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Anonymous #1

How long to make a move...
    #18045238 - 04/02/13 07:05 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Well no one's responding... So let me rephrase it in case i wasn't clear....





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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18045295 - 04/02/13 07:32 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Keep her company for a week or so and if she seems to cheer up either your in or there back together..

Go for it bro..

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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18045358 - 04/02/13 07:53 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18045429 - 04/02/13 08:27 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Yer this shit sucks when you've been out of the game for a while..
Dude you sound just like me..
Except you sound like you might actually be in there..

Here's a little heads up, If you got her number instead of her getting yours.. that's a small sign..

It's up to you how you want to play this, Either send her a subtle text like 'Yoga starts at 6' or just summit that reminds her without getting into a convo.
Or you just go and see if she shows.. There's a chance she wont but if she does you don't seem too keen.

Then you just have to try and chat with her.. just be careful not to get too deep into talk..
Sometimes emotions work in your favor but mostly you get friend zoned..

Try and just talk to her atleast for a few days..
She might throw herself at you or you might have to wait it out.
If it gets to about a week or two then its time you told her how you feel..
Just don't do what I usually do which is be too sweet..

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18045475 - 04/02/13 08:44 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18045509 - 04/02/13 08:56 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Haha well keep your chin up..

Confidence goes a long way and yer it could be either but it sounds like she is interested..

The main thing you have to do is play it cool but also know when to make a your move..
Like if she goes to yoga try inviting everyone to do something afterwards so you get a chance to chat with her, Having your friends around will help too because there's less chance of awkward silence if there's more people talking..

Also she will be more comfortable with friends around so its not just like you dragged her off on her own straight away. XD

So out of these mutual friends how many are going to yoga?

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18045576 - 04/02/13 09:20 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18045604 - 04/02/13 09:31 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Haha, I wouldn't worry about what you said.. sounds like she was eating it up..

Kinda seems like she only wants to go to yoga because your there too so er yer personally i'd play it by ear but keep it mind she is interested so keep cool, confident and hope for the best..

How old is this girl btw because that can change a lot about he character..

I'l stick around but I get you want other opinions too bro, it's np..

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18045629 - 04/02/13 09:43 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18045635 - 04/02/13 09:47 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

That's seriously not a problem..

I was getting worried for you because I was thinking she was about 17 so might be playing games to get back at her ex but no not at 22..
So good, also you can work a bit quicker too because she isn't going to be as emotional as a younger girl would be..

Just don't let her age intimidate you, As long as you keep cool she won't have any problem with it.

Btw i'm 23, Not sure why I told you that but yer..

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18047903 - 04/02/13 05:27 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18048178 - 04/02/13 06:14 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

No luck then..
Right everyone knows the cliche 'be yourself'
Well it should be 'be comfortable with yourself'

The girl likes you so just keep that in mind, it'l give you the little confidence you need to seal the deal.

Here's a trick I like to use, When you go to kiss her lightly scratch the back of her neck..  You can use it to pull her closer and she will love it..
Also if you stand behind her kiss her neck.. All girls melt from that..

Now you just need to set that kiss up..

Where do you think your shyness stems from?
Lack of things to say or just don't know how to set up that first kiss or just that she hasn't made an obvious pass at you?

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18048338 - 04/02/13 06:40 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18048423 - 04/02/13 06:53 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Well forget your past, I had to.. Trust me I was more of a wreck then you ever were..
So how do you think you look now?
If your acne has faded and you've grown out of gynecomastia then whats holding you back now?

If you say woman approach you, do you think you could be the guy version of that girl who was fugly in school but was drop dead gorgeous afterwards?

She won't be obviously into you yet, she is hurting but that's when you take that opportunity to get close.
Be a friend and within a week or two you will be close, hopefully close enough for you to tell her you like her..

The fact that you made the effort to help her when she is down will work in your favor.. You just have to be careful of the friend-zone.. The ultimate cock-block lol

Just don't start thinking it's over just because she didn't throw herself at you.. You hardly know her yet so just give it time..

If you stress over it now it'l just add pressure when your around her..
Just be the friend for now so there's no pressure on you.

A moment will come up where you feel confident to make a move, You just have to make sure your around enough that you don't miss it..
Just be careful not to seem clingy either..

I can tell you're that kind of person, I know because i'm the same.

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18048567 - 04/02/13 07:21 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18048645 - 04/02/13 07:35 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Haha yer sorry but I can tell, Clingy really isn't the word.
Just get strongly attached..
Well what happened today? Did you do something stupid or were you just quite?

Maybe do your exercising again.. If it worked last time..
Whats an LTR?
And yer growing out hair can do that, Some girls dig it other don't..

Might sound a bit queer but why not go for a makeover lol..
Just having a new outfit and new haircut can boost confidence..

Oh yer also If your not registered I'm not sure your posts make it into the main forum's tbh..

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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18049342 - 04/02/13 09:41 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18049411 - 04/02/13 09:55 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Ah yer ok well having a woman can stop girls showing interest too..

Yer man I know about girls that just fit, I was gonna mention in my last post about my crush, My life long crush..

Shame I was a child when we first hooked up so now i'm struggling to get out of the friend zone, I'v convinced her to come on a little holiday with me and a few of our friends so I have a chance to talk to her properly.
She's always in huge groups and well you can't start a serious convo when you have drunken idiots all around yanno..

Well yer so it was a quite night, that's fine.
I'd recommend that you try to get her alone though if you could,
Especially if your friend steals the lime light..

Oh man the make over is tough, Giving up my pantera t's and megadeth hoodies was a major bummer, I'v kept it all but I just try to dress more smart-casual now,
You get more respect amongst work friends but all my actual friends still dress that was so I stick out..

Tbh this girl might be into that look, She seems a bit rock n roll from what you've said..

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: PsilyPhily]
    #18049513 - 04/02/13 10:16 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

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Re: How long to make a move... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18049728 - 04/02/13 11:00 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

I think your best bet would be to be yourself, even if that's your quite self..
Then just invite her for a walk.
She will think that somethings maybe got you down so she will go with you just to be nice and there's a perfect opportunity.

It's not the nicest way to do it but when your surrounded by people it's always gonna be awkward so your gonna have to take a leap of faith..

You got any talents you can blatantly show off or anythin?

So nyways where you from? and actually whats your name? lol

Just realized i'm having a proper deep conversation with a guy called ?

This is deeper than I talk with my closest friends..

:mushroom2:Phil.


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"If a drug (or technique or process) were ever to be discovered which would consistently produce a plus four experience in all human beings, it is conceivable that it would signal the ultimate evolution, and perhaps the end, of the human experiment."
— Alexander Shulgin, PiHKAL, 1991
"Well Shulgin, you clearly haven't tried salvia 150X extract,
good effort though."

:mushroom2:Phil.


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