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Orgasms aren't really satisfyin
#17677912 - 01/31/13 05:29 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Hello, help me dear Shroomerites. Sorry for engrish in advance... It's gay sex but maybe str8 guys can correlate...
I think this is going on since I started having sex. Find a partner who is worth dating and then relationship. Everything goes great and then sex comes. I don't know did I get dissapointed at first when I saw what sex was or smt but I remember only few occasion when sex was better then masturbating. The thing is I see my partners over and over again in immense excitement and pleasure while we sex or ejaculate. I never had very powerful orgasm (except once when everything started vibrating and feeling very buzzy in my crotch). What I experience then think was innuendo of real orgasm but im not sure. How do you literal feel when it happens to you?
Dont get me wrong, I have strong sex drive and have regular sex which feels good but cant get away from feeling something is missing at the end... I've tried not masturbating for longer periods of time. Once gotten nearly a month. It gets me definitely hornier but lack of some emotions regarding ejaculation still remain.
Maybe I'm just trippin and want to find something that isnt there. All partners said that I'm a great sex partner (I'm well equipped) and can switch roles easily cuz Im versatile. Dont have any confidence issues or emotional.
Recently I've started dating one guy, and we had sex few times. I really like him and think I'm falling in love with him but sex thing remains, it just isn't satisfying. I can literally see him swirling in pleasure and I'm like stone cold inside but not showing it cuz it would make them feel bad. Don't know is it just years of unsatisfactory sex or what... To addition I don't have troubles correlating or emotionally bonding. Usually I'm more stable one and have good sex skills.
Dont know what else to say, if something comes up ill add it...
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#17678086 - 01/31/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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You treat orgasm's as a psychedelic. When you begin to build a tolerance, you take a break.
The magic will come back soon.
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Wise Toad

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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Tmethyl]
#17678157 - 01/31/13 06:11 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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So what drugs are you on when you have sex?
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#17678187 - 01/31/13 06:17 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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IME not every orgasm is great some can be a lot worse or better than others.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Connoisseur]
#17679691 - 01/31/13 06:44 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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@OnlineTmethyl: Thats a good advice, Ill try that 
@Wise Toad: I tried weed few times but its kinda boring when partner doesnt use it, kinda not fair. It was great that few times cuz of the slow effect I but rarely use it. Wanna try sex on shrooms when I find someone whos up to that. Oh yes, tried 2-3 times poppers, was lame cuz u have to take it several times so no more of that...
@Connoisseur: Yeah, sure there are better and worse. I was aiming for overall feeling :/
It would be nice if someone describes how they feel during one if u have time ^^
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#17679754 - 01/31/13 06:53 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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If you could just find a partner who would smoke with you
Weed alone doesn't do that much for me, it must be combined with 1-3 shots of vodka
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Wise Toad]
#17722980 - 01/31/13 07:32 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Current partner has decided that he wants to try weed for the first time. I wont push him at start to have sex on it but will suggest as pleasure enhancement. Would add alcohol if only my stomach wasn't so upset when taking it, makes me sleepy or causes nausea so i prefer weed...
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#17726605 - 02/01/13 01:18 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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nah weed and sex imo is not a good mix.. if the girl is super hot then maybe, but i'd rather fuck right before, because its like a workout, and nothing feels better then smoking a nice jay after a workout to relax
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: itchmynipple]
#17727793 - 02/01/13 05:32 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Do you take antidepressants? Or have you before?
They can cause this.
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: EdibleStereos]
#17730802 - 02/02/13 03:37 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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No never, nor any other medication. It's not like I have problem with sex itself but rather the empty feeling about orgasm...
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: itchmynipple]
#17735568 - 02/02/13 10:30 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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itchmynipple said: nah weed and sex imo is not a good mix.. if the girl is super hot then maybe, but i'd rather fuck right before, because its like a workout, and nothing feels better then smoking a nice jay after a workout to relax

Weed is the best sex toy I have ever had, EVER
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: Anonymous #1]
#17735998 - 02/03/13 12:05 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: No never, nor any other medication. It's not like I have problem with sex itself but rather the empty feeling about orgasm...
What about drugs that act on the serotonin system? like mdma?
Dont want to sound rude, but have you tried fucking a girl?
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: EdibleStereos]
#17737884 - 02/03/13 11:22 AM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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EdibleStereos said:
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Anonymous said: No never, nor any other medication. It's not like I have problem with sex itself but rather the empty feeling about orgasm...
What about drugs that act on the serotonin system? like mdma?
Dont want to sound rude, but have you tried fucking a girl?
in highschool i heard that mdma was amazing on sex.
nowadays i hear the opposite, as in, its better to not have sex on mdma, and also its dangerous regarding dehydration
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: itchmynipple]
#17738653 - 02/03/13 02:10 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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To me it's almost impossible to cum on MDMA at an average dose. Don't know how it acts on low doses. Obviously women are an exclusion to that phenomenon, so I'd say it's a sex drug for women.
Have several friends on both sides that confirm this.
Dehydration is no serious problem with MDMA if your not totally disregarding your body. Just think of drinking once in a while and get naked so your body temperature doesn't get to high.
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: itchmynipple]
#17744236 - 02/04/13 02:28 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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itchmynipple said: in highschool i heard that mdma was amazing on sex.
nowadays i hear the opposite, as in, its better to not have sex on mdma, and also its dangerous regarding dehydration
the ONE time i did mdma in my entire life i was with a girl. and the bliss was just amazing, like this total sense of love and connection.
and then we fucked, and it ruined everything. like it just ruined the entire feel-good, lovey dovey feeling. i couldn't even get a full boner too lol. and that's generally not an issue.
looking back, i know it sounds gay but i wish we would have just cuddled and soaked up the loving feeling all night instead. cuz it was amazing. and the sex itself might be the worst i ever had. it just felt weird. and afterwards i don't think we ever hung out again, lol...strange times.
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Murzelpfrumpft said: To me it's almost impossible to cum on MDMA at an average dose. Don't know how it acts on low doses. Obviously women are an exclusion to that phenomenon, so I'd say it's a sex drug for women.
Have several friends on both sides that confirm this.
Dehydration is no serious problem with MDMA if your not totally disregarding your body. Just think of drinking once in a while and get naked so your body temperature doesn't get to high.
Why do you say obviously women are excluded from that? All of my women friends have told me they can't cum on MDMA either.
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Re: Orgasms aren't really satisfyin [Re: pwnasaurus]
#17744746 - 02/04/13 04:00 PM (10 years, 11 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said:
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Murzelpfrumpft said: To me it's almost impossible to cum on MDMA at an average dose. Don't know how it acts on low doses. Obviously women are an exclusion to that phenomenon, so I'd say it's a sex drug for women.
Have several friends on both sides that confirm this.
Dehydration is no serious problem with MDMA if your not totally disregarding your body. Just think of drinking once in a while and get naked so your body temperature doesn't get to high.
Why do you say obviously women are excluded from that? All of my women friends have told me they can't cum on MDMA either.
This is really weird. My gf becomes extremely horny from that & cums like all the time from it. Another girl I know sometimes insists on being given MDMA because it makes her orgasms so intense.
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