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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: Mr.GuessWork] 1
#18044773 - 04/02/13 01:29 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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1 week after taking anti-depressants, i'm thinking a lot clearer.
All this time i've made it my life goal to get with her, when my life goal should be working on myself and being more of a man. because lately, i've been acting like a total bitch and it's so pathetic.
We agreed to go out this thursday, and i have a feeling she won't pick up anyway. But maybe i shouldn't even bother calling her and just forget about this whole thing.
thanks for the advice and feedback. especially the people yelling at me for being stupid, i needed that.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: evenbreak]
#18044813 - 04/02/13 01:56 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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you next post better be about you getting laid. it's the only way to redeem yourself. make us proud son. they grow up soo fast
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#18045033 - 04/02/13 03:54 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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yeah, get fucking laid dude... call her up, take her out, and get laid.
slap her ass a little, too man. that'll instill the man back into you!
The chick wants you for sure. you just gotta get on up out there and get her. Good luck getting it up with those anti depressants, though, but it sounds like you've wanted this chick so bad, your libido will over power any anti erectional force in the universe.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18066731 - 04/06/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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I guess i got my closure.
We had a long talk. with lots of hugging, grinding, hand holding, a peck on the lips... she told me i made her wet after our walk was coming to an end so i slowly put my hand down her pants while staring in her eyes but she pulled my hand out after a couple seconds.
She says I arouse her and i turn her on. But then she says that she's a sex addict and likes to sleep around. And she's not looking for a relationship. So I ask if she wants to have sex with me, and she said she wouldn't mind. But then she told me she won't because we're coworkers and she's had a lot of bad experiences with that in the past.
I gave it my best shot. Made all the moves. I couldn't have been more forward, and she still said no.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: evenbreak]
#18066823 - 04/06/13 11:51 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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all that matters is you tried your best man, she was finally honest with you and even though it was probably not what you're hoping for, you finally know.
and like she said, she likes to sleep around. not good relationship material anyway.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#18066853 - 04/06/13 11:57 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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mushroom_sandwich said: all that matters is you tried your best man, she was finally honest with you and even though it was probably not what you're hoping for, you finally know.
and like she said, she likes to sleep around. not good relationship material anyway.
thanks man.
rejection always hurts, but on the bright side i gained a lot of experience with flirting and being more comfortable putting my hands on a girl, and i could still take this whole thing as an ego boost.
so it's ok, now i just need to get my life together. get a social life and meet other girls .
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: evenbreak]
#18066871 - 04/06/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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evenbreak said:
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mushroom_sandwich said: all that matters is you tried your best man, she was finally honest with you and even though it was probably not what you're hoping for, you finally know.
and like she said, she likes to sleep around. not good relationship material anyway.
thanks man.
rejection always hurts, but on the bright side i gained a lot of experience with flirting and being more comfortable putting my hands on a girl, and i could still take this whole thing as an ego boost.
so it's ok, now i just need to get my life together. get a social life and meet other girls .
exactly man! she even said she was attracted to you! just because one girl has problems doesn't mean there aren't a TON of girls looking for someone like you, go get em tiger.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#18067264 - 04/06/13 01:27 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Good for you OP
I think at the end of all this you came out on top.
You have closure, and are willing to move on now.
I was in a simular situation, things defiantly did not end up in my favour; but like you
I found closure, some people never find closure.
And that's what tears people apart, good on you for moving on.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: The5thElement] 2
#18068657 - 04/06/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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yea everyone else siad the gist of it, good shit op the world just got a bit brighter and stuff ya kno
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: Sheekle]
#18068905 - 04/06/13 08:00 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Any tips to getting over the longing and sadness?
Sadness that she basically told me she's fucking another guy and essentially would rather fuck him than me even if she's a self proclaimed nympho who doesn't want a relationship at this point of her life.
And longing for her touch. We touch each other a lot, and it feels so amazing. I know that i could give her a long intimate hug any time and just feel the oxycotin rushing through my blood afterwards. When I avoid her, i miss her terribly.
I called in sick today just so i won't have to see her, and it's almost like i'm experiencing drug withdrawal because i miss her a lot.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said no. [Re: evenbreak]
#18068927 - 04/06/13 08:04 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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hit up your favorite pron site and jerk it off.
fuck her man, you'll find something better. like you said, you got some experience out of it, now use those newly gained skills to catch some better fish.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said no. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#18069120 - 04/06/13 08:40 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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Dam, not being able to get laid from a sex addict must really suck, and not be good for a mans self esteem.
You don't ever want to fall in love with a whore/sex addict, cut your losses and consider yourself lucky.
How to get over this girl? Cut off communication as much as you can, and give it time.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: evenbreak]
#18069680 - 04/06/13 10:50 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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evenbreak said: Any tips to getting over the longing and sadness?
Sadness that she basically told me she's fucking another guy and essentially would rather fuck him than me even if she's a self proclaimed nympho who doesn't want a relationship at this point of her life.
And longing for her touch. We touch each other a lot, and it feels so amazing. I know that i could give her a long intimate hug any time and just feel the oxycotin rushing through my blood afterwards. When I avoid her, i miss her terribly.
I called in sick today just so i won't have to see her, and it's almost like i'm experiencing drug withdrawal because i miss her a lot.
You just have to move on, simple as that. You can't have her, accept that. You want to be close to SOMEONE, she is the object of that because of your interactions with her. Find someone else, simple as that.
You have to understand that you need to be able to be happy on your own, before being in a relationship with someone else. This is absolutely KEY, this is a must.
Dude, I wanna have a girlfriend probably just as much as you. I got so much shit up in the air right now, I need to find a place to live by the end of the month... I'm supposed to start my new job on monday, I have to start getting back into the gym and playing guitar, and get ready to set up my grow.... And yeah, I want someone close to me. I seriously spoon the fuck out of my pillow every night
Because I miss sleeping with another person.
But I'm also happy on my own, and I know if I wasn't able to be happy by myself, that I'd never find a girl in that state of mind.
You need to just simply move on, accept it. Fuck cutting off all communication, you work with her; thats not going to work. Your going to see her from time to time; probably everyday. So what!
Don't avoid her, just disconnect that feeling of wanting to be with SOMEONE- with her as the object of that connection. Do you know what I'm saying?
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: evenbreak]
#18080728 - 04/09/13 07:53 AM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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whoas. well man, that sounds better... or ya know.
the only advice for getting over people that i do, is to just... kinda.... empty them from your brain. i go thru memories and all and remember how it felt to get hurt and that i don't want it and then they become so far in my past that i feel like i'm a new person... i dunno.
hope you find some closure and get thangs squared away.
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: pachoo]
#18083310 - 04/09/13 05:37 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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hi pachoo
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: Sheekle]
#18084770 - 04/09/13 11:05 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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hellllllllllllllllllo sheekle. long time no talk. how's life?
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Re: my coworker that ive crushed on for 2 years said yes. [Re: pachoo]
#18088300 - 04/10/13 05:26 PM (10 years, 9 months ago) |
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right now life is feeling sleepy gentle and mellow but im supposed to be writing a paper
what about ur version of life how is it
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