukn drama queen n never said i fucking love her lying lol.
What the hell do you want from us man? you're in a stupid situation asking us Internet, faceless beings to help. We've given you all the information you need to build/create a successful relationship, but you barley acknowledge what we've said. She's not worth pursuing. If you disagree, give us one reason why she is worth pursuing for a serious relationship; just one. If you can't i will not be responding to this conversation any further: you annoy me op; you remind me of my ex, whom i wasted to much time on!
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Re: gf probs [Re: Magenta]
#18491429 - 06/30/13 08:13 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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