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Anonymous #1
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Sexual conflict causing depression
#18031252 - 03/30/13 12:23 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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So I have been unable to decide whether I am gay or not and settled for bisexual. Sometimes though I have become REALLY gay like a woman and other times really straight.
I don't like gay porn. I don't look at dudes IRL. I loathe being called gay.
I have banged 1 girl and 2 dudes. I didn't enjoy the gay stuff. It was nerve racking and there was no substance. The girl was nerve racking but it meant something. It was pleasurable.
I put things in my ass and I've enjoyed it but just not any more. Not at all.
It's weird. Was it a phase? Was it confusion? Help me out here.
My asshole is loose now gg.
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18031273 - 03/30/13 12:30 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Who fucking cares?
Why are you trying to label everything?
If this is your concern, you have way bigger issues than your sexuality.
Go fuck people you enjoy fucking.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Azure Essence]
#18031281 - 03/30/13 12:32 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Isn't there a difference between a gay person and a straight person? I mean, if I'm straight, and I have all this gay shit happening which I can't come to terms with but which I don't like anymore, could it be something stemming from repeated rejections in the past? Anger towards women?
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Azure Essence]
#18031287 - 03/30/13 12:34 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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so what would you be if there was no confusion?
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#18031313 - 03/30/13 12:42 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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people get stuck on words like elephants get stuck stuck in the mud. forget about pigeonholing yourself with your cultures ideas of clearcut sexual identity.
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18031317 - 03/30/13 12:44 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Isn't there a difference between a gay person and a straight person? I mean, if I'm straight, and I have all this gay shit happening which I can't come to terms with but which I don't like anymore, could it be something stemming from repeated rejections in the past? Anger towards women?
No dude... If you were 'straight' and have all this gay shit happening, THEN YOU'RE JUST FUCKING GAY OR HAVE GAY TENDENCIES!
Big fucking deal. More trauma has been caused onto people from having gay tendencies(like you have) that they cant come to terms with than any other sexual orientation identity crisis. It's the most prevalent, and non talked about problem happening in the world for our youth.
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Azure Essence]
#18031341 - 03/30/13 12:53 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Oh.
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18031352 - 03/30/13 12:55 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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you're no trolling are you OP?..
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18032597 - 03/30/13 11:45 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Sometimes though I have become REALLY gay like a woman
what
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#18034708 - 03/30/13 08:27 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18062133 - 04/05/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Okay first of all OP, you gotta chill out. Just think it through and don't be one of those guys who are self loathing and just try to hide their attraction to men.
So, you like men. You're sexually attracted to them, you like cock, the thought of fucking a dude/twink turns you on. Since you like to put things in your ass, I'm guessing you're a bottom, you should try getting to know a gay dude in your area who you have things in common with and someone who you're attracted to. I think you just need someone in real life who you can relate to about being sexually attracted to men. If you can't meet any guys, try using Grindr. If you don't know what that is, it's basically an app where gay men and twinks all go on to talk to eachother and get to know eachother, and a lot of hooking up :P Don't worry too much about it, don't try to rush to figure out what you like. To me, it seems like you know you like guys but you're confusing yourself by putting the doubt in your mind of whether or not it's just a phase. LIVE IN THE MOMENT. Maybe the sex with the guys didn't mean anything because you guys didn't have feelings for eachother, and you and the girl had feelings for eachother?
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Azure Essence]
#18065512 - 04/06/13 01:14 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Azure Essence said: Who fucking cares?
Why are you trying to label everything?
If this is your concern, you have way bigger issues than your sexuality.
Go fuck people you enjoy fucking.

totally ^. stop worrying about labels. its like checking your fucking hairline in the mirror every 5 minutes. you are what you are, dont let it get in the way of you enjoying your life. life is short as it is. just do what feels right to you and move on from there
-------------------- notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... " ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."
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Re: Sexual conflict causing depression [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18067273 - 04/06/13 01:30 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Don't create labels for yourself. I don't really find men attractive but every now and then I see a young good looking super hot dude and I get sexual thoughts about them. Oh noez!!! is I gay? Is I bi? Who cares
-------------------- “Everybody is fundamentally, the ultimate reality. Not god in the political kingly sense, but god in the sense of being the self – the deep down basic whatever there is. And you’re all that… only you’re pretending you’re not.” -Alan Watts I think that in human evolution it has never been as necessary to have this substance LSD. It is just a tool to turn us into what we are supposed to be.” ― Albert Hofmann
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