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Mello Kitty
Beautiful Burnout
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i'm over it...
#17634412 - 01/30/13 10:54 AM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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can it be ? im over my Ex..?
havent talked to him in over a month now. things were weird and i was sent mixed signals. he took me to the airport to go to rehab. he dropped me off, we hugged & kissed and we told each other " i love you ". but prior to that i had to get high before i got on the plane or it would have been a disastrous mess. so i had to expose him to how bad ive gotten IE- shooting heroin, and i felt like i should be honest with him so i told him everything i have been through in the past months that he kicked me out and broke it off.
i spent 7 days in a medical detox. i called him while i was there and he didnt even want to speak with me, he was disgusted with me. so i went into rehab and called him 2 weeks after that. he was very cold to me and reminded me that we are OVER. this upset me terribly but i got over it, i got over him. the grieving period i went thru felt as tho i was withdrawing from another drug. i understand that it is not reconcilable and i dont blame anyone but myself. i know that we were both unhappy in our own way and he deserves better. he put all my stuff into a storage unit so i will now be forced to talk to him to get all my stuff back. i really dont want to see or hear from him but this is making it inevitable.
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koraks
Registered: 06/02/03
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Well, I think it's good to hear you're over him, if it didn't work. It obviously freaked him out to see how bad a state you were in when you went into rehab, and it seems he couldn't handle it. I'm not sure if anyone's to blame for that - it's just how things go sometimes.
The important thing is that you seem to have got your feet back on the ground, which is great! I personally would try to avoid any contact with your ex. Perhaps you could try and get your stuff back through a mutual friend; have them pick up the key and whatnot? I imagine it would benefit the both of you if you could postpone meeting each other to a moment you choose, and not being forced to. Does that make any sense?
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Connoisseur
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Good for u Ellen dont let people make or break you
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fbi365
Captain of the Sinking Ship
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This is impressively quick to get over someone who you profess to love. The time line somehow isn't adding up for me. I know you have been dealing with this for sometime now. Definitely longer than a month. But I guess you said that was the last time you TALKED to him. I guess some people move on more quickly than others.
This is a support forum and so I'm here to support you :-). But I hope you learn that you can't put another person you claim to care about in this situation again. Its not fair to either of you. I can bet this is not easy on him either. This includes ambiguous fwbs situations, one night stands, etc.
I debated on posting this anon. As I am dealing with some problems getting over an ex. And am not in the most positive disposition vis a vis the fairer sex.
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candyflip420
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Re: i'm over it... [Re: fbi365]
#17640715 - 01/30/13 09:59 PM (11 years, 1 month ago) |
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Look on the bright side now that you are clean and sober you will look , act and feel better . So might as well leave the past with the past and enjoy the present . I bet you'll even find someone better in the process
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