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OfflineCheebatoke
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Super religous GF
    #1790231 - 08/07/03 11:02 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

I dont force my opinions on anyone else, nor do I try and change someone else beliefs.. my GF is a religous person while im the exact opposite. My beliefs dont really matter for this post but anyway- Every couple months she goes through this thing where she wants to not have sex nor move in together until after marriage for fear of going to hell, and all that. A revelation you could say. bah!

weve been together for almost a year and are engaged. On one hand I want to stand behind her and her beliefs, even though its not something I belief in.. whatever makes her a stronger person and gives her direction in life can only better her. And on the other hand.. I need that pun-tang, ya know?  :smirk:

What do you all think?


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1790243 - 08/07/03 11:05 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Some people are simply "believers" and do not understand their own mind. Ask yourself this, "Do I understand my own mind, does she?". Would you want to be with someone who doesnt understand themselves? It sounds like she is pretty impressionable, and religion left a major impression on her. I stay away from girls like that, but have at it, as you are not me!


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1790331 - 08/07/03 11:25 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

I wouldnt say shes impressionable, not at all. shes extremly smart about the world. Its just this thing with religion that she cant get past, we discuss it time and time again but she can always come up with an excuse for anything i tell her, no matter how half-ass it is, lol.

Other then these religous ideals holding her back shes perfect. And for her its the same way except im not religous, lol, ridiculous! We smoke together, enjoy shrooms together, etc.. shes the perfect woman for me besides the whole religous trippin.


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1790338 - 08/07/03 11:28 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

The way I see it: you never really know...all these religious people could be right, even if the rest of us think they are wrong.

I think you should respect her beliefs, and her decisions. She must mean a lot to you if you want to marry this woman, so can't you hold out just THAT much longer?

Have a date with Palmala Handerson  :wink:


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: trendal]
    #1790360 - 08/07/03 11:34 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Haha.. palmela is no match for the real thing.

I would stay with her if that was her decision. Id speed up the marriage though, hehehe. :P


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1790405 - 08/07/03 11:50 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

No harm there  :wink:



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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1790414 - 08/07/03 11:51 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Maybe you could look at it like this:

The longer you delay something that you are really wanting...the more you want it, right?

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Re: Super religous GF [Re: trendal]
    #1791424 - 08/08/03 10:33 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1792876 - 08/08/03 06:23 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

I have yet to meet a successfull couple that share opposing views on major issues such as religion. I mean it might not seem like a big deal now, since you are nice enough to respect her views and await marriage, but what happens once you are married? If she wants to marry in the church, will that be okay? What about when children are born and she wants to teach them the 'word of God' or take them to church every sunday or place them in a Christian school for studies?
It is not impossible to make it work but it will be difficult (more so then 'normal') and the comprimise will always be of your part since religious people tend to live by the rules of their religion. Think carefully and good luck on your decision.


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1796313 - 08/09/03 08:56 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

*shrugs* Ill do the whole marriage thing, whatever makes her and my family happy. As per her teaching our kids her views.. ill throw in my 2 cents as well, she already understands that.


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1807371 - 08/12/03 10:31 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

she might not understand when it comes time to save her child's soul.


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Cheebatoke]
    #1807669 - 08/12/03 11:52 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

That's exactly the kind of girl I want to marry. I want a catholic girl that thinks she'll burn in hell for ever cheating on me or evin thinking about a divorce. I'd play along to some extent. Say you also believe it's a sin and that cheating and divorce are mortal sins that can never be forgiven and you'll go to hell forever if you ever do them. Then she'll be with you out of love but she'll never leave you because of fear. I consider that the ideal.


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Re: Super religous GF [Re: Ellis Dee]
    #1813198 - 08/14/03 01:00 PM (13 years, 3 months ago)

Would it not be ideal to know that what keeps her from cheating or leaving is not some obscure power but her sincere love and devotion to you? I am not religious but I would never think about cheating or leaving my boyfriend, not because someone someday is going to send me to hell for it but because he is my best friend and most sincere companion. I would never wish to cause him harm, ever. If you are afraid of her leavin or cheating or hurting you then you don't really trust her which, on its own is another issue. There is nothing in this world, nothing, that can make a person stay with another when that person wishes to be somewhere else, not even religion.


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