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hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships
    #1843563 - 08/23/03 04:06 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

it has come to my attention that all of my attempts at befriending a girl have ended up with me alienating said individual. GAH
FRUSTRATION


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1843646 - 08/23/03 05:00 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)



Edited by Xibalba (09/30/05 02:13 AM)


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: Xibalba]
    #1843673 - 08/23/03 05:22 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

hmm
mostly i think i believe what they say and will say the truth..ie, my quirkiness and insanity, that oftentimes start a friendship, become too overbearing and confusing for them to understand. i wonder why thats usually confined to girls? Hmm

also, for some odd reason, a part of me feels ecstatic when it turns out i was too odd after all...

frustration, i repeat!


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1843679 - 08/23/03 05:26 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

actually, this *may* have something to do with it:
they all have bfs, but all have said "i feel i can tell you anything"
nm ALL girls- all girls that I TRY to be friends with
maybe thats part of it?
sigh


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1843895 - 08/23/03 07:45 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

you are becoming their emotional crutch and since you've established the fact you are happy just being friends, they don't feel threatened by you at all. so they will drip their hearts to you, while bobby fucks their brains out every night.

in my opinion, this is the WORST place to be... and if i were you, i'd run fast.


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    #1843901 - 08/23/03 07:52 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

Nothing wrong with being friends with girls that you aren't attracted to sexually, though. I only have 2 truely platonic female friends and I think the only reason it works is because I'm not attracted to them physically in the least, and I would never even entertain the thought of fucking them.


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1843912 - 08/23/03 07:59 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

no, but thats not the point
right after saying that, the friendship always falls apart


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1849706 - 08/25/03 10:46 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

*bump*
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this sorta does concern me and all..


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1850377 - 08/26/03 02:47 AM (13 years, 3 months ago)

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

funny, but makes a lot of sense.
read it.


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: chinacat311]
    #1850612 - 08/26/03 06:13 AM (13 years, 3 months ago)



Edited by Xibalba (09/30/05 01:46 AM)


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: Xibalba]
    #1851139 - 08/26/03 01:07 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

i think its partly just a joke though...

while i find that basing human interaction on sexuality ala-freud is interesting, it is my opinion that sexuality is just a fundamental part of existence, and fits in perfectly with 3 sides per issue- positive, negative and neutral.. it's possible to describe human interaction through ANYTHING, but sex is always there, and it's fairly easy to describe human behaviour through it, without getting all funky and confusing


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    #1851291 - 08/26/03 02:08 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

i used to be friends with lots of girls, and not think about sex with them at all.

i've now realized what a waste of time that was.

NEVER again.


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1851349 - 08/26/03 02:36 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

I, being a girl, have a fair amount of male friends.
Only 1 of them is a friend that I can talk seriously with and share stuff with.
We are not attracted to eachother at all, but he has just started seeing this girl and I have been seeing less of him.
The same applies for gilrs too though, when they are dating we will drift apart for a while.
I wonder does the same kinda thing happen to homosexual people??


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1852648 - 08/26/03 09:40 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

I have the same problem you do. But me and 2 or 3 other guys have come to the mutual agreement that we only really want to be around 70% of said chicks because we're looking to hook up with them. Guys are really just cooler to be around, funnier, less offended :wink:. I ask myself if I'm shallow or sexist cause of it, but I've had a huge lack of chicks and my life, and I do find myself pushing chicks away that say no. Only natural at my age, But still, kinda unfair. I guess I'm sexist?...  I got no advice for you, just venting, or pointing out how we're in the same boat. I dunno, take it for what ya will :smile:


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Re: hrm.. wtf @ inter-gender friendships [Re: ]
    #1852659 - 08/26/03 09:43 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

BTW: A wise man once said "Women only desire what they cannot have"


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