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Re: A little worried. Girlfriend wants baby... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18043662 - 04/01/13 07:46 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

RUN AWAY!!

This girl will baby trap you.  Do you want to commit yourself to her and the child for the rest of your life?  Then run.

If you insist on boning Crazy then definitely wear a rubber that you have supplied yourself. I wouldn't even trust her to purchase them and not pin hole them.  Girls prefer condoms because they don't have any mess to clean up. If she wants to go bareback it's for the baby.


Your're best to end it sooner rather than letting her become completely dependent on you otherwise the breakup will get worse. And the breakup is going to be hell too. Block her number so that she can't guilt you with cutting herself.

I used to date a cutter.  I could never get her to shift the habit.  Used to catch her taking scissors to bed.  She had similar childhood emotional issues.  She cheated on me at least once. At the time it killed me to break up but looking back i'm glad i don't have to raise a family with someone who has so many unresolved mental issues.


Let her down gently, help her move out to her parents, refer her to a shrink.  Block all comms


Edited by Anonymous (04/01/13 07:53 PM)


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Re: A little worried. Girlfriend wants baby... [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #18047157 - 04/02/13 03:20 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

i remember my first ever girlfriend's mom clearly trained her to find a meal-ticket..

her cooking skills were mediocre and she sorta had the princess complex a bit.

i would always have this stupid crazy strong fear of her spitting out my jizm and smearing it all up into into her young fertile pie so she can end my life (through parenthood, not like a praying mantis, but that was the imagry in my head at the time)

man i miss her, she had such a lovely rump.


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Re: A little worried. Girlfriend wants baby... [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #18047226 - 04/02/13 03:33 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
Girls prefer condoms because they don't have any mess to clean up. If she wants to go bareback it's for the baby.





:lolwut:

I have never spoken to a girl who prefers condoms.  It feels better for both parties bareback.


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Re: A little worried. Girlfriend wants baby... [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #18066283 - 04/06/13 09:04 AM (10 years, 9 months ago)

Ok so I haven't responded mostly because I have been busy having constant sex. I don't know how it ended up working out but I think a lot of it had to do with my listening to and understanding her emotional stress about the miscarriage and not judging her in any way.

She actually ended up telling me that she thinks she just really wanted a baby because she thought she couldn't have one and she just wanted to be able to. With the help of my step-mom, I managed to convince her that she isn't "broken" like she thinks and that someday she will have a baby. It's actually very common (miscarriage) and most people who have one and then conceive again right away end up having a healthy pregnancy.

So she understood why she was feeling that way and she told me that we should use condoms, even though we both agree it's not as good although we have been really enjoying it anyways. (She told me she had 8 orgasms last night in one session.)  I also managed to convince her that she is still so young and neither of us are in the best position to be having kids.

The thing is that I don't think she would have accepted all of this if I hadn't also agreed to someday get married and have kids with her. It's the sort of thing where I feel like I can say that because I really do want it to work out and hope that it eventually happens but I want to avoid it for the time being at all costs for obvious reasons. And if it doesn't work out then that's that I guess.

Another part of it that is helping the situation is that her older sister had a baby soon after moving in with her boyfriend and she saw that not work out and she doesn't want that to happen to her, even though I pretty much clarified that if we did have one on accident that I wouldn't bail out on her.

She's scared of living together and never getting married....I guess because her older brother (who is actually younger than me at 25) has been living with his girlfriend of 8 years and he does not intend to ever marry or have kids. I keep telling her not to compare herself to other's situations and to just focus on her own unique situation. I also want her to go back to school and finish her degree in aesthetics. So far it seems like we are both on the same track, so it's going pretty good for now!

It's been tough but everything is pretty stable again. Thanks to everyone for helping me get all my thoughts out. I wasn't sure what to do at first and then when pretty much everyone said the same thing it really forced me to question what the hell I'm doing. I'm lucky to have a pretty great dad who has taught me a so-called universal truth: All women are crazy. So I didn't let that unanimous vote alter my purposes, because I've heard it a million times before.

My contrary opinion has really helped me work it out. I believe that women are wired differently than men generally speaking (not always), but saying that they are all crazy is an unbending, rigid and entirely relative opinion. It's like calling someone with schizophrenia "crazy." Just because they see things differently doesn't give anyone the right to label them as if they are permanently screwed up or worse. She apologized at one point for being "crazy" but I told her what I believe to be the truth: Nobody is just simply crazy and I am certainly not one to judge. We are all dealt a different hand and have to play it with our preconceived notions and mental arrangements. Thoughts and desires and opinions are things that are meant to change.

Or maybe I am just crazy too so I think we are both normal. Either way I'm glad overall that she is so young. If she were closer to my age and acting like this I bet it would be much harder to get her to alter her perspective. I don't mean to sound totally ok, either. It is still a bit early to say for sure if this is a real change in her thinking or if there will be some form of relapse.

The next troubling issue on the horizon is that she keeps saying that I'm "perfect" and other bullshit. I'm a little worried but optimistic.


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Re: A little worried. Girlfriend wants baby... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18067382 - 04/06/13 02:09 PM (10 years, 9 months ago)

its that extra hole, lets all the crazy in.


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