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 Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on?  [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#17796147 - 02/13/13 03:55 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said:
Why is it a "moral" issue when someone wants to just have sex with another person and nothing else? Who decided what is "morally correct"? (not to you personally kroniko)
*Morally correct according to our society. Fixed 
I don't know who decided this, but it is the moral standard in the Americas. Who the fuck knows why or how it started?
As you can tell by my post in this thread yesterday, I'm the furthest from being morally correct with this situation (even if you weren't directing that comment towards me)
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#17796157 - 02/13/13 03:56 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said:
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dddd said:
sex with someone you love is better than any other kind.
I agree with this part, but sometimes sex for just the sex only is like having a different type of food.  If one can totally separate emotion, just have the sex, and have fun it is like a rollar-coaster ride. You don't ride those everyday, week, month and maybe once a year.
Also very true. 
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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: Hendostan]
#17796214 - 02/13/13 04:09 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hendostan said:
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tyrannicalrex said:
Why is it a "moral" issue when someone wants to just have sex with another person and nothing else? Who decided what is "morally correct"? (not to you personally kroniko)
Its only a moral issue when you betray the terms of your relationship. Normal mature people that get involved with eachother tend to eventually talk about things like monogamy, open relationships, etc and decide what works best. There's nothing morally wrong with any arrangement as long as you are both on the same page. Cheating happens when there's a lack of communication and one partner feels their needs aren't being met, so they seek it out elsewhere. A lot of pain and suffering in relationships could be avoided if people just talked more.
BINGO! So true. But in beginning these talks with potential mates they usually want nothing to do with someone open and free because of ingrained conceptions of what is "right/moral".
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#17796258 - 02/13/13 04:16 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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There are a whole lot of people in the world who think the same way as you, and you can generally feel people out in regard to their attitudes and beliefs when getting to know them. Its really not too uncommon to have a more fluid definition of monogamy in relationships these days. Again, its all about honesty.
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: Hendostan]
#17796270 - 02/13/13 04:17 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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Where are they? LOL, I seem to have trouble finding them. I do live in the south though, Texas to be exact.
Edited by tyrannicalrex (02/13/13 04:18 PM)
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: Hendostan]
#17796286 - 02/13/13 04:19 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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Honesty and communication are definitely incredibly important in a relationship.
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: dddd]
#17796805 - 02/13/13 05:49 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've had something similar to cheating done, I wouldn't cheat.
I want a girl that would want to maybe have sex with other girls though.
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lilhippiegirl
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Re: Did you ever cheat or have been cheated on? [Re: laysie]
#17798089 - 02/13/13 09:47 PM (11 years, 2 months ago) |
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See a lot of guys see that as cheating also I had girlfriends and boyfriends at the same time but they knew about each other so....
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