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Sex drive slowing down....
#18421282 - 06/14/13 11:00 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I used to be a horny ass kid who would fuck 3 times a day and be so loud the neighbors heard. And while I still make love well enough to piss off my roommates and instill jealousy.....I'm not nearly as horny as I used to be.
More often than not after one time....I'm good. In order to be the love machine every man wants to be....I simply stop myself from cumming and only come after a while.
I just don't see a point for meaningless sex. I'd rather have a close intimate connection than bragging rights. I'm only 24 but can definitely see the change.
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Mr.PhilCybin
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You're just maturing and the things you want In life are changing with it. I had th exact same thing happen a few years ago. I can bang girls that are insanely hot, and I just can't bust because I'm not that into it. I mean, I love sex, it's great. I love looking at naked women, this is also great. But it doesn't get me off like being with someone I care about.
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Shins
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exorcise more.
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Sheekle
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Quote:
Anonymous said: I used to be a horny ass kid who would fuck 3 times a day and be so loud the neighbors heard. And while I still make love well enough to piss off my roommates and instill jealousy.....I'm not nearly as horny as I used to be.
More often than not after one time....I'm good. In order to be the love machine every man wants to be....I simply stop myself from cumming and only come after a while.
I just don't see a point for meaningless sex. I'd rather have a close intimate connection than bragging rights. I'm only 24 but can definitely see the change.
You have sex for the sake of bragging rights?
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Mr.PhilCybin
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Shins]
#18421654 - 06/15/13 01:29 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Shins said: exorcise more.
If this is directed at OP and you didn't intend to reply to me, then Ignore this. But excercise is not the issue in my case. I just don't get that turned on from "meaningless" sex anymore
-------------------- I'm stupid, Falcon91Wolvrn03 is smart. I'm ugly, Falcon91Wolvrn03 is beautiful. I'm a loser, Falcon91Wolvrn03 is a winner. Someday, I hope to be like Falcon91Wolvrn03 but secretly know I never will.
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koraks
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Shins] 3
#18421899 - 06/15/13 03:09 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Shins said: exorcise more.
QFT. Hire a professional exorcist if need be.
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Anonymous #2
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Why is the sex meaningless now all of a sudden?
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: koraks] 1
#18422182 - 06/15/13 06:19 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
koraks said:
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Shins said: exorcise more.
QFT. Hire a professional exorcist if need be.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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I'd be fucking happy with that. As I'm turning 24 this year, I'm looking very forward to not being that tortured by this (of course somehow meaningless) drive.
The problem is, I do have someone I care about and it gets me off, but that just won't do the trick.
So, decreasing testosterone levels, here I come :>
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Anonymous #4
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Mine just seems to be getting higher and higher but my girlfriends seems to be getting lower. This isn't a good combination.
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Apostle
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for maximum horniness
>avoid drugs if at all possible
>be aware of your prescription side effects
>work out
>Don't smoke
>try to minimize the porn
>save up your "energy" (stop cumming so much )
the most common libido killers in my experience are anti depressants and depression. lol.
there's lots of supplements
it depends on your gender
Are you male or female?
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joe Biggs
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426494 - 06/16/13 07:21 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Orgasm is an elusive drug. Its free and unlimited euphoria
sex becomes fixation. and keeps us single-minded i think it can be a good vice for relieving tension but often is a narcissistic anomaly.
Lil' Wayne articulates it nicely "But it's like as soon as I cum, I come to my senses"
we all become hellbent on venereal conquest with no real accomplishment to show for all our effort, except maybe a pile of cum or an abortion. even worse a child
so my point, i think a moderate sex drive is an intelligent, intellectual response to the depravity that is only ejaculation
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Edited by joe Biggs (06/16/13 07:26 AM)
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: joe Biggs]
#18426520 - 06/16/13 07:33 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Narcissism happens when you don't "let go"
sex is , largely, in the mind......mmmmmmmmm brains
but there's a physical/physiological aspect too. (eg; supplements/health)
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426647 - 06/16/13 08:35 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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for the record I've never taken anti-depressants and therefore am not speaking from experience.
Last thing i want to do is mislead someone.
maybe they work for you, i think it's easier just to be depressed
"if you're conscious you must be depressed, or at least cynical"- MGMT
i have found ,through vicarious research of others experiences, that they are no bueno for sex drive.
same with opiates and pharms and
ya dig?
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Icepic
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426674 - 06/16/13 08:45 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Stress kills my sex drive, when I'm under lot of financial pressure or pressure from our businesses, I am completely uninterested in sex at all and I'm only 30. Sex with someone you love is great and rewarding, but if you got 1000 other things to do to make sure there food on the table and lights on and a non leaky roof, it goes to the back of the line.
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Icepic]
#18426700 - 06/16/13 08:55 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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money, it's a drag............
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but don't take a slice of my pie
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sidewayz6.6
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Icepic]
#18426714 - 06/16/13 09:02 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm 24 and started an anti-depressant back in October. My sex drive has almost disappeared completely. I also am taking lithium for a couple months now, and a recovering heroin addict so that could contribute. There is also stress and financial and relationship problems too.
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: sidewayz6.6]
#18426724 - 06/16/13 09:06 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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i feel your pain
that was pretty much where i saw myself heading
i mean i was already wayyyyyyyyyyyyy deep into debauchery(addiction)
but hadn't taken the ssri snri etc... plunge
i am not the best with pharmaceutical knowledge but i know a little bit
enough to stay away
PAIN will save you
as addicts, (especially ones who like PAIN killers, go figure) we can't handle the pain of re-birth
but IF we can
which WE CAN
life becomes alot better
with lots of boners,
physical and otherwise.
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426730 - 06/16/13 09:08 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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and i'm not just talking about getting over dope sickness
i'm talking about ACCEPTANCE
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sidewayz6.6
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426825 - 06/16/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Hologram said: i feel your pain
that was pretty much where i saw myself heading
i mean i was already wayyyyyyyyyyyyy deep into debauchery(addiction)
but hadn't taken the ssri snri etc... plunge
i am not the best with pharmaceutical knowledge but i know a little bit
enough to stay away
PAIN will save you
as addicts, (especially ones who like PAIN killers, go figure) we can't handle the pain of re-birth
but IF we can
which WE CAN
life becomes alot better
with lots of boners,
physical and otherwise.
I was on the ssri before I was using heavily, but stopped taking it once I was deep into the habit. When I got clean I was put back on the ssri by my doc. Hey, do you use AIM? I would really like to talk with another recovering addict.
-------------------- Anything I post is purely theoretical, and not based in reality. All pictures are from google. A big part of me has died inside and I don't know if it will ever come back. Nothing makes me happy anymore. I use drugs and alcohol to numb the pain, and my sense of humor to hide the rest. I don't share these feelings with anyone in real life.
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: sidewayz6.6]
#18426837 - 06/16/13 09:45 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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all i do is talk with recovering addicts
i'm all institutionalized and kinda slow right now but bear with me and i will be back on aim
yes, i have aim
at the moment, i am here though.
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Apostle
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426899 - 06/16/13 10:00 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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talk.
me anytime if you'd like.
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sidewayz6.6
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: Apostle]
#18426932 - 06/16/13 10:08 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Hologram said: talk.
me anytime if you'd like.
PM sent
-------------------- Anything I post is purely theoretical, and not based in reality. All pictures are from google. A big part of me has died inside and I don't know if it will ever come back. Nothing makes me happy anymore. I use drugs and alcohol to numb the pain, and my sense of humor to hide the rest. I don't share these feelings with anyone in real life.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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Re: Sex drive slowing down.... [Re: sidewayz6.6]
#18434072 - 06/17/13 09:22 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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sidewayz6.6 said: I'm 24 and started an anti-depressant back in October. My sex drive has almost disappeared completely.
If you feel good enough, try to set off the ssri and see what it does to you. I can tell you from my own experiences that antidepressants greatly lower the drive. So fuck that shit, just stop taking it and your sexuality will come back.
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Anonymous #2
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I wish girls had even higher sex drives
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Apostle
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i wish chocolate candy bars were just a bunch of tasty lean protein and that drugs didn't make my brain slow.
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