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I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with
#18051944 - 04/03/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I lied to her and told her I've had sex with another girl before her. We've been together almost a year, and I've kept up with this lie the whole time. But now I just want her to know the truth, I'm nervous it might be a turn off and she will be upset about the lie. Thoughts?
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18051948 - 04/03/13 12:03 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'm sure it won't affect your relationship. She won't care.
Edited by nooneman (04/03/13 12:04 PM)
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Tmethyl
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: nooneman]
#18051959 - 04/03/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Tell her. She will likely appreciate it. Just explain why you lied to her, get her inside your head.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Tmethyl] 1
#18051968 - 04/03/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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The only reason she might be upset is because you lied to her? Why would you do that? That would definitely hurt my trust of someone if they told that to me.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18051988 - 04/03/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I lied because I was embarrassed about not having sex before and didn't want her to be turned off or think I was a loser. I wanted to have sex before her, but no one liked me enough to do me. I'm not socially awkward or unattractive or anything. I have good social skills, but don't understand the games a lot of girls play and therefore never got laid this girl plays no games though, she's straight up and real.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18052106 - 04/03/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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this girl plays no games though, she's straight up and real.
Cool....then you should be able to talk about anything...fear not....she may actually be flattered
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Thayendanegea]
#18052556 - 04/03/13 02:01 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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You know what? I'm in the same boat ... except I've been in this relationship almost 3 years. I think it's too late to confess now 
Also, I know if I did tell her now, it would definitely hurt her trust. So, I too, am in a pickle.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18052636 - 04/03/13 02:18 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Anon2, 3 years is not too late, i confessed after 11 years and only good things came of it.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18053597 - 04/03/13 05:23 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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tell her, man. You'll probably get some good lovin' when you do!
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: MushGrooveFarms]
#18054164 - 04/03/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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if shes already fucked before she could prob tell... just sayin
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Salnugs]
#18054186 - 04/03/13 07:15 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Tmethyl]
#18054339 - 04/03/13 07:40 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Does the term "white lie" mean anything to you? There is nothin to be gained at this point. Confess to the parish priest if the guilt is killing you, OP.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: mpd]
#18054544 - 04/03/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I thought most guys lied about not being virgins in the first place, i doubt she'll give a fuck
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: TheMovement]
#18054746 - 04/03/13 08:51 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Well, if he reveals this information she just might stop and then nobody will be giving out fucks.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: mpd]
#18055277 - 04/03/13 10:35 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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It depends on the girl, but she might actually be happy with this news. She's THE ONLY girl you've ever had sex with, isn't that something special? Your reasoning for not telling her in the first place is completely logical, you didn't want her to think bad of you. Since I assume you lost your v-card later than most. It's a shame that our society looks down upon this.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: gref]
#18055425 - 04/03/13 11:04 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Personally, as a girl, I would be flattered and happy if my boyfriend told me I was the only girl he's ever slept with.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Crystal G]
#18055482 - 04/03/13 11:17 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: Personally, as a girl, I would be flattered and happy if my boyfriend told me I was the only girl he's ever slept with.
fat chance of that hey? 
i keeed i keeed
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Shins]
#18055647 - 04/04/13 12:04 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Ok so here's how it went. I told her that I haven't been honest about having sex before her and she immediately suspects what I'm about to tell her. And when I tell her she's the only one she becomes very surprised and is freaking out in a surprised way and thinks I'm joking. She said she was really surprised and a little blown away and just needed to let the information sink in.
I explained that I didn't want her to that I didn't want her to know earlier in the relationship because I really liked her and didn't want her to think I was going to get attached to her JUST BECAUSE she was my first. After telling her the truth I decided that I could've gone without it but I did and now she knows just a little more about me. If the relationship had gone on for a couple years, I would've just kept up with the lie TBH.
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18055676 - 04/04/13 12:15 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: I want to tell my girlfriend she is the only girl I've had sex with [Re: Crystal G]
#18056146 - 04/04/13 04:50 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: Personally, as a girl, I would be flattered and happy if my boyfriend told me I was the only girl he's ever slept with.
Also as a girl, I would say the same. I'd totally understand why you would do that, in this day and age it's seen as embarrassing to be a virgin, I'm sure she can appreciate that. I'd feel awesome knowing I was the one to show you the ropes. I'd def take things up a notch and get real kinky too lol, show you even more things knowing you haven't done them before, that'd totally be a real turn on.
Congrats on telling her, takes courage, I'm sure she'll appreciate the honesty in the long run
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