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Anonymous #1

Getting the wife to smoke?
    #18407163 - 06/12/13 07:06 AM (10 years, 8 months ago)

So I haven't smoked weed since I got married, my wife is not a big fan, she may even have an irrational hatred of it.  Don't get me wrong, she's down with shrooms, molly, booze, benzos and opiates, she just hates marijuana.  Last time she smoked was in college at a loud, noisy party with a guy she didn't really like and it gave her a panic attack so she's never gone back. 

For some strange reason, recently she let up on her no toking policy and said I should trade some shrooms for some weed with her friend from work, he ended up bailing out on the deal, but my cousin in Cali wanted some shrooms and ending up sending me out a quad each of some Kosher Kush and Z (Zeta), along with some hash and wax.  My question is, which is best for a stress-case with anxiety issues?  Wax and hash are out, I don't want to get her mind-fuck wasted.  She tends to prefer downers in her drug use, but she also doesn't like feeling stupid, so I'm thinking the Kush is going to be the best choice as it should bring her down a notch and give her a nice mellow body high.  I think the Z would probably be a bit too stimulating and have a high chance of giving her paranoia.  She has some klonepin that she takes when she trips to ease up on the anxiety, so maybe some really clean feeling Z with a benzo would be alright?  In either case, I'm going to start her off with one hit and let her see how that goes, so it's going to be a small dose.  If you think it's worth it, I could always do a mixed bowl of both strains.  I haven't smoke in years and to be honest I never really gave a shit about strains, so I need to pick your brains about it. 

The other option is to do firecrackers and go the edible route so there's a slower come up, but I've found that it's really easy to get too stoned with edibles, and by the time you start feeling it, it's hard to re-dose if you've undershot the mark.  Let me know what you think guys.  She isn't too happy with the half ounce of weed we got (she thought I could just get a gram and smoke once or twice :lmafo:) so my being able to enjoy the occasional toke in peace without some major nagging every time for the foreseeable future depends on her enjoying this experience.  :grin:


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Anonymous #2

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18407312 - 06/12/13 08:14 AM (10 years, 8 months ago)

IMO people are too obsessed with the different strains. Sure they can produce differing effects, but the effects aren't that different. You basically need to be smoking all the time to see the difference in strains. Someone who rarely or never smokes is going to get pretty much the exact same high from any strain (or at the least, they're not going to be able to tell the difference). If you want her to not freak out, worry about set and setting, not strain.

Roll a joint or get a pipe. Just have her take a hit or two on a night when she's not already stressed out or in a bad mood.

Oh and yeah stay away from the concentrates. That's pretty much guaranteed to freak her out.


Edited by Anonymous (06/12/13 08:17 AM)


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Anonymous #1

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18407445 - 06/12/13 09:01 AM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
IMO people are too obsessed with the different strains. Sure they can produce differing effects, but the effects aren't that different. You basically need to be smoking all the time to see the difference in strains. Someone who rarely or never smokes is going to get pretty much the exact same high from any strain (or at the least, they're not going to be able to tell the difference). If you want her to not freak out, worry about set and setting, not strain.

Roll a joint or get a pipe. Just have her take a hit or two on a night when she's not already stressed out or in a bad mood.

Oh and yeah stay away from the concentrates. That's pretty much guaranteed to freak her out.




:lol: Yeah, I never worried about strain back in the day, I'm only curious because I have two options that my cousin claimed were radically different.  Set and setting won't be a problem, going to be chilling at our place.  I guess I'll just have her pop a benzo, drink a glass of wine, take one hit and hope for the best.  Worse comes to worse I'll just have to smoke all by my lonesome.  Would be nice to get high and a have a good stoney-fuck every once in a while though.
   
:bigjoint::doggystyle:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18408157 - 06/12/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
IMO people are too obsessed with the different strains. Sure they can produce differing effects, but the effects aren't that different. You basically need to be smoking all the time to see the difference in strains. Someone who rarely or never smokes is going to get pretty much the exact same high from any strain (or at the least, they're not going to be able to tell the difference). If you want her to not freak out, worry about set and setting, not strain.



Ok, that information only makes sense in non-medical states where you have a very limited variety of cannabis.  Just letting people know.

Coming from someone who's lived and had medical cards in several medical-cannabis states, as well as having lived in several non-medical states, and from the prospective of a 10 year grower, there are HUGE differences in strains and their effects are pronounced and specific, even on 'noobs' or people who don't smoke much.

You want to avoid 'panic attacks' or heightened anxiety?  Vape.  At least to begin with.

People that have anxiety issues with cannabis when smoking it can usually vape it all day without issues.  Once they're 'saturated' with cannabinoids, start introducing a small hit of straight cannabis once in a while.

Take it or leave it, best advice 10 years of intensive research and personal experience in the field can offer.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18408217 - 06/12/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
my being able to enjoy the occasional toke in peace without some major nagging every time for the foreseeable future depends on her enjoying this experience.  :grin:




I really don't understand why she has to enjoy weed in order to "allow" you to smoke yourself?


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Anonymous #1

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18408223 - 06/12/13 12:14 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #3 said:
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Anonymous #2 said:
IMO people are too obsessed with the different strains. Sure they can produce differing effects, but the effects aren't that different. You basically need to be smoking all the time to see the difference in strains. Someone who rarely or never smokes is going to get pretty much the exact same high from any strain (or at the least, they're not going to be able to tell the difference). If you want her to not freak out, worry about set and setting, not strain.



Ok, that information only makes sense in non-medical states where you have a very limited variety of cannabis.  Just letting people know.

Coming from someone who's lived and had medical cards in several medical-cannabis states, as well as having lived in several non-medical states, and from the prospective of a 10 year grower, there are HUGE differences in strains and their effects are pronounced and specific, even on 'noobs' or people who don't smoke much.

You want to avoid 'panic attacks' or heightened anxiety?  Vape.  At least to begin with.

People that have anxiety issues with cannabis when smoking it can usually vape it all day without issues.  Once they're 'saturated' with cannabinoids, start introducing a small hit of straight cannabis once in a while.

Take it or leave it, best advice 10 years of intensive research and personal experience in the field can offer.




Yeah, this is California medical grade stuff, not some east coast schwag off the streets of Philly.  :lol:  My cousin grows professionally out there and sent it to me.  Vaping is not really an option in terms of equipment, neither of us really want a bong around the house and this was supposed to be a once in a while/occasional thing, she would be pissed if I smoked more than a couple of times a month, so there's absolutely no hope of getting her tolerance up.   

I was just wondering if the indica would be a little more low-key than the straight up sativa for our first smoke.  I guess we'll just jump in and see how it works, I've known a few people in my life that simply just cannot enjoy a toke, and my wife might be one of them.  I guess we won't know until we give it the old college try.  I'm thinking maybe I can take a hit and shotgun it to her and that will lower the amount of tar and actives to give here a mellower high as well as be sexy, get her in the mood for a relaxing evening.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #18408248 - 06/12/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #4 said:
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Anonymous #1 said:
my being able to enjoy the occasional toke in peace without some major nagging every time for the foreseeable future depends on her enjoying this experience.  :grin:




I really don't understand why she has to enjoy weed in order to "allow" you to smoke yourself?




Up to this point she hates weed and doesn't enjoy smoking, so she's going to be pissed off and irritated with me when I smoke.  I smoke cigars too and she doesn't partake, complains a whole bunch when I do smoke that I smell like shit.  Not that uncommon of a thing in a marriage really, relationships are about compromise.  I'd rather the weed be something we could do together, so that we can both have fun and I can still get laid that night, because I love getting stoned and fucking.  It will still be fun if I have to do it as a separate, guy's night out kind of thing but honestly, it's something I'd like to be able to enjoy with my partner.  I'm taking it you're not married or you would understand that when you do something your wife hates you pay for it one way or another.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18408279 - 06/12/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

The stuff I smoke is shipped to my dealer from Cali. I'm not talking about east coast schwagg, either. When I first started smoking it, I was always far too high to appreciate any difference in the strains. 1 or 2 hits and I was just gone. Some made me ramble on, others made me lethargic, but in the beginning I was just too overwhelmed by the 'stoned' feeling that weed gives to really notice any difference. Was only after regular use and becoming accustomed to it that I could tell the differences. Have a friend who had similar experiences, too.

Anyways it's just my opinion.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18408285 - 06/12/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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I'm taking it you're not married or you would understand that when you do something your wife hates you pay for it one way or another.




Good luck with all that.  :lol::thumbup:


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Anonymous #1

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #18408459 - 06/12/13 12:54 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #2 said:
The stuff I smoke is shipped to my dealer from Cali. I'm not talking about east coast schwagg, either. When I first started smoking it, I was always far too high to appreciate any difference in the strains. 1 or 2 hits and I was just gone. Some made me ramble on, others made me lethargic, but in the beginning I was just too overwhelmed by the 'stoned' feeling that weed gives to really notice any difference. Was only after regular use and becoming accustomed to it that I could tell the differences. Have a friend who had similar experiences, too.

Anyways it's just my opinion.




Well, IMO, "rambling on" and "lethargic" are two easily identifiable experiences, which strongly correlate with the differences people talk about between sativa and indica, respectively.  I never paid attention to what kind of weed I was smoking at the time, but looking back I can definitely remember the feeling people describe as the classic sativa high vs. the classic indica high, so that binary makes sense to me, and personally I much prefer sativas.  :shrug:

Obviously, she won't be able to discern any nuances intellectually during the trip like a connoisseur, but it may have a profound effect on whether or not she thinks the experience is fun.  Just because you've never had any wine before doesn't mean you're not going to be predisposed to have a preference for a cabernet or a Riesling when you finally taste them, even if you don't have the language or experience to put that into words.  I'm trying to guess which will fit her personality better.   

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Anonymous #4 said:

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I'm taking it you're not married or you would understand that when you do something your wife hates you pay for it one way or another.




Good luck with all that.  :lol::thumbup:




I smoked weed for 15 years then went sober, and honestly don't want to go back to being an every day stoner, it totally got in the way of my various creative outlets and held me back in my career.  What I would like is to be able to pack a bowl and have a good time now and then, all the better if it's with my wife.  I certainly don't mind being able to pack a pea sized bowl and get blazed as fuck instead of having to vape a whole gram at a time, it makes the experience more enjoyable and is far better for my health and wallet.  There were good reasons I quit back in the day and it's going to be a course of moderation or nothing at all. 

And BTW, my wife is gorgeous, brilliant and pays all the bills, so I consider myself a fortunate man. 
:pantytail:
It doesn't really bother me if she doesn't like me smoking weed, I see her point of view and respect it.  She'll get drunk, drop acid, take shrooms, benzos, mdma or opiates with me and we have a lot of fun.  I'd like her to try weed once with me because we've never smoked together and I wanted some input on whether or not the choice of strain might help her have a better time.  It sounds like we're just going to have make the set and setting right and see if she really doesn't like weed or if it was just bad vibes in the past.  I'll check back in afterward if you guys care about the results.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18408727 - 06/12/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

Hey man I don't mean to knock your lifestyle, she sounds like a pretty cool chick...too bad she comes with nagging like all the standard models.  Keep us posted. :thumbup:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18409490 - 06/12/13 04:40 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
I smoked weed for 15 years then went sober, and honestly don't want to go back to being an every day stoner, it totally got in the way of my various creative outlets and held me back in my career.



Can totally relate.  By the time most strains have put enough CBD in me to be 'medicinal', the THC has me so whacked I have reduced functionality.

The rise of Harlequinn, Cannatonic and other strains with a 'balanced' cannabinoid profile is going to turn the country on it's ear.  No high, no buzz, just mood control, mild euphoria, focus, memory, patience and all the other medicinal benefits that come with high CBD content.

Unless you've actually spent time on the medicinal end of cannabis, it's really difficult to fully appreciate how many ways your life it negatively affected without it.  Most commercial strains won't let you experience that.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18409663 - 06/12/13 05:27 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #3 said:
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Anonymous #1 said:
I smoked weed for 15 years then went sober, and honestly don't want to go back to being an every day stoner, it totally got in the way of my various creative outlets and held me back in my career.



Can totally relate.  By the time most strains have put enough CBD in me to be 'medicinal', the THC has me so whacked I have reduced functionality.

The rise of Harlequinn, Cannatonic and other strains with a 'balanced' cannabinoid profile is going to turn the country on it's ear.  No high, no buzz, just mood control, mild euphoria, focus, memory, patience and all the other medicinal benefits that come with high CBD content.

Unless you've actually spent time on the medicinal end of cannabis, it's really difficult to fully appreciate how many ways your life it negatively affected without it.  Most commercial strains won't let you experience that.




Those sound awesome, maybe some day when I'm back on the best coast.  :lol:


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Anonymous #3

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18410111 - 06/12/13 06:54 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

Working on making it nationwide :smile:


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Anonymous #5

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18413166 - 06/13/13 11:35 AM (10 years, 8 months ago)

I am a female and I love smoking weed. It motivates me to work out and helps my muscles recover after lifting weights.

MuscleMarijuans.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #18413295 - 06/13/13 12:16 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #5 said:
I am a female and I love smoking weed. It motivates me to work out and helps my muscles recover after lifting weights.

MuscleMarijuans.




:lol:  Yeah, I've dated a lot of stoner women.  My wife is the first woman in a long time that I've been with that doesn't toke.


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Anonymous #6

Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18414746 - 06/13/13 05:07 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

A heavy indica strain would be best warlock or some other couch lock shit


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Re: Getting the wife to smoke? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #18414843 - 06/13/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous #6 said:
A heavy indica strain would be best warlock or some other couch lock shit




Thanks, I was leaning toward the indica.  Will try it this weekend. :bigjoint:


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