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Ballerium
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18393001 - 06/09/13 03:56 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Those of you that enjoy it, what about it do you like so much? My boyfriend just doesn't seem very gung ho about it.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium]
#18393054 - 06/09/13 04:12 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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How old is he?
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Ballerium
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: automan]
#18393113 - 06/09/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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23 but we are each other's first sexual partners.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium] 2
#18393132 - 06/09/13 04:35 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Your next boyfriend will be much better at it. IME, only selfish guys don't like to do it.
Giving head is awesome. The way a girls thighs start to shake around your head and you have to hold them down to keep them from crawling away.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: automan]
#18393173 - 06/09/13 04:48 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Heh I've been with him for 6 years. We say we are in it for the long haul but you can't predict the future. 
Sounds enjoyable from the way you describe it though.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium]
#18393209 - 06/09/13 04:55 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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me no likey selfish lovers
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: automan] 1
#18393226 - 06/09/13 04:59 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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automan said: Your next boyfriend will be much better at it. IME, only selfish guys don't like to do it.
Giving head is awesome. The way a girls thighs start to shake around your head and you have to hold them down to keep them from crawling away.

Sounds awful that your BF isn't interested.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium]
#18393230 - 06/09/13 04:59 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ballerium said: Sounds enjoyable from the way you describe it though. 
Seems enjoyable when I do it
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18393316 - 06/09/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said:
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automan said: Your next boyfriend will be much better at it. IME, only selfish guys don't like to do it.
Giving head is awesome. The way a girls thighs start to shake around your head and you have to hold them down to keep them from crawling away.

Sounds awful that your BF isn't interested.
Ehh he isn't interested in much to do with me these days, but that's a whole 'nother can of worms that I'd rather not get into. Ahh, if only honeymoon phases could last forever. Maybe I can somehow manage to convince him.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium] 1
#18393729 - 06/09/13 07:05 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ballerium said: Heh I've been with him for 6 years. We say we are in it for the long haul but you can't predict the future. 
Sounds enjoyable from the way you describe it though. 
If you're in it for the long haul then you're gonna need to get him on your page sexually.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Dark_Star]
#18393753 - 06/09/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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I need him to get on my page on a lot more things than just sex. Communication is our biggest problem and every time I try to discuss an issue with him, it ends up blowing up into an argument with me crying and him threatening to leave me. Nothing ever gets solved. Maybe I should go make a thread on communication because I seriously need advice.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium] 1
#18394724 - 06/09/13 10:08 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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It sounds like you need to break up to be honest. None of those things you're speaking of are even remotely healthy qualities in a relationship.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18394840 - 06/09/13 10:37 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah ballerium, seems like you need to cut things off with him. You haven't been together all that long and it's that bad? You can try to fix it but it doesn't sound like he wants to.
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I agree, they aren't, I just feel like most of our issues wouldn't even be issues if we could communicate with each other effectively. I think over time the fact that has pushed us apart because we would get into so many arguments. We both still love each other and I just have this hope I guess that we will eventually be able to get over this and be happy again. That is what I want, and he says that is what he wants too, that he doesn't want to leave me. He says a lot of hurtful things when we argue that I don't think he truly means.
External factors such as living with my parents right now, being in debt, having bad credit, and being unable to afford to move out or do anything fun really, definitely are probably influencing the way we are toward each other as well. So I am trying to remain optimistic about the whole thing and wanting to give our situation a chance to get better. We have lived with my parents pretty much the whole time we have been together except for about 6 months. Then we ended up losing our jobs and things just got worse.
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Distorted Vision said: Yeah ballerium, seems like you need to cut things off with him. You haven't been together all that long and it's that bad? You can try to fix it but it doesn't sound like he wants to.
We've been together for 6 years, which is a pretty long time for someone's first relationship. I think it would be really painful for both of us to leave someone who we had shared that much time with.
It doesn't seem like he is eager to fix it, but there's also other stuff going on that is just too much to explain which is why I didn't want to open that can of worms in the first place. Maybe I'll explain another time, but for now I have to get some sleep.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium]
#18396330 - 06/10/13 08:31 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ballerium said: Communication is our biggest problem and every time I try to discuss an issue with him, it ends up blowing up into an argument with me crying and him threatening to leave me. Nothing ever gets solved.
been there, done that. i'm not trying to be a dick but it sounds like it's time to move on to me.
when me and my baby's momma split i was heart-broken but also very relieved to be out of a relationship with someone who wanted to argue all the time about every little thing, and con't to make more issues, and issues wore, rather then solve any of them.
my best bud said about the split: "now you can learn how to be happy again." i thought he was a total ass for saying it at the time but he was right, i did learn how to be happy again.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: broken]
#18396337 - 06/10/13 08:32 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Because it's like being choked with a hot dog, but at least the hot dog tastes okay..
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: broken]
#18396712 - 06/10/13 10:37 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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closed veil said:
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Ballerium said: Communication is our biggest problem and every time I try to discuss an issue with him, it ends up blowing up into an argument with me crying and him threatening to leave me. Nothing ever gets solved.
been there, done that. i'm not trying to be a dick but it sounds like it's time to move on to me.
when me and my baby's momma split i was heart-broken but also very relieved to be out of a relationship with someone who wanted to argue all the time about every little thing, and con't to make more issues, and issues wore, rather then solve any of them.
my best bud said about the split: "now you can learn how to be happy again." i thought he was a total ass for saying it at the time but he was right, i did learn how to be happy again.
Yeah I know you're just trying to help and I appreciate the advice. But I guess the way I see it is that we're both going to have to get better at communication at some point, whether its between the two of us or with someone else. Might as well get it right the first time. I actually began researching communication just this week haha. Why I didn't do this sooner I have no idea. But I at least want to try and do some things differently before I just give up.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium]
#18396728 - 06/10/13 10:46 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: 36fuckin5]
#18396780 - 06/10/13 11:04 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's a 2 year old thread that got bumped by a puppet,  No-one cares if we are off-topic.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium]
#18397014 - 06/10/13 12:06 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ballerium said: the way I see it is that we're both going to have to get better at communication at some point
Not necessarily. I hope it works out though.
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