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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: x2theone2x]
#18067929 - 04/06/13 04:22 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I wouldn't personally. Sounds really boring. Learn to play some yugioh and challenge her or ask her to teach you?
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Eminence]
#18067976 - 04/06/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Let's just get this out in the open, first of all.
You are sexually attracted to her, because that's how we work. All that other stuff like just getting to know her because she likes what I like, or the fact that she isn't one of those prissy, stuck up bitches that make up a considerable population of girls at colleges all over good ol' 'merica.
Now that we have that out of the way, it seems fairly obvious that you are indeed also in this group that you so fairly labeled "outcasts". lol.
haha damn, and I was all getting into this and.
Did I just get rick rolled?
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: comingup]
#18068039 - 04/06/13 04:47 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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comingup said: Let's just get this out in the open, first of all.
You are sexually attracted to her, because that's how we work. All that other stuff like just getting to know her because she likes what I like, or the fact that she isn't one of those prissy, stuck up bitches that make up a considerable population of girls at colleges all over good ol' 'merica.
Now that we have that out of the way, it seems fairly obvious that you are indeed also in this group that you so fairly labeled "outcasts". lol.
haha damn, and I was all getting into this and.
Did I just get rick rolled?
I'm a sapiopansexual, no sexual attraction whatsoever
I actually converse with a large amount of people in all groups, outcast in reality I don't see as a label for myself.
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: x2theone2x]
#18068149 - 04/06/13 05:17 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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just go talk to her, OP. Don't use words like "social outcasts" or "conversationally inept".
Just ask her name, interests, and maybe invite her out for a bite to eat at a local collegiate burger joint
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: memes]
#18068271 - 04/06/13 05:42 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Treat her like a regular person.
But remember, it takes two to tango.
If she's not into you, don't get upset, or try to force conversation.
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: memes]
#18068275 - 04/06/13 05:42 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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OP you don't need to put a label on everything. Just talk to her she is a normal human being. Find an interest...
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Black_Sunset]
#18069123 - 04/06/13 08:41 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I don't see how just talking to her will work, as I've said she doesn't work in that way. I feel placing labels on someone based on definition is fine...
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: x2theone2x]
#18069541 - 04/06/13 10:13 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I love them "outcast" girls super easy and always fun once u break the ice
U just have to go up to her n be like what's up what u doing tonight lol I'm always up font wit girls like that it hasn't failed me yet I get madd tail wether I'm single or not. Still fuck like 4 different girls a week
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18073719 - 04/07/13 07:27 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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So I'm just going to talk to her I've come to the conclusion, doubt it will work but I guess it's more productive than doing nothing.
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: x2theone2x]
#18073741 - 04/07/13 07:33 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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write her a note (on nicer paper)
just say what you just said about what you think
put your name on it
(phone number if your somewhere big and don't see her ofter but idk cause you said you don't see her texting)
walk up and give her that
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: mindapparatus]
#18074586 - 04/07/13 10:30 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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sounds like she is in to fantasy so you should tell her how you plan on going to see a movie and if she talks about what ever film you had in mind tell her she can go if she wants to
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Pinkus_Trip]
#18075007 - 04/08/13 12:05 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah challenging her to a Yugioh duel seems like a bridge to connect the two of you.
You could try inventing your own imaginative world and draw a bunch of characters from it and then show her the drawings and ask if she could help you think of more characters. I used to do that aaallll the time with my friends when I was younger.
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Chakra Shock]
#18077665 - 04/08/13 03:51 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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What on earth is YUGIOH?
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: mpd]
#18077674 - 04/08/13 03:53 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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A cartoon/card game that is marketed towards kids. But somehow some adults find it interesting.
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: mindapparatus]
#18077727 - 04/08/13 04:00 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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mindapparatus said: write her a note (on nicer paper)
just say what you just said about what you think
put your name on it
(phone number if your somewhere big and don't see her ofter but idk cause you said you don't see her texting)
walk up and give her that

dude wtf is this thread serious
just walk up to her sit down be like hey sup lol
what's up with all these threads people make about how to talk to fellow human beings jeez
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Eminence]
#18077774 - 04/08/13 04:07 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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This situation is exhausting. The more your contemplate and analyze the situation the more You convince yourself to not make a move. You stated she is much more submissive than you and most people so pounce on that chick.
I can't help but have the mental image of the quiet socially awkward girl in the corner of the classroom that you have the hots for looking like:
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: Sheekle]
#18078493 - 04/08/13 06:37 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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mindapparatus said: write her a note (on nicer paper)
just say what you just said about what you think
put your name on it
(phone number if your somewhere big and don't see her ofter but idk cause you said you don't see her texting)
walk up and give her that

dude wtf is this thread serious
just walk up to her sit down be like hey sup lol
what's up with all these threads people make about how to talk to fellow human beings jeez
I don't think you bothered to read anything, and if you did your reply is nonsensical.
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: T-Rex]
#18078505 - 04/08/13 06:39 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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T-Rex said: This situation is exhausting. The more your contemplate and analyze the situation the more You convince yourself to not make a move. You stated she is much more submissive than you and most people so pounce on that chick.
I can't help but have the mental image of the quiet socially awkward girl in the corner of the classroom that you have the hots for looking like:

Not even close to that image in anyway just to point out, however I could date someone like that dependent on many factors. The more I contemplate the more I feel I should just talk to her as it's the most logical decision, contemplating for me is the best thing possible
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Re: How to engage in conversation with a socially inept individual [Re: x2theone2x]
#18078536 - 04/08/13 06:45 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Check and see what kind of drink/food/book/movie.
I know tons of total outcasts that play d/d and other RPG's that also are freak nasy RPG in the bed
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