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Just found out my ex is moving several states away...
    #18079775 - 04/08/13 10:47 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

...with her new boyfriend of 3 months.  She has two kids who I loved as my own.  I haven't really talked to her since we broke up almost a year ago.  I still miss her but I know we couldn't work it out so I let her go even though I still think about her and she tried to find ways to get back in my life but I'm too prideful after how we ended.  She has no family down there, and her family up here has been her foundation for taking care of her kids. 

I guess she has a job offer down there (probably just a transfer, as supposedly her boyfriend is moving there first and so she conveniently has a job offer and is going to transfer schools).  My heart break just had a relapse.  I'm mostly worried that something bad will happen (She moving to Baton Rouge, LA and doesn't have a very high income, and NOBODY to help her).  I think part of me has been holding on to the love we had, and now its for certain that things will never work out and I may never see her EVER AGAIN. 

Anyway, yea... I've been clean for a couple months but this MDMA is calling my name.  I probably won't do it though because I know it makes things worse after.  I can't smoke weed and I might have fucked up my probation with a driving on revoked two weeks ago.  I'm not a drinker because that makes me drown in emotion.  I was getting close to being at ease enough to take a mushroom journey, but that's not gonna happen for a while now too.  Fuck.

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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #18080176 - 04/09/13 01:15 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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...with her new boyfriend of 3 months.  She has two kids who I loved as my own.  I haven't really talked to her since we broke up almost a year ago.  I still miss her but I know we couldn't work it out so I let her go even though I still think about her and she tried to find ways to get back in my life but I'm too prideful after how we ended.  She has no family down there, and her family up here has been her foundation for taking care of her kids. 

I guess she has a job offer down there (probably just a transfer, as supposedly her boyfriend is moving there first and so she conveniently has a job offer and is going to transfer schools).  My heart break just had a relapse.  I'm mostly worried that something bad will happen (She moving to Baton Rouge, LA and doesn't have a very high income, and NOBODY to help her).  I think part of me has been holding on to the love we had, and now its for certain that things will never work out and I may never see her EVER AGAIN. 

Anyway, yea... I've been clean for a couple months but this MDMA is calling my name.  I probably won't do it though because I know it makes things worse after.  I can't smoke weed and I might have fucked up my probation with a driving on revoked two weeks ago.  I'm not a drinker because that makes me drown in emotion.  I was getting close to being at ease enough to take a mushroom journey, but that's not gonna happen for a while now too.  Fuck.

/endrant




I say screeeeeew her. No woman hass ever been worth my tears and I dont know why anyone would be. There are so many willing (and extremely able) women out there its not even funny. Have some fun, get out there and enjoy your life.


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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: jaysfluid] * 1
    #18080535 - 04/09/13 05:47 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Move along, OP.  The say we hold a candle for those who burned brightest in our heart.  It is okay to hold that "flame", but know it for what it is and deal with it from there.  You can still be a part of the kids' lives and all, but you have to stop vicariously living through her and live your own.  It's the healthy thing to do.  Bless it and move on.  Choose again. 

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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: mpd] * 1
    #18082015 - 04/09/13 01:50 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

I understand how u feel but u have to learn how to balance ur feelings! I know it hurts yes it sucks but u have to try to get over her I know u love her but its the rite thing to do! U can try to be part of the kids life but u gots to let her go live ur life! I know it freakin sucks but one day u will look back and say yes I loved her but I learned from it now I am a better person cuz of her!:hug:


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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: Pink_Mushroom11] * 1
    #18083241 - 04/09/13 05:27 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

How do you know so much about her life if you're broken up?

If it's this hard, delete her off facebook or eliminate any ties you have to her.

You'll get past her a lot quicker if you don't pay attention to what she's doing.

A mushroom journey sounds like a good idea for you.

You're the most important person in your life.


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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: Bikerfool]
    #18083472 - 04/09/13 06:15 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Yea I keep moving on but her mom helped me with some money towards tax issues we had from claiming the kids a couple years ago and I've been paying her back monthly and every time I see her she tells me whats going on with the kids and its a trigger for me.  I deleted her off facebook like 3 weeks after we broke up, and made it a point to not contact her or reply to her contact.  After the break-up I saw how much of a mirror she puts up, not really being herself but more of an idealized version of what she thinks the person she is with would want to the point of acting like the person she is with.  Her friends have even said those things about her.  I've got a list I made of almost 50 things that made me unhappy in our relationship and I use that to remind myself not to be so nostalgic. 

I'm mostly stressed about not having my license for so long, it makes it harder for me to get out and socialize and meet new girls.  And when I do meet new girls I feel embarrassed that I can't take them anywhere even though I have a car.  I also made some major changes with my substance consumption to almost nonexistent, and that is taking some time to adjust to.  I really just wanna be able to smoke weed, I was a very functional pothead but I lost my license for driving while smoking so its not a good idea for me to ever smoke again really due to the legal consequences its had on my life.  Plus I have a lot more money not buying pot.

Thanks for the responses.


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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18087588 - 04/10/13 03:21 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

If it makes you feel any better OP, I'm 20, and never even driven a car in my life. Girls dont find it that big of an issue, the ones who care for you that is.
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Re: Just found out my ex is moving several states away... [Re: MushyMatt]
    #18090841 - 04/11/13 06:55 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

OP,

I know all about that pain of heartbreak. People telling you fuck her find another girl don't realize that sometimes we have no control over how our heart feels. I was lied to, used, and cheated on I shouldn't have given her a second thought but here I am still fucking hurt over it. These situations just fucking suck.


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