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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18175786 - 04/27/13 07:09 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You sound like a nice guy. Why do you care so much about someone who is blatantly using you and disrespecting you?


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Sagescruffy]
    #18175789 - 04/27/13 07:13 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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You sound like a nice guy. Why do you care so much about someone who is blatantly using you and disrespecting you?




Yea I like to think so but that just sounds very narcisistic. Well at this point as I'm typing this I don't really care anymore. I'm just looking to straighten things out and figure out why he's doing this. Also maybe fix our friendship because it seemed pretty good at one point. It just seems so unusual, I feel like I'm overreacting because of what's going on.

And so that if he really is being a dumb chump, It'll give me a chance to take him down a notch or two when he will feel the most sensitive about what I have to say. He's tried to make me look like a fool in front of my girlfriend, so I'm going to return the favour to him. :grin: :evil:


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18175793 - 04/27/13 07:15 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Well that's another thing man. It's easy to cut people down. It's hard to move on and let go.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Sagescruffy]
    #18175803 - 04/27/13 07:20 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Well that's another thing man. It's easy to cut people down. It's hard to move on and let go.





Yea very true, but he's tried to cut me down so why not return the favour? :shrug:
Still not 100% sure whether or not I'm going to try and cut him down, but I am going to bring all this up to him.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18175813 - 04/27/13 07:31 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Well I wish you luck bro! Hopefully you come out of this okay :smile:


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Sagescruffy]
    #18175817 - 04/27/13 07:34 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Well I wish you luck bro! Hopefully you come out of this okay :smile:




Thanks man, I'm not too worried about how I'll end up. I'm fine now, and will be even more fine after. I'm just a little shocked that he would do this, but I've kind of expected this side to him for awhile so it doesn't bother me too much. Kind of just feel like I wasted my time, but this happens with a lot of people I have as best friends. Two, three years later we just split ways.

So in all honesty I think after I talk to him, I'm going to go off on a personal adventure with music and my personal lil sac of DMT.

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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18175821 - 04/27/13 07:39 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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One thing I should mention funegi is that you said something about him losing trust for me? I really have done absolutely nothing towards him to make him lose trust. All I've been up to recently (month'ish) is hanging out with my girl, going to school and hitting up a bar or so once a week.



what I meant was you have lost trust in him. if someone is trying to one-up you all the time how can you trust that?
but if you want to give him a second chance, keep updated w/how the "friendship" goes after your talk.  I suspect it wont go well


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: funegi]
    #18175834 - 04/27/13 07:54 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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funegi said:
what I meant was you have lost trust in him. if someone is trying to one-up you all the time how can you trust that?
but if you want to give him a second chance, keep updated w/how the "friendship" goes after your talk.  I suspect it wont go well




Ah, well yea I have lost trust in him. I dont expect it to go too well after the talk either, but you never know.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18175988 - 04/27/13 09:46 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Ever think of not letting him near your GF anymore?  Why even hang out with the both of them together?  Sometimes keeping relationships separate is the best way.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: qman]
    #18176298 - 04/27/13 11:56 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

OP you need to have a man to man talk with your best friend.

Just sit down calmly with him where noone can interfere and just tell him that you think his behavior is innaproriate and that you would like him to stop.

If he's got a bit of common sense he'll say ok I'll stop.

Easy as that IMO


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Patlal]
    #18176961 - 04/27/13 04:00 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Patlal said:
OP you need to have a man to man talk with your best friend.

Just sit down calmly with him where noone can interfere and just tell him that you think his behavior is innaproriate and that you would like him to stop.

If he's got a bit of common sense he'll say ok I'll stop.

Easy as that IMO





That's what I'm doing man, I'm gonna sit down with him today whilst on mushrooms and bring everything up to him.


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Ever think of not letting him near your GF anymore?  Why even hang out with the both of them together?  Sometimes keeping relationships separate is the best way.




By not keeping it seperate, I learned my "best friends" true intentions.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18179093 - 04/28/13 01:16 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You should have nipped that kind of behavior in the bud right when it started.  He's trying to establish dominance over you, and you need to show you're the alpha and don't take kindly to that shit IN FRONT OF your girl, but don't act butthurt.  Be calm and assertive.  If he tries to put you down, don't try to "prove him wrong" because then it subconsciously means you are looking for validation from him (talking about how you wrote something for your english class when he criticizes your grammar) which puts him on a higher level than you in front of your girl.  If he's putting you down in a joking manner (trying to be funny at your expense) just fight fire with fire and throw his flaws in his face then walk away with your hand on your girls ass squeezing it.  I know it seems petty to stoop to that level, but he's not showing you ANY respect by behaving that way.  Plus if he has a crush on your girl then it will drive him crazy seeing you show dominance over him and keeping the "prize".

I had a buddy once who was trying to be overly-flirtatious with my gf and she told me it made her uncomfortable.  So I told him he needed to check himself, that he was out of pocket and if it continued then I wouldn't be quite so nice about it the next time.  He apologized profusely to both of us.  Could it have been a misunderstanding?  Maybe, but it certainly prevented any future misunderstandings from occurring. 

Another time I was at a party and a guy I knew tried hitting on my gf by putting me down when I wasn't around, something like "You're here with Blue?  I'm sorry" in a manner which implied he was sorry that she was with me she told him "fuck off bum" and he called her a bitch.  She came and got me and told me what he said so I confronted him, and he flipped his attitude up real quick and apologized for calling her a bitch.  I could tell he was butthurt, but he didn't say shit to us the rest of the night.  He also apologized again the next time I saw him and tried to blame it on alcohol, but I'll never trust the dude.

The point is you gotta stand up for yourself and your woman.  I make it clear when I begin a relationship that I've never cheated on a girl & I don't tolerate cheating or lies, and that the relationship is over when that kind of trust is broken.  I've never been cheated on (knock on wood)  that I know of, but I am certain that if I have been and I found out, the relationship would have been done right then and there.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18179282 - 04/28/13 02:11 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Why you would even consider having somebody like that in your presence is beyond me.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18179283 - 04/28/13 02:12 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

he said they were cool for a long time man, no one wants to lose that


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: berdinwall]
    #18179291 - 04/28/13 02:14 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18179913 - 04/28/13 05:17 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

So everything is all good between me and my homie. We enjoy trolling each other in our friendship, and normally I'm all for trolling each other. But what made me so upset is it had to do with my girlfriend, and I just got oversensitive. He agreed to stop doing it which is awesome. We had quite a good conversation.


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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: deadwk]
    #18179984 - 04/28/13 06:08 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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and I just got oversensitive.




I disagree, and I wouldn't trust your friend. Your perogative though...



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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18180057 - 04/28/13 07:10 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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    #18181925 - 04/28/13 05:37 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Re: Am I just tripping, or is my best friend really trying to hit on my girlfriend? [Re: centipad]
    #18182020 - 04/28/13 05:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

People change, and not always for the better.  I had a supposedly "friend" try to get on with my girlfriend in the past.  Your situation describes mine in a similar way, he was a loser, and I was not.  I pretty much just brushed it off as him being desperate (and truthfully, he was) and stopped talking to him.  You pull this off well and you come off as cool and confident.  Good luck my friend, don't trust any sleazebag who acts like this guy does.  Real friends don't do that kind of shit.

I would be more concerned if your girlfriend reciprocated.

By the way, I can :pm: you if you want to discuss this further.

Cheers!  :thumbup:


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