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no-tone
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I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy...
#1821421 - 08/16/03 10:41 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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So i met this girl at my university about 8 months ago. We have been going out since about then. I moved to a new city to be with her because i love her. I have been here for the last 2 months working full time labour. THere are a few(cough) problems with her/our relationship that i would like to get out in the open : 1. She is severely chemically imbalanced. She has either bi-polar disorder or schzoaffective disorder. This means that her moods fluctuate from depression (thankfully not suicidal) to mania up to 2 times an hour. She is supposed to be taking medication but is distrustful of pharmaceutials. I'm pretty sure almost all of the following problems are associated with this. 2. She is a musician, so am I. We disagree completely about it though. SHe is an attention seeker (she is absolutely gorgeous), and plays the girlie type pop shit on the acoustic that makes me want to kill myself. I play music for music, she plays to be a star. 3. SHe is a liar. THe first time we hung out she claimed that she never lies. Right then i should have known she was a liar. 4. She has few true friends. Women are threatened by her because she gets so much attention from men, therefore she onlyt meets men. I could deal with this for a while (6 months), but when we go to a bar she criuses from group to group of men flirting with them. All in front of me. 5. She pulls this "i'm gonna have an orgasm by you, but when its your turn, i'll just get up and not be in the mood anymore." Sexual frustration. 6. She's a very abstract thinker/speaker. I am a science student and like logic. When she's manic, she talks so fast i can't understand what she says and her sentences are choppy at best. When she's low it is almost impossible to have a conversation with her because it might take her 5 minutes to answwer a simple question or she'll only internalize bits of it, totally missing the point. 7. She often puts herself in unnecessary danger. Example: just sleeping in a park or on the beach. Approaching large groups of park dwellers well past dark. i'm going to add more later, tell me what you think.
-------------------- Man thinks. God laughs. - Jewish Proverb
Edited by no-tone (08/16/03 10:48 PM)
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ArmFromTheAbyss
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1821597 - 08/17/03 12:04 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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I got involved with a pyscho girl one time. BIG mistake. Get out man, you can never solve HER problems. "Your problems create problems. And your answers are my problem." -In Pieces.
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Edited by ArmFromTheAbyss1 (08/17/03 12:06 AM)
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Adden
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1821617 - 08/17/03 12:17 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sounds like a typical woman...
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LeViTY
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1821690 - 08/17/03 12:50 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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As a person with Bi-Polar disorder, it's frusterating to hear you use the term 'crazy' so loosely. Growing up with the disorder, I thought I was 'crazy' and it made me feel like shit, if I knew my boyfriend thought I was crazy, I'd be hurt as hell..
Maybe instead of jumping to name-calling, you should think about if you're the right type of guy for this girl.
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Adden
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: LeViTY]
#1821841 - 08/17/03 01:50 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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^^^ I don't have much advice, except to not listen to that!
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Shaw
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1821847 - 08/17/03 01:52 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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hit it as much as you can, (in the butt if possible) then run like hell. stay the hell away from psycho girls.
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Strumpling
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1821961 - 08/17/03 02:56 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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yup; girls can be just as fucked-up as we can
-------------------- Insert an "I think" mentally in front of eveything I say that seems sketchy, because I certainly don't KNOW much. Also; feel free to yell at me. In addition: SHPONGLE
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thenetherworld
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: ArmFromTheAbyss]
#1826394 - 08/18/03 01:26 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
ArmFromTheAbyss1 said: I got involved with a pyscho girl one time. BIG mistake. Get out man, you can never solve HER problems.
"Your problems create problems. And your answers are my problem." -In Pieces.
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PDU
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: thenetherworld]
#1826967 - 08/18/03 03:36 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sounds like typical woman to me.....
Sorry man, id get out.
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Malachi
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1828163 - 08/18/03 09:52 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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man, don't listen to these guys, the crazy girls are actually the coolest... you've just gotta wait out the crazy. let her know that you're concerned, but don't over do it cause psycho girls often are looking for a reaction. so in short, it sounds like you have a good thing (come on, she sound really interesting to me...) so I wouldn't let the fact that we live in manic modern times effect your perspective.
-------------------- The ultimate meaning of our being can only be fulfilled in the paradoxical leap beyond the tragic-demonic frustration. It is a leap from our side, but it is the self-surrendering presence of the Ground of Being from the other side. - Paul Tillich
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Azmodeus
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: no-tone]
#1834043 - 08/20/03 03:08 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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no-tone said: tell me what you think.
That bitch is whack! find a better one.
-------------------- "Know your Body - Know your Mind - Know your Substance - Know your Source. Lest we forget. "
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utopianglory
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: Malachi]
#1839353 - 08/22/03 12:22 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Girls around 18-22 are really crazy in a bad way a lot of the time. They are unpredictable and extremely difficult for a male to figure out. I think males are idiots but at least you know what they are going to do.. its so frustrating to play roulette with a crazy girl. I think they will eventually mellow though after a while, it seems to be the trend as they get older. Its up to you whether you want to wait out this phase though.
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alakona
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: utopianglory]
#1839479 - 08/22/03 01:27 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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yes, its true. we are crazy in a bad way a lot of the time. but isnt it fun after you DO figure us out?
-------------------- making you want to be a better person since 2008. TrippinTeddy said: sometimes when I'm raping a bitch, I like to tickle her ribs and under neath her arms, and I say "loosen up bitch, lets have fun now because if I have to kill your squirming ass, only one of us will be having fun, and you can't have a party all by yourself can you?" Then its usually all laughs and good times from there.
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Azmodeus
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: alakona]
#1841179 - 08/22/03 03:21 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Not really because even figured out, you women unpredictable at best, and down right hellish at worst!
-------------------- "Know your Body - Know your Mind - Know your Substance - Know your Source. Lest we forget. "
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Snobrdr311
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Re: I thought my OTHER girlfriends were crazy... [Re: Azmodeus]
#1843542 - 08/23/03 01:49 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Azmodeus said: Not really because even figured out, you women unpredictable at best, and down right hellish at worst!
I don't think i've ever agreed with anything more.
I know this way of thinking is kind of ignorant, but with all my female issues in the past year, i'm growing really sexist. Even the ones I care about most like my mother really get under my skin a lot more nowdays. And I think why.. uhmm.. cuz they're all chicks and they all do the same things that just bug the shit out of you!
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