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Anonymous #2
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: shparky]
#18076553 - 04/08/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Short girls can be pretty hot. At least your not fat. Thats a bigger turn off than being short.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18076571 - 04/08/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah but being skinny is worse than being fat
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18076575 - 04/08/13 12:27 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Not to me. Being fat can be a very large problem in numerous ways (no pun intended)
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Kalypto
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18076598 - 04/08/13 12:31 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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As far as health yes as far as getting girls no
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robbyberto
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18076877 - 04/08/13 01:31 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Most short mexican girls here are far to fat for me or there like cholo yolo girls which is really unattractive to me
That's too bad. One of the cutest chicks I have ever seem was a lil mexican girl. She's so freaking adorable.
-------------------- “People say having kids is life changing, well that doesn’t necessarily mean a good thing, does it? I could take one of my legs off. That would change my life.” -Karl Pilkington
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: robbyberto]
#18076896 - 04/08/13 01:34 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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One of my biggest problems is that most of the attractive girls in this university town are taller like 8+s who from what i can tell are just into guys atleast 5 10 which many have straight told me and guys with muscle
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robbyberto
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18076912 - 04/08/13 01:37 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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If a person is that vapid then I doubt you're missing out on a really good girl.
-------------------- “People say having kids is life changing, well that doesn’t necessarily mean a good thing, does it? I could take one of my legs off. That would change my life.” -Karl Pilkington
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: robbyberto]
#18077050 - 04/08/13 02:05 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Oh hell I love Cholo girls they are sexy as all blatant!
heres a video of cholo girls
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18077503 - 04/08/13 03:24 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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It isn't your size that's hurting you, it's how you see yourself.
Girls, above all, are attracted to one thing: confidence.
If you learn to stop putting yourself down about your body and be more confident, then make a few moves here and there, you'll naturally start getting girls.
I have a buddy who is almost exactly the same size as you and he does alright... he gets quite a few girls and has had a few long term relationships with some nice looking girls. He just has some swagger and he is a funny dude, so some women dig him
I'm skinny as fuck, too. I'm like 6ft, 135 lbs, but I still do alright. I've been with some solidly fine girls, and some near hags, too, I'm not picky at all. It's all about just talking to girls, and believing in yourself that you have a chance. And don't be afraid to practice on the girls you're not completely attracted to. You'll gain some confidence and you'll have some fun along the way.
And you know, you may not be able to change your body (at least overnight), but there are a few things you can do that will help. Buy some nicer clothes, get a haircut, and practice good hygiene. Doing things like that will immediately help.
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sprinkles
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18077543 - 04/08/13 03:31 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'd have no problem being with a short lean guy. He'd need to be masculine and protective though, and treat me like a gentleman. I love chest hair and beards. That would be a bonus
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Pink_Mushroom11
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18077892 - 04/08/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: It isn't your size that's hurting you, it's how you see yourself.
Girls, above all, are attracted to one thing: confidence.
If you learn to stop putting yourself down about your body and be more confident, then make a few moves here and there, you'll naturally start getting girls.
I have a buddy who is almost exactly the same size as you and he does alright... he gets quite a few girls and has had a few long term relationships with some nice looking girls. He just has some swagger and he is a funny dude, so some women dig him
I'm skinny as fuck, too. I'm like 6ft, 135 lbs, but I still do alright. I've been with some solidly fine girls, and some near hags, too, I'm not picky at all. It's all about just talking to girls, and believing in yourself that you have a chance. And don't be afraid to practice on the girls you're not completely attracted to. You'll gain some confidence and you'll have some fun along the way.
And you know, you may not be able to change your body (at least overnight), but there are a few things you can do that will help. Buy some nicer clothes, get a haircut, and practice good hygiene. Doing things like that will immediately help.
I agree its not how u look its how u see ur self! There's always someone out there who will love u for u! U just have to have patience!
-------------------- “I am... a mushroom; On whom the dew of heaven drops now and then.”John Ford
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Pink_Mushroom11]
#18079795 - 04/08/13 10:51 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Its not confidence , Im just having a hard time competing with people that are taller and better looking than me
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18079890 - 04/08/13 11:14 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Maybe it's time to lower your standards for women?
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Re: Having serious problems dating due to... [Re: Aser]
#18079894 - 04/08/13 11:16 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I just go off what actually attracts me I cant help it if some girls are just not attractive to me
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