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Anonymous #1
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I wanna be a Pick up artist
#17840188 - 02/21/13 08:35 AM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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Not to sleep with mad women , but to be able to be friends with anyone. is that bad?
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Anonymous #2
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Nope. But being friends sometimes helps with sleeping with them so you could win both ways
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Anonymous #1
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haha for sure , im more interested in meeting tons of girls so i can find a girl friend not really a player
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Pelidc
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Anonymous said: haha for sure , im more interested in meeting tons of girls so i can find a girl friend not really a player
Then just meet tons of girls, don't be one of those douchey pick up artists about it. Just say hi a lot.
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: Pelidc]
#17840233 - 02/21/13 08:50 AM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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nothing about pua is douchbaggy Its severely misunderstood You think they have magic powers over girls that make em do things they dont want to ?
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Lynnch
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'Pick up artist' Thats the point, there are no magic powers to get people to like you. You either have something in common and they are interested and attracted, or not. I think you'll have a lot more success meeting people if you aren't calculating psychological tactics and planning when to close the physical space or whatever that bullshit is about. Be genuine and actually try to get to know people, thats all it takes.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: Lynnch]
#17841298 - 02/21/13 12:30 PM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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But its failed me constantly in the past why would it just work now , plus i already over think the situation , if i atleast know whats happening i think ill be more calm and such
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Lynnch
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: Lynnch]
#17841605 - 02/21/13 01:19 PM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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And when they don't react the way your PUA book says, will you still be calm and know whats happening?
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Lynnch said: You either have something in common and they are interested and attracted, or not.
The last chick I met I just ran into at a coffee shop. She sat down on the patio at a table with a empty seat, so I snagged it then asked her if she minded me joining her ( ) We got to talking and it turned out she was trying to go to the university I went to, and we were into a lot of the same stuff. I didn't even get her number that day, but bumped into her again, and then again (though i'm pretty sure mutual friends set us up...) So it wasn't some line of bs that got her, just luck and enough in common that fate pushed us together.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: Lynnch]
#17841794 - 02/21/13 01:51 PM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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You can be attractive to someone and have similar interests but not knowing how to present the info or carry yourself will make the difference , happened to me less than two days ago , started reading some pua stuff and i can directly find where i went wrong , it shows me personally very obvious cause and effects that i need get away from
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Lynnch
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Like what?
I guess, in my opinion, going into these situations with a bunch of rules and techniques and dos and don'ts and and and, is just setting yourself up for failure. You said you overthink things, yet this sort of stuff is supposed to help you? Social interaction cannot be simplified into 'appear to be an alpha male = she'll be attracted'. It can however be simplified into 'Be yourself, and eventually you'll find someone like you, who likes you.'
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mpd
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: Lynnch]
#17842538 - 02/21/13 03:52 PM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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I'm ugly as two mud fences and learned the art of being personable and funny. Those two traits will always put you at the center of an ever-expanding audience of friends and admirers.
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: mpd]
#17842571 - 02/21/13 03:57 PM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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Im not trying to be a pua to pick up chicks , just to learn social dynamics so when i do overthink things its productive cause im not thinking about what i cant do or how to do something i dont know but ill be thinking about what i can be doing good and forthough not randoms crazy thoughts that make me nervous , we see pua very differently
I dont know about you but ive read books on it and movies and forums and it is nothing like the normal perception granted im not actually a pua
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XUL
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Anonymous said: Not to sleep with mad women , but to be able to be friends with anyone. is that bad?
Go to youtube and type in simplepickup. Watch their "get her number" videos. They are fucking hilarious! I really cried I was laughing so hard. And they are good at it!
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memes
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Anonymous said: Not to sleep with mad women , but to be able to be friends with anyone. is that bad?
I can be friends with anyone. I also can['t pick up any chick i want to fuck.
being sociable is not the same thing as being a pick up artist. if you really just wanted to be friends with everyone, you'd do it. as opposed to buying into the idea of some peacocked egocentric dbag (which, lets face it, most pick up artists TEND TO BE [not saying they all are])
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Re: I wanna be a Pick up artist [Re: memes]
#17844184 - 02/21/13 08:35 PM (11 years, 3 days ago) |
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I agree about the most pua artists part
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Kalypto
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I say do whatever helps but dont sacrifice your morals. I have a really hard time with all people , i feel like just knowing some stuff to talk about and knowing it to where i dont stumble on my words could , but ive never done more than browsed on it
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