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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: zappaisgod]
#18097659 - 04/12/13 02:52 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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The_Aviator said: I read somewhere that something like 1/9 Asians are descendents of Genghis Khan. Maybe you can somehow utilize that information.
I think I also read somewhere that we all are. I hope I am.
Nah, it's something like 1% of the human race, which is still a lot of people. Scientists used to think that all human men descended from one individual "genetic Adam" until they just recently found a remote tribe in Africa with a different y chromosome.
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nice car nice teeth nice hair nice clothes nice attitude(at first )
and you can pretty much get any of them, not just asian women.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: zZZz]
#18098296 - 04/12/13 05:05 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Solid advice. Can't afford to do too much right now about the car thing (my truck is pretty nice), but I'm pretty well covered on the rest.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18098338 - 04/12/13 05:15 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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a disingenuous endeavor will fall in light of greater scrutiny
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098365 - 04/12/13 05:21 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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please don't misunderstand my post as being disingenuous. It's really not. I'm not trying to change my style or anything like that, I'm simply trying to have a better understanding of how women of a different culture think and like to be approached. I don't see how that's really a bad thing
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098369 - 04/12/13 05:21 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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JesusIsLord said: a disingenuous endeavor will fall in light of greater scrutiny
was that in a fortune cookie by chance?
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18098390 - 04/12/13 05:27 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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JesusIsLord said: a disingenuous endeavor will fall in light of greater scrutiny
was that in a fortune cookie by chance?
haha nah. i just like to be cryptic
but hey - just be yourself. if that's not enough, screw it.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098443 - 04/12/13 05:38 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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OMG not the "just be yourself" advice.
I think if most men were "just ourselves" around women, we would probably never get a date. I'm just sayin- we all do the dance. I'm just trying to figure out the favored regional version of said dance.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18098470 - 04/12/13 05:42 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: OMG not the "just be yourself" advice.
I think if most men were "just ourselves" around women, we would probably never get a date. I'm just sayin- we all do the dance. I'm just trying to figure out the favored regional version of said dance.
It's the most practical advice. A relationship built off facades is doomed from the start.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098495 - 04/12/13 05:46 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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I agree that facades are to be avoided, but really if we all went around acting like our caveman selves, I think there would be very little romance.
Don't you get your hair cut and take a shower before a date? It's all part of the dance. That's all I'm saying. Be yourself, but also figure out ways to relate.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18098512 - 04/12/13 05:50 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: I agree that facades are to be avoided, but really if we all went around acting like our caveman selves, I think there would be very little romance.
Don't you get your hair cut and take a shower before a date? It's all part of the dance. That's all I'm saying. Be yourself, but also figure out ways to relate.
Men are caveman selves? So, without women, men are just uncivilized beasts according to you?
What kind of misandric feminist trash have you been eating?
Men are scientists, engineers, mathematicians, soldiers, poets, astronauts, inventors, teachers, and much more for reasons beyond just "doing the dance".
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098517 - 04/12/13 05:51 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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I only stated that a wife is the most expensive piece of ass you'll ever have because a relationship between a man and a woman is a social exchange at any level--the man get something, the woman gets something whether it be money, security, sex, etc. I stated it is jest)
As far as having 'yellow fever' I've liked asian women since i was a little kid. Probably the reason for it is I was stoned as bejesus once in pattaya beach thailand, and this really old woman read my fortune and said in a previous life I was a great Asian warrior. Shit, I might have even been genghis khan...
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098552 - 04/12/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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I was fed a lot of feminist trash in my early years honestly. I believe in feminism in it's pure form (women being equal in value to men), but I reject the idea that we should be ashamed of our sexuality and also ashamed of doing the things we do to attract sexual partners.
What kinda feminist trash have you been reading if you think it's wrong for a man to do what is in his power to attract a mate?
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18098560 - 04/12/13 06:00 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: I was fed a lot of feminist trash in my early years honestly. I believe in feminism in it's pure form (women being equal in value to men), but I reject the idea that we should be ashamed of our sexuality and also ashamed of doing the things we do to attract sexual partners.
What kinda feminist trash have you been reading if you think it's wrong for a man to do what is in his power to attract a mate?
there are no words
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18098578 - 04/12/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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fair enough
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#18098598 - 04/12/13 06:07 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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just do this to them. they will love you
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18098610 - 04/12/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Act like an American.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: cez]
#18098635 - 04/12/13 06:14 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Master the chopstick
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: Tripsurfer]
#18098733 - 04/12/13 06:33 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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I am already a master of the chopsticks. Don't you worry about that.
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Re: Tips for dating Asian women? [Re: nicechrisman]
#18099086 - 04/12/13 07:38 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: please don't misunderstand my post as being disingenuous. It's really not. I'm not trying to change my style or anything like that, I'm simply trying to have a better understanding of how women of a different culture think and like to be approached. I don't see how that's really a bad thing
A good thing to do is to express interest in this to an actual girl of said culture and learn about it from her - I think it would be very much appreciated instead of trying to figure out how to jump all the hurdles of cultural differences or act like you know everything. It's okay to ask questions, especially when you're genuinely interested in learning the subject and casts you in a much better light, I think.
I mean, wouldn't you rather someone express an interest in learning about defining things in your life(psychedelics, where your from, your favorite past times) and immerse themselves in it with you accompanying them in the process? Big points, in my book. But I'm not an asian girl soo..
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