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Avoiding a fight with her ex?
#18051626 - 04/03/13 10:30 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Going out of state soon with the girlfriend to visit her family.
She doesn't talk to her ex anymore and their her friends aren't friends with him.
Should i be worried about running into him and getting into a fight?
What should i do if her starts shit with me, or if we run into him?
She would def. avoid going places he hangs out, and she isnt the type to instigate.
But she has told me stories of him showing up places when they were broken up to take her away from guys
should i just not go?
thanks
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18051699 - 04/03/13 10:52 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Stop being a puss
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: 3Cajun1Mo8]
#18051708 - 04/03/13 10:56 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Yeah, don't be a puss.
If he talks shit, laugh at him and carry on
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18051952 - 04/03/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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What kind of moron would start a fight with their ex's boyfriend for no reason? If something comes up I would try to diffuse the situation. If all else fails and he throws a punch at you, I guess you fight him? It's normally extremely easy to diffuse the situation, contrary to what many people will have you believe.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18052252 - 04/03/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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My suggestion is to go....but, as soon as you get there, if it is Texas....go to the nearest Wallmart and arm yourself! A 9mm at least....preferably a .40. A company called Taurus makes a cheap Glock knock-off. Then buy some good, kick-ass hollow point ammo.
Carry it around wherever you go! See problem solved. Boyfriend/ schmoyfriend 
In case you're wondering, that was indeed sarcasm. Just go and don't worry about shit. Maybe concentrate on having fun with the GF. 
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If he does try starting anything, just laugh and tell him to chill out. If he proceeds to get aggressive, just break him down mentally with words and leave.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: deadwk]
#18054988 - 04/03/13 09:43 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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At least your gf isn't like my ex-gf. It never fails she finds ways to pop up at my new kick it spots with different guys and tries to be friends with my family. Cccrrraaazzzzyyyyyyyyyyy
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18055114 - 04/03/13 10:04 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Quote:
pwnasaurus said:

What kind of moron would start a fight with their ex's boyfriend for no reason? If something comes up I would try to diffuse the situation.
This. Jealousy tends to make a person crazy, and when somebody is crazy and raging mad like that, you probably won't beat them in a fight, even if they are significantly smaller than you. And trust me on this, the ex is always, ALWAYS going to be way, WAYYYYY more pissed than you in a fight. You will probably be more shocked and surprised by his reaction and probably be like "OH SHIT!!!!" 
Pure unadulterated rage vs Surprise... Doesn't sound like it'll be a winner for you.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Crystal G]
#18055226 - 04/03/13 10:23 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Crystal G]
#18056040 - 04/04/13 03:46 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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What would you do in that situation? Fuck them both? When I was in high school i fucked my gf's best friend so she beat her fucking bloody. It was awesome she was slamming her face on the hood of a car. I had a boner.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Nemo_Hoes]
#18056322 - 04/04/13 06:40 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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OP you are thinking like a god damned women. Get over it
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Almond Flour]
#18056451 - 04/04/13 07:31 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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*woman Also, OP stop being a lil beeeeotch.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18061335 - 04/05/13 07:15 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Don't start shit, but you don't have to be a total pussy either. If he comes in fuming angry, just be firm and polite. You can back down if you have to, but don't abandon your date just because some jealous asshole can't handle himself. If he makes a scene or starts to attack, you need to stay calm and collected (make your hands visible and take a step back if you can) to make sure that the people around you clearly see him as the aggressor. This way you'll be justified when you give him swift knee to the balls, and the cops will only arrest him instead of both of you. Hell, if he's really that bad, your date might even kick his ass before you get a chance.
And remember, there are no rules unless you agree to fight, and a gentleman never agrees to fight.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#18061446 - 04/05/13 07:53 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Remind him that there are a lot of fish in the sea and he is trying to catch one that has already been caught and spoken for. Remember to laugh when he makes his first move and say, "isn't that cute"? It is important to laugh because there is nothing more deflating than laughter and the subtle reminder that he is fishing at the grocery store will help diffuse things.
She also has a say in this. If she goes with him then she is still not over him and you need to move on.
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Re: Avoiding a fight with her ex? [Re: mpd]
#18069555 - 04/06/13 10:17 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I'd start with a hard punch to the throat then break an arm or a rib n then walk away
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