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 CosmicJoke
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 sexual behavior 
#1767780 - 07/31/03 11:04 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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i had been fantasizing about this porn mag centerfold for a real long time and then happened to bump into him at the bar when he was passing through the city. unbelievably, i wound up going to his hotel and living out this wild fantasy of mine.
now, all week, my normal sexual partners and guys i've picked up at the bar just seem boring.
at 23, i think i should be having a totally fantastic sex life, and at the rate i'm going i'm lucky to have a fantastic sexual adventure every couple months.
seems ridiculous, but there just aren't enough people in my city that really turn me on and are sexually talented.
i can't think of any solutions other than moving to san francisco, 'cuz between the online profiles and stories i've heard from people, that's where i'd find what i'm looking for.
it's hard to say if my problem lies within my attitude or whether i should just be honest with what i really want and go for it.
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If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.
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Xibalba
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 Re: sexual behavior [Re: CosmicJoke]
#1767989 - 08/01/03 12:29 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Edited by Xibalba (09/30/05 12:27 AM)
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CosmicJoke
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Xibalba]
#1815791 - 08/15/03 12:58 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well, I reckon I wasn't asking for anybody's sympathy. But, I guess the quality of my sex-life does effect my self-esteem. I find that looks, spirit, and personality all closely intertwine with the people I find sexually attractive, one's inner beauty compliments one's outer beauty too, like they're two peas in the same pod. I do look for deep, lasting friendships that extend into erotic dimensions, but am not looking for sex that "means something" in the way I think you're imagining it.
The last time I was in love with somebody the way I believe you to be spelling it out was about 1 year ago, and the hopes, dreams, and aspirations for that relationship and building a life around that man taught me a lot. They were a real transformation in my psyche that I will never forget. I guess I'm not so quick to fall into that situation as before, I feel I have the space to explore freely and work with those I care about for possibly many, many years before I am undeniably ready to share a life with to my dying days.
I had the most incredible sex with a biker from Chicago on a business trip where the pheremones were truly stirred in me. Not from looks, but a both/and, the whole package was a treat to my whole being.
had the most incredible sex with a biker on a business trip from Chicago the other night.
I need these experiences, as much as I need to cut out other experiences or at least those experiences need to evolve into something more fulfilling. I need to cut out the fillers.
In my lifestyle, if you saw the centerfolds I fall for aren't your typical glossy, hollywood scene. They're real people, and many, many friends and acquaintances from my culture have had the pleasure of being a centerfold. It's really an unbelievable phenomenon.
Anyhoo, I'm a bit happier with where things are headed than when I've posted. Enough said. Peace, bro.
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Everything is better than it was the last time. I'm good.
If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.
It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.
I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too. If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.
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Sammi
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: CosmicJoke]
#1819002 - 08/16/03 01:33 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think what you need to do is sit down and think about what you are really looking for and why your having sex with so many random guys.
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 soylent_green
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Sammi]
#1819441 - 08/16/03 09:59 AM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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as long as your safe about it...i don't see a prolbem with you having sex with random people...
but that really can't be the biggest prolbem you should be worried about can it?
but if it is...than why not move?
althou i'm pretty sure there will be the same kinda people all over the place no matter whear you go...
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lucid
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quit whinning I havn't had sex in 2 YEARS !!!! 
not even a kiss...snif...
I am Jack's diminished Libido...
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lucid
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 Re: sexual behavior [Re: lucid]
#1820096 - 08/16/03 02:52 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
lucid said:
quit whinning I havn't had sex in 2 YEARS !!!!
not even a kiss...snif...
I am Jack's diminished Libido...
if yer a gurl, move to Montreal n give me
a kiss n hug every once in a while and
a bit of company... that be enough...
u know how the song goes...
"all i need is your extra time and your....Kiss..."
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lucid
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Xibalba]
#1820110 - 08/16/03 02:56 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Xibalba said:
In my opinion?
Definitely your attitude.
since I'm now wrapping up my 283rd consecutive month without so much as a kiss. But other than that, I'm
wait...that's over 23 years without a kiss... wuz that a typo ?
how old r u ?
r u 23 and never been kissed ? is that the catch ? cuz that
doesn't count...u have to first be kissed,blissed and then
tormented by the lack thereof...
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Strumpling
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: CosmicJoke]
#1821207 - 08/16/03 09:15 PM (20 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah it sounds like you need an attitude adjustment man heh you're all about you 
Train up these other partners.. communicate... loosen them up.. tell them about this other experience that has kind of soured everything else... and most of all - don't forget that "At Least I'm Getting Laid."
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: CosmicJoke]
#1826673 - 08/18/03 02:13 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sounds like you have unreasonably high expectations.
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Phluck
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: CosmicJoke]
#1834877 - 08/20/03 07:16 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Do whatever you feel like.
If sex is your favorite thing in life, why not get the best sex you can?
Just be safe.
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"I have no valid complaint against hustlers. No rational bitch. But the act of selling is repulsive to me. I harbor a secret urge to whack a salesman in the face, crack his teeth and put red bumps around his eyes." -Hunter S Thompson
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Fungi_x
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Phluck]
#1836221 - 08/21/03 03:57 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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slut
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Azmodeus
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Fungi_x]
#1836826 - 08/21/03 10:37 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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I agree, she does appear to be a slut, but why not move and make money in porn? 
I wonder if she'd fuck girls too....,cosmic joke, is there anything you wouldn't do?...as far as a porn career goes?
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gnrm23
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Azmodeus]
#1837352 - 08/21/03 01:09 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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she who???
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old enough to know better
not old enough to care
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Azmodeus
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: gnrm23]
#1837605 - 08/21/03 02:22 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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....take a wild guess..... 
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Lest we forget. "
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Azmodeus]
#1837993 - 08/21/03 04:21 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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i think cosmic joke is a he.
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Azmodeus
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: ]
#1838042 - 08/21/03 04:39 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
LoOnEr said:
i think cosmic joke is a he.
"i had been fantasizing about this porn mag centerfold for a real long time and then happened to bump into him at the bar when he was passing through the city."
that is fucking disgusting! nothng against homos, but the mental image i was just assulted with is definately not cool....
ewww.........
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Lest we forget. "
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vampirism
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: Azmodeus]
#1838600 - 08/21/03 07:25 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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either way, i don't think she/he is a slut
actually, i think it's quite rude and judgemental to call someone a slut- that presumes ALOT
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pattern
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: ]
#1838834 - 08/21/03 08:41 PM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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This thread gets better and better.
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man = monkey + mushroom
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Azmodeus
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Re: sexual behavior [Re: ]
#1840182 - 08/22/03 10:14 AM (20 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Morrowind said:
either way, i don't think she/he is a slut
actually, i think it's quite rude and judgemental to call someone a slut- that presumes ALOT
Well i think its rude and judgemental to NOT call her....er him...it, a slut when they say...
"now, all week, my normal sexual partners and guys i've picked up at the bar just seem boring.
seems ridiculous, but there just aren't enough people in my city that really turn me on and are sexually talented.
i can't think of any solutions other than moving to san francisco, 'cuz between the online profiles and stories i've heard from people, that's where i'd find what i'm looking for."
If that is not the definition of slutism, then tar me up and slap me with feathers, cus to think otherwise is to presume ALOT....all i go on is what i've read.
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"Know your Body - Know your Mind - Know your Substance - Know your Source.
Lest we forget. "
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