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Anonymous #1
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Amount of time before moving in together?
#18054148 - 04/03/13 07:08 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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How long should a couple be together before moving inn together?
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deadwk
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Re: Amount of time before moving in together? [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#18054350 - 04/03/13 07:41 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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When ever the couple feels comfortable, there is no definitive answer.
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mpd
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Re: Amount of time before moving in together? [Re: deadwk]
#18054417 - 04/03/13 07:51 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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An, I would give it a few months at least. You want to see if you have something in common (other than lust) before you pair up. Mrs. MPD and I conducted an absolutely torrid 5-month romance before we shacked up. Then we lived in sin for ten years before we exchanged formal vows.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Amount of time before moving in together? [Re: mpd]
#18054454 - 04/03/13 07:57 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
mpd said: Mrs. MPD and I conducted an absolutely torrid 5-month romance before we shacked up.
What do you mean by this?
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pwnasaurus
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Re: Amount of time before moving in together? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18054757 - 04/03/13 08:54 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Quote:
mpd said: Mrs. MPD and I conducted an absolutely torrid 5-month romance before we shacked up.
What do you mean by this?
Exactly what he wrote. Which part is confusing you?
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Re: Amount of time before moving in together? [Re: mpd]
#18054827 - 04/03/13 09:07 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
mpd said: An, I would give it a few months at least. You want to see if you have something in common (other than lust) before you pair up. Mrs. MPD and I conducted an absolutely torrid 5-month romance before we shacked up. Then we lived in sin for ten years before we exchanged formal vows.
was she Ms. Mouth of Sauron?

hehe
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Re: Amount of time before moving in together? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18057191 - 04/04/13 11:45 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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My missus and I moved in right away, but knew each other for years ... and were sort-of shacking up a couple months as BFF's before actually relocating and getting a place together.
That said, it was a weird situation and i probably wouldn't do it again.
It is worth noting that it has worked out well though.
I definitely thrive in a long term committed monogamous live in relationship.
It is easy to feel uneasy and trapped if your not ready. I still battle with unease to an extent, and really, only time will tell.
For right now, things are good.
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