|
sanchothestoner
Satan's Grandson



Registered: 12/06/11
Posts: 15,623
Loc: Bucketheadland
Last seen: 6 years, 7 months
|
Interested in a girl
#18054067 - 04/03/13 06:53 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
|
|
There's this girl, Brenda, in my communication class that started talking to me and I'm kinda crushin on her. We started talking because I was sitting by myself in class, and we needed to get in groups and she asked me to be in her group. I enjoyed talking to her, so the next class I got her number. She seemed pretty stoked that I asked her for her number, so that definitely boosted my confidence.
We hung out today, and I am pretty damn sure this girl is into me. We went on a hike, and she wore like a mesh type shirt and a sports bra. She ended up only being in her sports bra and pants pretty much the entire time. Then, when we were done hiking we went to eat. When we got the check, she got her card out to pay and so did I. The waitress picks up our cards and I tell her to split the bill in half (even though I only got brown rice and water), Brenda says "Why did you do that?" I ask what I did and she says "Why did you take your card out? I was going to pay for you, but instead you payed for half of the whole bill!" When she said this, she had a kind of flirtatious look in her eyes. After we left, we're talking and then she's like "I was telling my friend how I every time you talk to me, I'm not wearing make up and it bugs me." I asked her why it bugged her and she said something like "I don't wanna look bad when I'm with you." I told her she didn't need make up and she's naturally pretty. We also live in separate towns. The school we go to is kind of the middle point of our towns, although you can take a back road from her town to mine. After we ate, she offered to give me a ride home. It was totally out of the way and I even asked her a few times if she was sure, and she said that she'd be more than happy to give me a ride home. The entire time we hung out we were pretty close and flirted with each other.
Now, to the point of my post. How long should I wait to make a move? I'm feeling very confident about things with Brenda, but I don't want to rush anything. We're planning on seeing Scary Movie 5 when it comes out. Would making a move then be suitable? I guess I'm just asking on advice on how to not fuck up. I really dig this chick and want things to go smoothly.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
|
Futuresight
Mind Mage



Registered: 01/19/13
Posts: 1,188
Loc: The Candy Kingdom
|
|
I would say just be you and do what comes naturally. If you don't know, then it isn't ready. Do it when it feels right. Not when you're not nervous, just when it feels....right. I don't know how to explain it, but you will know when to go for it. Just can't let the opportunity slide by.
--------------------
|
floatingwater
இலைலைலைஇ

Registered: 01/06/09
Posts: 2,699
Last seen: 10 years, 5 months
|
|
Just make sure the movie is at the end of the date. Hang out and do something or have a drink or whatever for a while and then hit up the movie once you're vibing together.
Hopefully you've made a move before going to the movie. Or else you have to go through that awkward do I or don't I put my arm around her shoulder and whats the right time' type stuff. If you make the move before hand its much easier to relax and enjoy the movie and get feely when the movie picks up
-------------------- ந=க=ரந=க=ரந=க=ரந=க=ரந=க=ரந=க=ரந=க=ரந=க=ர
|
Anonymous #1
|
|
Ah come on I make a thread similar to this and there's like 1 guy responding 
Lol but for OP. It's pretty obvious she digs you. I wouldn't say you have to really wait to make a move. I mean, don't RUSH things. But an arm around her or something like that on the next date doesn't sound horribly out of place.
|
mpd
Lammen Gorthaur



Registered: 10/22/12
Posts: 9,660
Loc: Mostly at home... Mostly....
Last seen: 8 years, 7 months
|
|
These things have a natural flow or pace and this one seems to be going fast. Call her tonight. Invite her to dinner and keep up the skeer!
-------------------- There is no truer calling for mankind than that of true conservatism.
|
sanchothestoner
Satan's Grandson



Registered: 12/06/11
Posts: 15,623
Loc: Bucketheadland
Last seen: 6 years, 7 months
|
Re: Interested in a girl [Re: mpd]
#18054376 - 04/03/13 07:45 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
|
|
It's funny that some of you guys say stuff about it coming naturally. I've noticed with this girl I'm not nervous or anything and everything going smoothly. I don't think I'll call her tonight, but I'm definitely gonna ask her to hang out over the weekend.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
|
mpd
Lammen Gorthaur



Registered: 10/22/12
Posts: 9,660
Loc: Mostly at home... Mostly....
Last seen: 8 years, 7 months
|
|
The early bird...
-------------------- There is no truer calling for mankind than that of true conservatism.
|
sanchothestoner
Satan's Grandson



Registered: 12/06/11
Posts: 15,623
Loc: Bucketheadland
Last seen: 6 years, 7 months
|
Re: Interested in a girl [Re: mpd]
#18054419 - 04/03/13 07:51 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
mpd said: The early bird...
?
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
|
Futuresight
Mind Mage



Registered: 01/19/13
Posts: 1,188
Loc: The Candy Kingdom
|
|
Quote:
sanchothestoner said:
Quote:
mpd said: The early bird...
?
Catches the worm.
--------------------
|
sanchothestoner
Satan's Grandson



Registered: 12/06/11
Posts: 15,623
Loc: Bucketheadland
Last seen: 6 years, 7 months
|
|
Quote:
Futuresight said:
Quote:
sanchothestoner said:
Quote:
mpd said: The early bird...
?
Catches the worm.
I'm so confused.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
|
mpd
Lammen Gorthaur



Registered: 10/22/12
Posts: 9,660
Loc: Mostly at home... Mostly....
Last seen: 8 years, 7 months
|
|
It means to not wait around or someone else might come along with a better mousetrap.
-------------------- There is no truer calling for mankind than that of true conservatism.
|
Anonymous #1
|
Re: Interested in a girl [Re: mpd]
#18054775 - 04/03/13 08:57 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
|
|
It means she's moving early to get your worm
|
sanchothestoner
Satan's Grandson



Registered: 12/06/11
Posts: 15,623
Loc: Bucketheadland
Last seen: 6 years, 7 months
|
Re: Interested in a girl [Re: mpd]
#18054967 - 04/03/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
mpd said: It means to not wait around or someone else might come along with a better mousetrap.
Aha! Alright. Well, I'll do my best.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
|
|